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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Safiaa(f): 7:04pm On Apr 21, 2018
When you log off the internet and face reality all of this goes down the drain grin it’s all a fallacy. Wish you all a happy married life in the future grin
Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Nobody: 7:21pm On Apr 21, 2018
Psychodavidovic:
This piece just burst my brian. grin

From Christian angle, to society angle, to business angle and men are at the losing end in all three. grin

Op this you write up na 9/10.

lol...thanks a lot bro
Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Nobody: 7:37pm On Apr 21, 2018
If u marry a woman that u have the same shared value u will enjoy the marriage. Unfortunately most guys these days will just see a slayqueen on the street,entice her with money and get married to her even without taking time to studying her. The end result na double kasala for d guy in marriage.

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by juche(m): 7:41pm On Apr 21, 2018
Op., this your write up is the exhibition of the highest level of foolery. Marriage is a choice . I am married and that's the best thing that has happened to me. So stop this foolery.
Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Psychodavidovic(m): 8:59pm On Apr 21, 2018
juche:
Op., this your write up is the exhibition of the highest level of foolery. Marriage is a choice . I am married and that's the best thing that has happened to me. So stop this foolery.

You said marriage is a choice.

He choose not to get married and give his reasons as to why he choose not to get married and all of sudden, he is a fool ?

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 9:20pm On Apr 21, 2018
Op thank you very much.If you know you know

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Kimcutie: 9:53pm On Apr 21, 2018
Superb.
Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by jwals: 10:51pm On Apr 21, 2018
Ebuka2016:
i want you guys to see marriage as what it really is: a means of extortion (the women trying really hard to extort money from men by all means possible and they are pretty good at it).

When God created Adam, He saw that Adam was lonely and needed a companion, so He created Eve (heck, why wouldn't Adam feel lonely when it was only him in the whole Eden?). God was right by creating Eve to be a companion for Adam. Maybe, someway, God did know what was about to befall man so He gave Adam a human being who is able to give birth.

When Eve ate the forbidden fruit and both (Adam and Eve) were chased away from the garden of Eden, God cursed man saying that he would really suffer a great deal to feed, He had made the soil stubborn and said man shall feed by his own sweat. He cursed woman saying that she would suffer a lot during child birth.

There are two things i didnt read He said which the society have tried to impose on men: that a man must be the one to take care of a woman (that a woman must live off men's hardwork/sweat/money). Then again, i didnt read from the Bible that God said a woman is incapable of working hard to fend for herself.

Now, there is the issue of marriage. In the new testament, it is written that a man and woman should (not must) come together to become one. I read somewhere that St.Paul said that if a man can't hold himself or prevent himself from sexual sin, then he should by all means marry. From what i wrote above, you can see that marriage is very very optional.

The society have gone against the two teachings above by making it seem like a man should bear the whole resbonsibility of a woman. If a man decides to date a woman today, his friends will dissuade him and tell him to make money first. If by the grace of God, the man in question has already 'got what it takes'- money, but happens to be very prudent with money, the woman backs out. It seems everything now depends on money and while this mindset is very wrong from the word go, we men have come to accept it. But here comes the problem...

We discovered that marriage have become business. Infact, the whole boy-girl relationship (dating, etc) is now business- women get paid to give men whatever it is they stand to gain from a boy and gal/man and woman relationship. So its time to think from a business perspective.

In the normal business scene, prices of goods and services are set based on a number of criteria/laws. The most basic of these laws state that the price for good/commodity would be generally low if: the overall value for it is low. Did you guys get the drift?

Now back to the dating/marriage scene. A man is thought to be of high value if he has money (at least thats what the society has made us belive). So a made man brings his money into the picture, looking at his account balance and his salary you are pretty sure he can take care of not only you and your family but also your village people just incase they also want in on his money. Heck the man may be handsome too. But here is the shocker....


A woman brings in her womb only as an advantage, the rest are disadvantages. We are treating this from a business perspective remember? So if the woman is pretty (of course we expect her to be pretty), her pretiness should be inversely proportional to the size of the mans pocket. Now ask yourself how much a pretty woman is worth. Assuming a man is as rich as Jeff Bezos, do you think the most pretty woman on earth is worth his whole value and money? No, absolutely not. So apparently men are being ripped off here but we'll take that for granted anyway.

So talk of the most important thing a woman brings to the table- her womb. Most women have wombs, if not all. Most women can give birth. Womb is the same thing everywhere. Now some women have decided to use their wombs anyhow. They are ready to birth your child even if you all you have to give in return is just 200k (naira). This set of women range from pretty to ugly, so why the price can go well above 200k, you can get some wombs for something much lower than 200k. Am not talking about the woman literally removing her womb to give to you, am talking about the woman allowing you to get her pregnant (use her womb). Now this is a sin, you had premarital sex so it is a sin. You could go to hell because of this just like everyother sin. But thats it, nothing else.

But do you know the biggest rip off women pull on men, they make you buy that same womb for several million naira (aka marriage). In this case, you are guaranteed to gain just one thing- you dont get to add one extra sin to your heap of sins. Other things like trust, faithfullness, etc, even the very child you are buying the womb for is not guaranteed. What you are guaranteed to loose? Lots of money. You will take care of her for the rest of her life, you will take care of her family, etc. Your freedom. You cant just go out and come back when you want, you cant hang around with lots of women if you want, even you cant continue hanging around with some of your male buddies. There are lots of things to loose. And of course men dont necessarily need a woman's love.

Now the conclusion. If you know anything at all about business then you'd agree with me that this is bad business. Women have been ripping men off since God knows when and most of us dont know. While its bad to be ripped off, its even worst for you to think that even tho you dont like being ripped off, you dont have any option than to be ripped off. You clearly have an option. So having read this, you can decide whether you want to continue being ripped off or not.

This up here is the plain undiluted truth that all men deserve to know...

If you dont wanna marry, then by all means stay single and happy. You Only Live Once.
this Op is a real Nigga raw!!!!! What a business analysis indeed.

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Jeferious: 11:22pm On Apr 21, 2018
10 years ago, I would condemn this article vehemently. But having grown well into adulthood...as well as having understood that people(not just ladies) are way more selfish and self-centered than can be imagined, I currently stand with the op.

These are the 'last days' when men shall become lover of themselves, and as a last-day dude, I'm a lover of myself. Anyone who is honest would agree with the op's view too. On the other hand, people who would see negativity in this realist's viewpoint are either very dependent or manipulative fellows...or a combination of the two.

People who are mentally, emotionally and financially strong are not bothered at all.

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Immaculatesnow(m): 1:00am On Apr 22, 2018
Great post women are the biggest scam since creation behind 99percent fake pastors in Nigeria, Imagine most people will come in Nigeria and say my mother was my every every forgetting the father that fed them to grow up and say those crap and not glorify them as great fathers there are, its only in death most people remember their fathers, TOO BAD.

FYI i was brought up by my father only and no mother involved with my up bringing and i have no regrets cus i love my late dad great man in my life screw women and marriage.

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by QTEST007(m): 3:58am On Apr 22, 2018
DEM SLAYMAMAS WILL NOT LIKE THIS

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by lereinter(m): 7:33am On Apr 22, 2018
Humblesam:
Wetin bring all this frustration and confusion come this country,for Christ sake.

we have a cursed president

through him God is punishing nigerians for her sins

but alas like pharoah, buhari will perish in the red sea
Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by partnerbiz4: 7:34am On Apr 22, 2018
savvy12:
This is the most stupid post I have ever read.Your mother must be a worthless woman,for you to post this kind of thrash.
just remain single and leave women alone.No one is forcing you to marry.
I'm beginning to think NL guys are senseless.The post I see on this forum everyday is making me question the sanity of some people.

They are senseless and you are intelligent. Stop the contumelies. Attack him with ratiocination.

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by partnerbiz4: 7:35am On Apr 22, 2018
whitebeard:
One fuckar will just wake up and post trash on net and misguided fellows will follow..OP don't marry it ur fvcking choice..stop telling me why a man shouldn't marry, u know what, fvck u, fvck ur stupid trashlike rubbish, fvck ur way of thinking, most of all fvck u again..!

Stop insults. Refute his messages logically.

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Nasri100(m): 9:25am On Apr 22, 2018
Jeferious:
10 years ago, I would condemn this article vehemently. But having grown well into adulthood...as well as having understood that people(not just ladies) are way more selfish and self-centered than can be imagined, I currently stand with the op.

These are the 'last days' when men shall become lover of themselves, and as a last-day dude, I'm a lover of myself. Anyone who is honest would agree with the op's view too. On the other hand, people who would see negativity in this realist's viewpoint are either very dependent or manipulative fellows...or a combination of the two.

People who are mentally, emotionally and financially strong are not bothered at all.

Mate you are an alpha male. You already know how it goes. Bless.

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Rubbiish(m): 9:39am On Apr 22, 2018
This is quite a revealing write up...Op nice one... Marriage is very very optional...but most people don't know this.

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Rubbiish(m): 9:40am On Apr 22, 2018
highpriestess:
[s]total crap.
it's either you are medically not okay or you are financially not buoyant[/s].

Shut up!

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Rubbiish(m): 9:44am On Apr 22, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
nice write-up
There is no way a lady is the one operating this account...I can stake 1million dollars on it...U are a guy!
Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Rubbiish(m): 9:46am On Apr 22, 2018
Safiaa:
[s]When you log off the internet and face reality all of this goes down the drain grin it’s all a fallacy. Wish you all a happy married life in the future[/s] grin
He spoke nothing but the hidden truth!

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Safiaa(f): 9:48am On Apr 22, 2018
Rubbiish:

He spoke nothing but the hidden truth!
okay, but when you log off, you go back to the reality.
Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Rubbiish(m): 9:51am On Apr 22, 2018
Safiaa:
okay, but when you log off, you go back to the reality.
U call your opinion reality? Lolz..

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 10:26am On Apr 22, 2018
Rubbiish:

There is no way a lady is the one operating this account...I can stake 1million dollars on it...U are a guy!

you actually know me in this section right my account was hacked on Friday night because I couldn't login till last night when I retrieved with my email.
Even my main account (theupsetgirl) has been hacked for the past 2weeks, I tried retrieving it but I couldn't .
The password I used for my two accounts initially Is very simple, I used Upsetgirl it's very simple to guess.

Anyways I can't say more.
Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by SmellingAnus(m): 11:04am On Apr 22, 2018
Jeferious:
10 years ago, I would condemn this article vehemently. But having grown well into adulthood...as well as having understood that people(not just ladies) are way more selfish and self-centered than can be imagined, I currently stand with the op.

These are the 'last days' when men shall become lover of themselves, and as a last-day dude, I'm a lover of myself. Anyone who is honest would agree with the op's view too. On the other hand, people who would see negativity in this realist's viewpoint are either very dependent or manipulative fellows...or a combination of the two.

People who are mentally, emotionally and financially strong are not bothered at all.
spot on bro..

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by SmellingAnus(m): 11:07am On Apr 22, 2018
Op let me not lie... You made much sense although I will still get married but I already understand that marriage these days is most times about personal interest...

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by urvillagepeoplee(m): 12:00pm On Apr 22, 2018
good job op,I didn't know there are other men thinking like me in this world,why will I go and adopt a full grown ass woman and feed her till I go to my grave while she does nothing. I am not one of those guys who get freaked by pussy,I don't have a girl friend and I don't need one,why will I spend my hard earned money on a slack pussy that will be given to my neighbors and friends tomorrow when am broke, I have decided to have just kids and take care of them,never will I put any of these walking dead girls whom yahoo boys have used their destinies for rituals inside my house as a wife. wife materials stop existing in the eras of our mothers,what we have now are empty vessels,bleeping their lives away for money that can't even buy pencil light Camry and later surrender an over use pusy to one niggar that has suffered to make it and still depend solely on the guy. is it these ones that smokes weed and shisha,drink all types of hard drugs and codeine,club their lives away every Friday and wake up in different hotel rooms and houses on Saturdays ,and when leaving the guy gives them 3k to 5k that won't get them any useful thing and before Friday again,the circle continues. I have lived in warri,Benin and abuja mostly among other places I have visited and the girls I see there doesn't give me the impression of ever getting married. I wonder how they manage to live happily after all the dirty lives they lived in the past,no wonder some give birth to kids that doesn't resemble anybody from each family. its my life and my decision and I stated my experience/opinion,I didnt quote or mention anybody,so nobody should quote me.
I like quarrel pass fight,check my history.

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Jeferious: 12:12pm On Apr 22, 2018
Nasri100:


Mate you are an alpha male. You already know how it goes. Bless.
Alpha male That compliment is way too much for me now. I would claim it possessively when I fully develop the character of Ragnar Lothbrock, replicate the exploits of Alexander the great as well as earn as much respect as Michael Corleone in 'The Godfather'.

No mind me joor. I'm a very ambitious and vain person. Thanks all the same for the compliment

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Nasri100(m): 1:02pm On Apr 22, 2018
Jeferious:
Alpha male That compliment is way too much for me now. I would claim it possessively when I fully develop the character of Ragnar Lothbrock, replicate the exploits of Alexander the great as well as earn as much respect as Michael Corleone in 'The Godfather'.

No mind me joor. I'm a very ambitious and vain person. Thanks all the same for the compliment

Haha. The God father is just an excellent movie

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Nobody: 1:29pm On Apr 22, 2018
I see where you are coming from.

But you posted this in the wrong section .

Wrong forum even .

Wrong platform too.

If you seek the truth Google Rollo tomassi .

Those that know don't bother posting about it here .

r/theredpill on Reddit.com will understand not here not in this country .

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Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Rubbiish(m): 1:51pm On Apr 22, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


you actually know me in this section right my account was hacked on Friday night because I couldn't login till last night when I retrieved with my email.
Even my main account (theupsetgirl) has been hacked for the past 2weeks, I tried retrieving it but I couldn't .
The password I used for my two accounts initially Is very simple, I used Upsetgirl it's very simple to guess.

Anyways I can't say more.
Quite strange...
Why would someone hack your NL account?
Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 1:55pm On Apr 22, 2018
Rubbiish:
Quite strange... Why would someone hack your NL account?
haters
Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Jeferious: 1:56pm On Apr 22, 2018
Nasri100:


Haha. The God father is just an excellent movie
Too excellent for a movie produced in the 1970's. It's my personal best of all times.
Re: As A Man, This Is The Reason Why You Should Never Marry. by Jaelluiz: 1:58pm On Apr 22, 2018
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