ways to fix your wife - when she is falling apart!

Your wife can be dying in silence while still performing her wifely duties. You will need to know her to know when she needs to be fixed.
When a woman is always moody, cries a lot, yells on Children, can easily sleep or sleeps a lot, she may be battling with something you are not careful enough to see.

A real man will not allow his wife to fall apart without fixing her and making her better and happy.

If you discover your wife is falling apart, watch out and fix the following:

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.CHECK IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM
You might be her problem, but out of her respect and love for you, she may not tell you. Ask, let her talk sincerely


. BE AWARE OF HER RESPONSIBILITIES
Get to know how her work load is killing her. Regardless of whether she stays at home or goes to work, do you know what she does all day? If you don’t, ask her. Her to-do list is probably overflowing with tasks that far outweighs her time and energy.


. BE APPRECIATIVE
Be mindful of her needs and appreciative of her sacrifices. The work a woman does at home can be too common that nobody will appreciate her for them, this can be killing her. Appreciate your wife


.GET INVOLVED BEFORE SHE BURNS OUT
Don’t just be appreciative, but get involved. The best time to begin helping your wife is now. Don’t wait until she breaks down to offer a helping hand.


.GET MACHINE
Get all the machine needed for her work at home (the ones you can afford). Dish washer, gas cooker, refrigerator, oven, laundering Machine, etc


.BE AN ACTIVE PARTICIPANT
Be totally involved at home, stop delegating parenting and family life. Don’t be a “visiting Professor”, be an active partner in this business of your life. It takes two to parent. It takes two to make a marriage work. It takes two to run a household. Be fully involved in every aspect of your family life.


. HOLD HER
Hold her like a lover and a friend. Place your hands on her shoulder, her laps, hold her hands, just hold her and let her feel you.


. JUST LISTEN
Men are known to be good talker but very bad listeners. At times what your wife needs is for you to just listen. Do not interrupt, let her unburden, let her talk. Sometimes the best way for a woman to reset is by getting all of her thoughts out. Let your wife talk through her feelings and problems. Show empathy. Listen carefully. Ask questions. Be fully engaged in the conversation.


. BE A PARTNER NOT A TEACHER
Most men do fall into the “Teaching trap” when they are supposed to be a partner, showing love and consideration. Do not blame, just be there for her. Just listen. That’s all you need to do. And if she wants you to offer solutions, she’ll ask for them


. GIVE HER HOPE
No matter what happens, don’t ever raise up your hands in surrender. Giving up, crying or weeping will hurt your wife more. Encourage her. Let her know what you love about her. Help her see the good in any situation. Avoid being critical or negative. When she has hit the rock bottom, be the man who lifts her up, and brings light and hope back into her life.


. BE SENSITIVE
Get to know her mood, get to know her needs, get to know what is needed to be done at home and do them without prompting.
Learn the art of looking around the house and finding things that need to get done. Are there dishes in the sink? What is broken that needs to be fixed? Don’t wait to be asked. Just do it!


.PRAY FOR HER
Take your time off to pray for her, hand her over to her maker who knows the deepest need of her heart . Let God fix her, you can’t do it.

Let God know what you appreciate about her. Ask for his help. Ask him to tell you how you can be a better spouse to her. Ask him to comfort her and help her see herself as He see her.


. PRAY WITH HER
Don’t just pray for your wife, find time to pray with her, hug her as you pray together, hold her hands, just talk to your maker together.


. ASK HER HOW YOU CAN BE OF HELP
Your wife knows what you can do to help her reset, so just ask her. She will open up to you, it may not be what you think, so don’t speculate, ask, She’ll appreciate it more than you will ever know.


. HELP AROUND THE HOUSE
Give a helping hand around the house. Give her a kitchen holiday for some days, do all the cooking or hire somebody to do it for you. Let her just sit, eat and rest, this may be all she needs,


. TAKE HER OUT
Take her out, eat out, go to the cinema, go to wherever she will love to go, not where you want, just follow her.


. ALLOW HER TO CRY, IF SHE MUST
“Stop crying, are you a baby?, will you be crying about this little thing?” This is what most nude earning husband will do when their wives cry, what an insensitive word. If she feels like crying, hold her to yourself and let her do the crying while you pat her on the back. It’s a great way to fix the problem.


.LET HER GO ON HOLIDAY
Allow her to go on holiday all alone to herself, this can fix the problem as she returns with greater energy.


. CELEBRATE HER
Let your wife be celebrated. Celebrate her in secret and in public. Talk about her beauty, motherhood, wife hood, support, thoughtfulness. This will make her day.

Let the men read and apply...

Let the women read share, and forward to the men..
#exclusively bae #

I love you so much sweetie#

Let me appreciate the woman in my life...clear throat hmmm....hmmmmm..Just the thought of living without your love is enough to get me anxious and distracted. I don’t ever want to know how that feels. I want to be with you and feel this happy forever. You are the best thing that’s ever happened to me, and I will not stop showing you just how much you mean to me. Thank you for the love and for making me the happiest guy around.I love you Ngozi
pls Nairalanders can I have many likes to appreciate my woman......

d4real890:
Let me appreciate the woman in my life...clear throat hmmm....hmmmmm..Just the thought of living without your love is enough to get me anxious and distracted. I don’t ever want to know how that feels. I want to be with you and feel this happy forever. You are the best thing that’s ever happened to me, and I will not stop showing you just how much you mean to me. Thank you for the love and for making me the happiest guy around.I love you Ngozi
pls Nairalanders can I have many likes to appreciate my woman......

Na likes your Wife go chop?

I love you, Tamarapetty

Oluwasaeon:

Na likes your Wife go chop?

You are not patience enough to read I said appreciate not chop.......grow up my guy

Lists swinging up from every angle...

d4real890:

You are not patience enough to read I said appreciate not chop.......grow up my guy

I'll grow up, Sir. Continue being a good husband. No follow slay queens

Oluwasaeon:

I'll grow up, Sir. Continue being a good husband. No follow slay queens

Wetin concern you

MhizzAJ:

Wetin concern you

who put your mouth?

Oluwasaeon:

who put your mouth?

Take time oo

MhizzAJ:



Take time oo

Elders are talking, you're putting mouth.

GIVE HERRRRRR MONEYYYYYYYYYYY!

ABEG WHO DON READ AM MAKE E KON SUMMARISE BIKO .
MY EYES ARE PAINING ME

Oluwasaeon:

Elders are talking, you're putting mouth.

Abeg go sit down for corner

GIVE HERRRRRR MONEYYYYYYYYYYY!

ABEG WHO DON READ AM MAKE E KON SUMMARISE BIKO .
MY EYES ARE PAINING ME

MhizzAJ:


Abeg go sit down for corner

Oluwasaeon:
I'll grow up, Sir. Continue being a good husband. No follow slay queens

Na who slay queen help

Oluwasaeon:
I love you, Tamarapetty

u've started!

Tamarapetty:
u've started!

Op. I double accolades for you

rebirthforgoody:
Op. I double accolades for you

twalle paparazzi babe

True saying bro

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d4real890:
Let me appreciate the woman in my life...clear throat hmmm....hmmmmm..Just the thought of living without your love is enough to get me anxious and distracted. I don’t ever want to know how that feels. I want to be with you and feel this happy forever. You are the best thing that’s ever happened to me, and I will not stop showing you just how much you mean to me. Thank you for the love and for making me the happiest guy around.I love you Ngozi
pls Nairalanders can I have many likes to appreciate my woman......

Bia
Which Ngozi?

what you have just said is for the ideal wife,not these ''end-time wives" who are never submissive and claims to know everything.

Fyi0:
Bia Which Ngozi?

Bia is it your Ngozi

d4real890:

Bia is it your Ngozi

LOL. Just want to ascertain its not the same Ngozi
Do you stay in PH

d4real890:
Let me appreciate the woman in my life...clear throat hmmm....hmmmmm..Just the thought of living without your love is enough to get me anxious and distracted. I don’t ever want to know how that feels. I want to be with you and feel this happy forever. You are the best thing that’s ever happened to me, and I will not stop showing you just how much you mean to me. Thank you for the love and for making me the happiest guy around.I love you Ngozi
pls Nairalanders can I have many likes to appreciate my woman......

So you're also dating Ngozi?

Kobicove:


So you're also dating Ngozi?

And which any other ladies have you Seen me given my accolades to?yeye at it's peak

mistel:
what you have just said is for the ideal wife,not these ''end-time wives" who are never submissive and claims to know everything.

exactly! i also noticed that a majority of the too educated women always end up with a bleeped up marriage...whats wrong? how has education become both a blessing and a curse ....

Fyi0:

LOL. Just want to ascertain its not the same Ngozi

Do you stay in PH

chai you want tell me say na only one Ngozi dey for pH?I can see you are in love with a beautiful lady appreciate her and let the nairalanders know how you feel about her.
I don't stay in PH

d4real890:

chai you want tell me say na only one Ngozi dey for pH?I can see you are in love with a beautiful lady appreciate her and let the nairalanders know how you feel about her.
I don't stay in PH

Okay. Lols.
Sometimes love can make people act and think weird.
All the best bro

valentinos22:

exactly! i also noticed that a majority of the too educated women always end up with a bleeped up marriage...whats wrong? how has education become both a blessing and a curse ....

it isnt education, its in their DNA. especially single mothers before.