Loneliness is always looking for a friend,it got me and since then it has been there,loneliness knows me by name.

An idle mind is the workshop of the devil. . . Have a talk wit ur husband abt how you feel and try and create activities for yourself. Take up a new challenging hobby. It helped me hope it'll help you too

How sad, married and lonely, that is a tough one! Have you spoken to your man?

Well, loneliness is not good for any soul, whether married or single. I will advise you try to get something you love doing so you wont be idle, better still explore yourself, try someething new, i did and it worked for me, i discovered a wholoe new person in myself. Join a book club, register in a gym, or even cooking class, it all hepls, you get to meet new people and might even discover your issue is alot less than wat some peeps are facing. Best of luck

For a wife to be lonely, so many things cld lead to it:
1) Did you marry a companion or some other thing attracted u to ur man.
some men are usually very busy, the workaholic, the hustling type, the touring type, the friends freaky type that always hang out with frnds, or the introvert type. If u marry any of these, u may need to work out something to help ur loneliness, i.e: watching movies, reading novels, surfing nets, blogging, gym or sports, but dont join the jobless gossip group. If ure not a full housewife make sure u have something running professionally. Reason is no matter hw much u talk 2 him u may nt be able to change him, cos thts what he is use to.

2) IS THE RELATIONSHIP STABLE:
If u marriage is characterized with frequent quarels, u may find ur hubby usually withdrawn and there wnt be conversations. He always wants to run away frm home( ur trouble, snaggin or his intolerance). In this case you need to improve the home, try reconciling every grudge wether ure right or wrong it doesnt matter, he will always knw he was wrong but ego maynot make him own up, whts important is a happy home. Dnt allow any quarrel unsettled b4 daybreak. Giv the usual sacrifice of submission.

3) HOW CONDUCIVE IS THE HOME AND ENVIRONS
Some men dnt feel comfortable where the home isn't conducive, dou hav ur relations staying with u? Do u keep the home messy, are u the type tht cares less about wht ur spouse wants against ur own desire? hen u need to make the home a home tht ur hubby feels relax and thus wld be a companion.\

4) HOW FAITHFUL IS HE?
If ur hubby isnt faithful, surely he may be restless staying at home. At time merely seeing u will irritate him, cos he seems to hav 4gotten those things tht attracted u to him or probably he isnt seeing those things anymore, Find out why he isnt faithful if its due to ur lapses try to rectify, if its a hubby/fun to him then there is a problem, which i guess most women havent found a justifiable friendly solution to, its either divorce or endurance but its dangerous either way. Make him understand the dangers of contacting HIV, let him knw tht it wnt be his sole cross, but ull be sharing in it. Let him understands tht condom is not 100% safe. Tune radio or TV always to programme tht talks about HIV/AID whenevr he is at home, do it as if its not intentional, this will constantly put a check him.

I HOPE I MAKE SENSE, THATS FROM MY OWN MANLY POINT OF VIEW, I STAND TO BE CORRECTED!

U havent even said what ur husband is doing that he's not having time for U Ur going Shakespeare on us.

Go visit where he goes, talk to him, or find some hobbies to keep you busy.

If u are quiet peolpe think you are a fool but if u turn the other way round they say u are wicked,what do u think is the best behaviour?

Be wicked if that is what works for you!

horlabecee, we all feel lonely sometimes, even the married- like ur case. But u need to communicate more with ur hubby. u guys can hang out too. Go on a date with each other. take om of the advice listed up by omimi . if he doesnt av d time for that, u can try out new things on ur own, maybe he might join u in the log run

TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND ABOUT IT and find out why you feel lonely.
You two should address this problem or your marriage will eventually end, one way or the other.

Na wao