my guy says im nt emotionally expressive and that am not caring. ive tried everything and none seems to work.
plz what does it mean to be emotional and how can I change.?
No insults plz.

Can you explain the "everything" you've done?

E show for your face sef. You be like upcoming witch i swear. Well both of you shd just quit d stuff. No chemistry btwn u two.

He wants someone who can say I love you, I need you, who can cry for him and smile for him. But you're probably rocky-minded. Some guys like rocks like you, go and meet those guys. You're a future ceeC.

You are not ticklish.

It means he doesn't have/know your mumu button yet...

it means he feels he needs you more than you need him

It means NOTHING

He just want to psychologically use your mind.

Beachqueen59:
my guy says im nt emotionally expressive and that am not caring. ive tried everything and none seems to work.
plz what does it mean to be emotional and how can I change.?
No insults plz.

you are a human robot who's got no feelings whatsoever.

greiboy:
it means he feels he needs you more than you need him

That's how it should be

You are not romantic because you are too demanding than the sex you offer him

Be careful, some people are like bottomless pits of neediness. No matter how much of yourself you put into them or the relationship, it'll never be enough to fill their inner void. When it's all said & done, you'll be left a shell of your former self, because the energy vampire sucked all the life out of you.
Tell him to get a puppy or see a shrink if he needs so much emotional validation.

TBH, I'm like that too, the only difference is that I'm aware of it, so I try to distance myself from emotional situations because I know I'll need for someone to step it up a little bit more to get myself to feel something. Anything. Even negative feelings like anger will do when I tap into that side of myself. I just love to feel, I guess. But I also hate it lol.

pocohantas:

That's how it should be

lol Are you sure ?
I will love to be with a lady that loves me more than I love her tho
It saves a lot of stress
You know how you ladies can be

Beachqueen59:
my guy says im nt emotionally expressive and that am not caring. ive tried everything and none seems to work.
plz what does it mean to be emotional and how can I change.?
No insults plz.

It means you are lucky. You are blessed. For some of us, our emotional side is the bane of our existence

XhosaNostra:
Be careful, some people are like bottomless pits of neediness. No matter how much of yourself you put into them or the relationship, it'll never be enough to fill their inner void. When it's all said & done, you'll be left a shell of your former self, because the energy vampire sucked all the life out of you.
Tell him to get a puppy or see a shrink if he needs so much emotional validation.

TBH, I'm like that too, the only difference is that I'm aware of it, so I try to distance myself from emotional situations because I know I'll need for someone to step it up a little bit more to get myself to feel something. Anything. Even negative feelings like anger will do when I tap into that side of myself. I just love to feel, I guess. But I also hate it lol.

puppy eh

Jaqenhghar:

puppy eh

Lol yes, it won't complain & the attention it'll give you won't ever run out. There're actually dogs trained for that purpose. They're called therapy dogs or something along those lines.

RadicallyBlunt:
E show for your face sef. You be like upcoming witch i swear. Well both of you shd just quit d stuff. No chemistry btwn u two.

He wants someone who can say I love you, I need you, who can cry for him and smile for him. But you're probably rocky-minded. Some guys like rocks like you, go and meet those guys. You're a future ceeC.

Bros you wee not make heaven. GBAM.

greiboy:
lol
Are you sure ?

I will love to be with a lady that loves me more than I love her tho

It saves a lot of stress

You know how you ladies can be

Don't mind me, I am just kidding.
That's the same reason ladies give for wanting a man who loves more. I am not entirely fixated on such, I give my best shot.

Though I think I have had guys who love me more, tolerating me and my madness needs plenty love

eaglejay13:


Bros you wee not make heaven. GBAM.

I wish you double portion after rejecting it bro.

state everything u have done...some men are insatiable abeg,,don't go head over heel for a man..my two cent.

We need more info dear, pinpoint exactly what it is you do (or don't) that's made him feel this way and what you've done that's not working

I've been told the same thing so maybe I can help

ibkayee:
We need more info dear, pinpoint exactly what it is you do (or don't) that's made him feel this way and what you've done that's not working

I've been told the same thing so maybe I can help

Naso

ToyinDipo:

Naso

Beachqueen59:
my guy says im nt emotionally expressive and that am not caring. ive tried everything and none seems to work.
plz what does it mean to be emotional and how can I change.?
No insults plz.

Why change You are who u are and I admire girls like u self. Guys don't need too much love, just show them small love

RadicallyBlunt:

I wish you double portion after rejecting it bro.

Na joke nah. Oya collect drink.

XhosaNostra:


Lol yes, it won't complain & the attention it'll give you won't ever run out. There're actually dogs trained for that purpose. They're called therapy dogs or something along those lines.

Hehehe. yeah.We dont have such here but even if we did Im sure the poor dog will go into hiding or something

He means you are too stonefaced and don't cry when you should

see question
ur bf is searching for sumfin

Beachqueen59:
my guy says im nt emotionally expressive and that am not caring. ive tried everything and none seems to work.
plz what does it mean to be emotional and how can I change.?
No insults plz.

Wen a man says a lady is not emotional. He meant the lady hardly shows excitement. Dt You are always keeping a stern nd serious face and possibly moody most of the time. you are not cheerful nd playful around him . you dnt know how to receive humor nd give bk humor.

wen u communicate wit him, d tone nd pitch(voice modulation)of ur voice doesn't convey warmth nd frndliness. you dnt express empathy wen tins go wrong.

Light touch, cuddle, hug, embrace , nudge to call or get his attention ,holding his hand , wrapping ur hand round his neck occasionally ,gestures nd body contact nd public display of affection is a form of expression WC you dnt show or do.

really

you need consider him in your words, decisions, actions and reactions.
you need to consider how they affect him.

take your time to observe him.
know when his mood is really down, the reasons for it and how you can make him happy.