consultancy:
A woman with a golden heart i would say. kudos to you and keep it up. it is not easy to nuture a child birthed by another as your own. but if this write up and photo session with rice n coke is just for the media eyes alone, den u had better change ur ways now u still can

i dont think it is for media because the little girl smile is that of love and genuine

That little girl should be in school, I hope your benevolence includes getting her good education.....

Abigail used to be my house help too also from southern Kaduna
I ve never seen a lovely girl like her, almost the same age with my daughter,
I think she was 8 and my daughter was 6, feel at home immediately they brought her to me.
I too nearly return her because of her age ( however the reason her grandma brought her is that I should help send her to school)
but immediately she came in she became so close to my daughter and they became inseparable.
The two of them will be fighting over my daughter toys and she will report my daughter to me that she collect her toy from her.
Then I made a law that whoever pick a toy first should use it and nobody owe any of toys again.
The day her parent came to pick her back because they lost their first child, she cried her eyes out that I should not allow her parents to take her away and my daughter and wife too weep.
My family can never forget Abigail, she will ever remain party of my family
My friends call her my first daughter.
My conclusion people from Kaduna South are good people.

laudate:

Wow! Neat job. Keep it up bro.' Why not post this in the Auto Section or the Car Talk threads?

Thanks bro

totally agree

the smile extends to her eyes

the eyes are the window to the soul

MizMyColi:


Nope.
I think she's just being real.

In the same post she made praising the little girl, she also mentioned she was going to shout at one of the children.

Perhaps, they look at her like a strict person, but I'm sure they know, or will know what a good person she is deep down.

Lastly, look at that little girl's smile.
It speaks volumes.
It corroborates the woman's story.

consultancy:
A woman with a golden heart i would say. kudos to you and keep it up. it is not easy to nuture a child birthed by another as your own. but if this write up and photo session with rice n coke is just for the media eyes alone, den u had better change ur ways now u still can

Amazing grace! May the Lord that lives in you, keep residing there.

Wow... I am really inspired by this story. She really doesn't look like a child from such area. She is really looking cute and happy. May God bless your kind-hearted heart. Your children shall never lack. But please, enrol her in school. She will forever be grateful for that.
God will continue to bless and provide for you beyond your expectation.

I love this lady already for this.
I wonder why most women does the opposite, and very wicked to their house help.

Saintmary:

She asked for an older girl, they brought her a small child, she decided to keep her. Did you read through?

Somehow that makes it OK because she asked for an older girl? God only knows how old is "older". I'm just not a fan of these people who exploit small children in the name of bettering their lives, only to turn them into slaves, because they come from disadvantaged backgrounds. There're grown women they can employ. Fullstop. It's just not humane no matter how much they try to put frills & pleats on it.

ifunayalov:
totally agree

the smile extends to her eyes

the eyes are the window to the soul

Finito.

laudate:


It could mean the little girl would not have access to a smartphone, tablet or a laptop to read the message at this stage of her life. It is most likely she has been enrolled in a public school, but the madam just did not state it. From the picture, the girl looks well cared for and happy. She is having a better life, than the one she had before. Instead of running from killer herdsmen or Boko haram terrorists in fear, she is now living a relatively safe and secure life. The madam should be commended in my opinion, and encouraged to do more!

I just don't trust these madams, sorry. Too many horrible stories about them.

Sweet heart.. Love u so much

royallord1:


Baba... Abeg I need some one to keep my parents company.... 08067491470 is my number ... Help a brother

Your location

sdindan:


Your location

Edo state

She's so pretty, she reminds me of my small girls ( relatives o)

"Someone just spill a cup of tea on the table"
Only the above statement i can relate to.... Male child no be play ooo..

royallord1:

Edo state

I will get back to u

sometimes i wonder why we came into this world , is it because of cars ?money? sex? food? gold ?expensive cars? or what ?
because i realize that even after acquiring all these things , it still doesnt give us full joy and satisfaction, we still feel some sort of emptiness inside and which makes you keep looking for more ,but then i found the answer in two things .
NOTHING GIVES ONE MORE JOY THAN PLEASING GOD AND PUTTING SMILES ON THE FACES OF PEOPLE.
it gives me so much sense of fulfillment even more the sexual orgasm when i am see a mad hungry man on the street and i give him money, the look of gratitude on their faces says it all, when i help someone that i know can never repay me back. when i give hope to someone who has lost all hope , when i give a help to ease the hunger in someone by giving him food , people that dont know me , people i dont know . they look at me as if i am an angel who God has sent to them and suddenly a small smile bursts out from the mouth. that is the essence of life and that is the reason why we are here on this earth .
i keep telling people that there is no stronger prayer for material blessing than giving to the needy and poor , the more you give the more you will receive. if 30% of ppl can imbibe this spirit of giving , life will be much easier for us and those around us and it is then we will have real joy

XhosaNostra:


Somehow that makes it OK because she asked for an older girl? God only knows how old is "older". I'm just not a fan of these people who exploit small children in the name of bettering their lives, only to turn them into slaves, because they come from disadvantaged backgrounds. There're grown women they can employ. Fullstop. It's just not humane no matter how much they try to put frills & pleats on it.

That was her side of the story, it's common for humans to attempt to exploit the less privileged. History is replete with examples, in fact, a lot of "developed" countries are guilty of exploiting "underdeveloped" countries. What matters is, who is ready to speak for the helpless, who will bell the cat.
BTW if you double check the picture, there's a girl sitting beside the maid, her hairstyle is cheaper than that of the maid, I'm assuming, that's the woman's daughter, I think the woman only did all that for the camera.

Saintmary:

That was her side of the story, it's common for humans to attempt to exploit the less privileged. History is replete with examples, in fact, a lot of "developed" countries are guilty of exploiting "underdeveloped" countries. What matters is, who is ready to speak for the helpless, who will bell the cat.
BTW if you double check the picture, there's a girl sitting beside the maid, her hairstyle is cheaper than that of the maid, I'm assuming, that's the woman's daughter, I think the woman only did all that for the camera.

We're talking about children here Only sociopaths & narcissists would think it's acceptable to use others. Just because it's common, doesn't make it OK. That's what sets normal people aside from sickos.

People should just stop having kids they can't afford. This is too heartbreaking.

XhosaNostra:


We're talking about children here Only sociopaths & narcissists would think it's acceptable to use others. Just because it's common, doesn't make it OK. That's what sets normal people aside from sickos.

People should just stop having kids they can't afford. This is too heartbreaking.

It's not about family planning, she's from a war torn community in Kaduna. Probably witnessed her parents butchered. Just pray they don't bring their nonsense down South cos it won't matter if you have babies you planned for or not. Ok or not, there are sickos in this world we live in. It's either you're too passionate to notice them or you just don't want to accept they exist. All these ugly facts are on ground, what do you plan to do to reduce those ugly occurrences. Safety of children, prevention of war, starting an NGO that's really helping, not these ones we have around that exist for donations only. Channel your passion, don't just experience the feelings of disgust for societal ills.

Saintmary:

She asked for an older girl, they brought her a small child, she decided to keep her. Did you read through?

she obviously didn't

Saintmary:

It's not about family planning, she's from a war torn community in Kaduna. Probably witnessed her parents butchered. Just pray they don't bring their nonsense down South cos it won't matter if you have babies you planned for or not. Ok or not, there are sickos in this world we live in. It's either you're too passionate to notice them or you just don't want to accept they exist. All these ugly facts are on ground, what do you plan to do to reduce those ugly occurrences. Safety of children, prevention of war, starting an NGO that's really helping, not these ones we have around that exist for donations only. Channel your passion, don't just experience the feelings of disgust for societal ills.

She isn't a Nigerian. So I totally understand if it's hard for her to comprehend the situation on ground

XhosaNostra:


We're talking about children here Only sociopaths & narcissists would think it's acceptable to use others. Just because it's common, doesn't make it OK. That's what sets normal people aside from sickos.

People should just stop having kids they can't afford. This is too heartbreaking.

wrong mention

RALPHOW:
Abigail used to be my house help too also from southern Kaduna
I ve never seen a lovely girl like her, almost the same age with my daughter,
I think she was 8 and my daughter was 6, feel at home immediately they brought her to me.
I too nearly return her because of her age ( however the reason her grandma brought her is that I should help send her to school)
but immediately she came in she became so close to my daughter and they became inseparable.
The two of them will be fighting over my daughter toys and she will report my daughter to me that she collect her toy from her.
Then I made a law that whoever pick a toy first should use it and nobody owe any of toys again.
The day her parent came to pick her back because they lost their first child, she cried her eyes out that I should not allow her parents to take her away and my daughter and wife too weep.
My family can never forget Abigail, she will ever remain party of my family
My friends call her my first daughter.
My conclusion people from Kaduna South are good people.

True. Met a couple of them and they are some of the warmest people ever

Saintmary:

That was her side of the story, it's common for humans to attempt to exploit the less privileged. History is replete with examples, in fact, a lot of "developed" countries are guilty of exploiting "underdeveloped" countries. What matters is, who is ready to speak for the helpless, who will bell the cat.
BTW if you double check the picture, there's a girl sitting beside the maid, her hairstyle is cheaper than that of the maid, I'm assuming, that's the woman's daughter, I think the woman only did all that for the camera.

doesn't look like it was done for the camera to me though... If you read the story well, the lady has only male kids
P. S, that smile doesn't look like it was done for the cam

sdindan:


I will get back to u

I await sir

czarina:
doesn't look like it was done for the camera to me though... If you read the story well, the lady has only male kids
P. S, that smile doesn't look like it was done for the cam

That smile is precious, I agree.

czarina:
She isn't a Nigerian. So I totally understand if it's hard for her to comprehend the situation on ground

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