lefulefu:
abegi which 7 yrs?. So u believe dat one? Op jus said dat cos he's trying to avoid some bashing dat might be thrown at him if he admits dat they never dated. What i think is that the wife was probably arranged for him by his parents. Even if u date a woman for four months sef...that will even be enuf for her to show u her true character no matter how she pretends...not to talk of a whole seven years. The lady is an arranged wife. The parents were just unlucky in arranging a bad wife for him.

.Thank God we are now seeing it from a similar perspective. His stupidity, his headache. Have a good night rest my brother.

I'm sure u knew this before u tied the knot. Marriage is all about tolerance... learning to tolerate each other's excesses

fancy4eve:
Don't make it luk lyk u re doing her a favour nd she should not hv a say in her husband,s house.

Why not Try 2 do does tins she lyks, make her happy, argue if is called for nd try talkn out ur problems in a calm way nd pls, u need 2 stop playn bossy all d tym.

Rubbish!

Peterosky:
Bro's you are on your own, my own marriage is just two weeks old, and by God's grace, I am still enjoying it.So,I no can fit advise, after all I was not the person that sent you to marry a beautiful nagging and ego blotted wife. Sorry please, no advice for you from my honeymoon department. Please try and seek the services of a marriage counselor, most preferably a family social work professional.

This one is probably high on codeine diets

blesskewe:
Sorry for asking but













Did you guys date??

This was the first thought that came to my mind.

I always tell people it is a risk to rush into marriage.
Marriage is like a world on its own and most people get lost in it either by death, frustrations, career destruction and so on.
How can one see someone and within 3months thy are married? Both males and females should be vigilant on this, not even when u see during Shiloh because there must be individual differences, and other issues to know before u decide to get into it.

YoungDaNaval:
This one is probably high on codeine diets

Please note his moniker, he probably just got married and I don't think it is up to a month.
Let's ask him the same question after like 6months and u will see a different reaction, that's if he hasn't come here to attack women.

Moreover, he is mocking someone who's in a predicament, forgetting that what goes around, comes around.

foreverfavoured:
I'm sure u knew this before u tied the knot. Marriage is all about tolerance... learning to tolerate each other's excesses

I agree it is good to tolerate but I always know that everyone has some things they can never tolerate from someone.
Like me, I can tolerate most things from women but can never accept to be with a self centered , cheat, and an arrogant woman, but others I can manage.
Now the issue is, whenever u see something u can't tolerate, try to talk with the person or cut it off...(my own principle).
This is why I am...

kingkakaone:

I agree it is good to tolerate but I always know that everyone has some things they can never tolerate from someone.
Like me, I can tolerate most things from women but can never accept to be with a self centered , cheat, and an arrogant woman, but others I can manage.
Now the issue is, whenever u see something u can't tolerate, try to talk with the person or cut it off...(my own principle).
This is why I am...

Yea sure.. That's why one needs to be very careful when making this important decision of a life partner.

This one na marital issue? You never see issue my brother. Keep an open mind (you will need it)

foreverfavoured:


Yea sure.. That's why one needs to be very careful when making this important decision of a life partner.

Yeah.
I see marriage as a very sacred union and the decision to go into it to me should be a priority, no second guess, no pity and so on if not taken seriously, we know how it can cause a permanent scar.

kkkp:
Please advice before i sent her packing.
Reasons are-
1. She argues alot.
2. She is not very sincere when it comes to money issue.
,3. She dares me atimes that I can't take some actions against her.

Please advice on what I should do.

So Guy u want to send ur wife packing bcoz of these flimsy reasons.

See how you are allowing your pride dance skelewu in your home, before you know it divorce and then who was wrong or right won't matter anymore.

The truth.

As long as you dated ur wife for long, once you marry her, you guys become mates almost immediately. As she knows she has every right to know whatever u do or want to do or would do, bcoz she has been there for you in your days of one boxers for 3 days till now.

My advice:

-Swallow your pride, make your self a loving husband.
-Forget about getting into an argument to drive home your point, try later when the atmosphere is calm.
- her not been sincere in money issues, i know it has to do with her money, which you take from her, you feel bad when you find out, she didn't tell u the whole truth of how much she has. Women are naturally like that. Try and forget about her money, never ever take her money or request for money again from her. She is a good wife, she will see how things are and would assist in the way she can from her own will.
- for the she dares you, my dear is ur pride that is making u see it that way. She is ur age mate Now, so this won't stop, know when your communication is getting to the red zone and sign off to continue later.

Then the winning strategy
I know you guys do practically everything together, from chores to gossip. Do them but limit it
- make her to be aware of her duties as a wife and help out once in a very long long while, u will see how excitedly appreciative she will be.
- get her gifts once in a while, take her for movies and ice cream
- never ever ever initiate sex. Bros don't beg her, she will marvel and begin to gum body u
-lastly don't give her all ur free time. I know she knows when u are free. Hang out with friends, join associations to keep you out on dinner meetings.
- then provide for your house no matter what it takes, don't ask her for help.

With these after 5 weeks ur nagging wife will become humbled and obedient.

candygebsslim:


So Guy u want to send ur wife packing bcoz of these flimsy reasons.

See how you are allowing your pride dance skelewu in your home, before you know it divorce and then who was wrong or right won't matter anymore.

The truth.

As long as you dated ur wife for long, once you marry her, you guys become mates almost immediately. As she knows she has every right to know whatever u do or want to do or would do, bcoz she has been there for you in your days of one boxers for 3 days till now.

My advice:

-Swallow your pride, make your self a loving husband.
-Forget about getting into an argument to drive home your point, try later when the atmosphere is calm.
- her not been sincere in money issues, i know it has to do with her money, which you take from her, you feel bad when you find out, she didn't tell u the whole truth of how much she has. Women are naturally like that. Try and forget about her money, never ever take her money or request for money again from her. She is a good wife, she will see how things are and would assist in the way she can from her own will.
- for the she dares you, my dear is ur pride that is making u see it that way. She is ur age mate Now, so this won't stop, know when your communication is getting to the red zone and sign off to continue later.

Then the winning strategy
I know you guys do practically everything together, from chores to gossip. Do them but limit it
- make her to be aware of her duties as a wife and help out once in a very long long while, u will see how excitedly appreciative she will be.
- get her gifts once in a while, take her for movies and ice cream
- never ever ever initiate sex. Bros don't beg her, she will marvel and begin to gum body u
-lastly don't give her all ur free time. I know she knows when u are free. Hang out with friends, join associations to keep you out on dinner meetings.
- then provide for your house no matter what it takes, don't ask her for help.

With these after 5 weeks ur nagging wife will become humbled and obedient.

gracias

kkkp:
Please advice before i sent her packing.
Reasons are-
1. She argues alot.
2. She is not very sincere when it comes to money issue.
,3. She dares me atimes that I can't take some actions against her.

Please advice on what I should do.

.is she lightskin?

MrCork:



.is she lightskin?

nop she is purple skin

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Dem never elbow your jaw before. No money in the house and you are grabbing from behind??

Tell me you're related to Samuel Peters and I will believe you100%

loshybab:


Tell me you're related to Samuel Peters and I will believe you100%

Lol... Nope

blesskewe:






She has started showing her true colors

I beg to disagree - this is a case of conflick. Op needs to sit down with his wife with a sincere heart devoid of ego and selfishness to solve the problem. They need to identify the root cause and fix it.
You cant listen to an incomplete one sided story, infact the OP hasn't even given details, and you all here are making interpretations of how the woman is showing her true color

Hmmm

blesskewe:
Sorry for asking but













Did you guys date??

Is not by dating.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lol... Nope

Hmmmm!
OK oooo.....ke kwanu?

loshybab:

Hmmmm!
OK oooo.....ke kwanu?

Adinma

BRO STOP CRYING WOLF. U AINT SEEN NOTHING YET AND YOU ARE RUNNING WORLD RACE TO CRY.
the 3 things u listed are nothing.
i hv never won an argument with my woman and i dont even expect to win, we always lose that battle, so why cry?
u dont have a problem, just go home and hug her with kissess, take her out the next day.

why is everyone focusing on the woman showing her true colors? Does it mean the man doesn't av true colors to show? I wonder how some people think, don't u argue or rather disagree with ur mom, siblings and friends? how many av u thrown out. some men will just marry u and want u to always say yes to everything they say. my dear op, marriage is like a two sided sword both sides have their parts to play to win the battle called DIVORCE. Communication is always the key not how long u dated. that lady would an angel If and only if u treat her as am one.

Why is everyone focusing on the woman showing her true colors? Does it mean the man doesn't av true colors to show? I wonder how some people think, don't u argue or rather disagree with ur mom, siblings and friends? how many av u thrown out. some men will just marry u and want u to always say yes to everything they say. My dear op, marriage is like a two sided sword both sides have their parts to play to win the battle called DIVORCE. Communication is always the key not how long u dated. That lady would an angel If and only if u treat her as am one.

candygebsslim:


So Guy u want to send ur wife packing bcoz of these flimsy reasons.

See how you are allowing your pride dance skelewu in your home, before you know it divorce and then who was wrong or right won't matter anymore.

The truth.

As long as you dated ur wife for long, once you marry her, you guys become mates almost immediately. As she knows she has every right to know whatever u do or want to do or would do, bcoz she has been there for you in your days of one boxers for 3 days till now.

My advice:

-Swallow your pride, make your self a loving husband.
-Forget about getting into an argument to drive home your point, try later when the atmosphere is calm.
- her not been sincere in money issues, i know it has to do with her money, which you take from her, you feel bad when you find out, she didn't tell u the whole truth of how much she has. Women are naturally like that. Try and forget about her money, never ever take her money or request for money again from her. She is a good wife, she will see how things are and would assist in the way she can from her own will.
- for the she dares you, my dear is ur pride that is making u see it that way. She is ur age mate Now, so this won't stop, know when your communication is getting to the red zone and sign off to continue later.

Then the winning strategy
I know you guys do practically everything together, from chores to gossip. Do them but limit it
- make her to be aware of her duties as a wife and help out once in a very long long while, u will see how excitedly appreciative she will be.
- get her gifts once in a while, take her for movies and ice cream
- never ever ever initiate sex. Bros don't beg her, she will marvel and begin to gum body u
-lastly don't give her all ur free time. I know she knows when u are free. Hang out with friends, join associations to keep you out on dinner meetings.
- then provide for your house no matter what it takes, don't ask her for help.

With these after 5 weeks ur nagging wife will become humbled and obedient.

such swt words from u, infact I feel like marrying u right away.

candygebsslim:


So Guy u want to send ur wife packing bcoz of these flimsy reasons.

See how you are allowing your pride dance skelewu in your home, before you know it divorce and then who was wrong or right won't matter anymore.

The truth.

As long as you dated ur wife for long, once you marry her, you guys become mates almost immediately. As she knows she has every right to know whatever u do or want to do or would do, bcoz she has been there for you in your days of one boxers for 3 days till now.

My advice:

-Swallow your pride, make your self a loving husband.
-Forget about getting into an argument to drive home your point, try later when the atmosphere is calm.
- her not been sincere in money issues, i know it has to do with her money, which you take from her, you feel bad when you find out, she didn't tell u the whole truth of how much she has. Women are naturally like that. Try and forget about her money, never ever take her money or request for money again from her. She is a good wife, she will see how things are and would assist in the way she can from her own will.
- for the she dares you, my dear is ur pride that is making u see it that way. She is ur age mate Now, so this won't stop, know when your communication is getting to the red zone and sign off to continue later.

Then the winning strategy
I know you guys do practically everything together, from chores to gossip. Do them but limit it
- make her to be aware of her duties as a wife and help out once in a very long long while, u will see how excitedly appreciative she will be.
- get her gifts once in a while, take her for movies and ice cream
- never ever ever initiate sex. Bros don't beg her, she will marvel and begin to gum body u
-lastly don't give her all ur free time. I know she knows when u are free. Hang out with friends, join associations to keep you out on dinner meetings.
- then provide for your house no matter what it takes, don't ask her for help.

With these after 5 weeks ur nagging wife will become humbled and obedient.

such swt words from u, infact I feel like marrying u right away.

Were you blind and deaf? All thses signs should had been glaring loud and clear during dating before wedding. What did you do?