kkkp:
we dated for about 7years

vizkiz:


I use to say this until I realize how much people pretend when they want something then show their real self when they get what they want.

kkkp:
we dated for about 7years

blesskewe:



She deserves an award


Inshort



Accolades

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Dem never elbow your jaw before. No money in the house and you are grabbing from behind??

Martinez19:
Some women act nice during courtship but change during marriage. Their true colour comes out because they think they are secured and gotten what they want. They foolishly think they can't be divorced.

TOPCRUISE:

So before both of you got married she did not argue.
and Before both of you got married she was very sincere with money
and before you married her, she doesn't dare you at all.
If she did not do all I highlighted or is the exact opposite and you did not complain then you are to blame so live with it

Pricelessangel0:

Same with guys

1stNumeroUno:
Dear Op, I assume you're trying to impose yourself on her. Maybe you're the I'm-the-head-of-this-house type of man.
She might have tolerated you all these 7years just to get into life. Now she's in.

Suggestions:
1. Always be calm and connect with her when discussing.
2. Let her decision prevail on flimsy matter. E.g. Clothes to wear to a party, how much to spend on small stuffs.
3. Lead her, don't rule her.

Finally, don't attempt divorce. It's not reasonable, these are just some lil foxes that you can easily get rid off.

Wishing you the best in your marriage.

rikithor:
A very good advice from DonPiko,
when married take responsibility for two,and future kids

i will add mine ,yes take responsibility for you both,compel her in any way most appropriate to your biddings on ALL areas of your expectation

bk home ,am managimg n still managing an 8 yts woman problem ,problem noticed before first born ,n its still lingering who is about 7yrs now ,am still taking every ones responsibility but occassionaly will compel her to do my biddings,if she refuses ,
wt occassional milder threats ,jubst to pass home my message

kkkp:
Thanks I allow her to take some decisions but I think the opportunity i gave her is getting into her head.

1stNumeroUno:


I kind feel you bro, please be calm with her. Discuss how pained you are and what you want/expected from the marriage. Please, tackle this on time before you start having kids. Because a heated environment is not ideal for raising children o.

kkkp:
Please advice before i sent her packing.
Reasons are-
1. She argues alot.
2. She is not very sincere when it comes to money issue.
,3. She dares me atimes that I can't take some actions against her.

Please advice on what I should do.

emmysoftyou:
i never dated my wife for seven years But she's so beautiful and very understanding, she was there when I lost my job and she is still there praying for a better days. Sir your case is not different, just sit her down and discuss how you feel about her. If she argues Alot, take your time to listen to her ideas and give her a trial whenever she's suggesting any befitting ideas. Just allow her.
Sir if she's not sincere when it comes to money, re u saying you do give her money to buy food stuff at the market and she said the money is not enough or how do you mean?
Cos there's was a time, I will give my wife money, she always tell me not to asked her for change and whenever we argued about it, I Would told her that the change is for buying pure water or soap.
Sometimes I let go anything that led to misunderstanding because I had already spend more than three to four months to understood her character then I discovered she's such a lovely person, we prayed together, she drag me to fellowship or else we quarrel.
Sir if your wife dare you that you can't take such action, don't listen to her, we the men knows you can take such action but if you listen to her mouth you will just injured her, do you know what I do, I will leave the house for her and later she will come and say sorry.

Today we're living like boyfriend and girlfriend, people do asked if she's really my wife. My brother you're lucky to be married, just try to understand her. I have dated other girls four years to six years I didn't marry them cos I want to marry someone I can tolerate hence my prayers to almighty God and today, me and my love re living peacefully, I must not date for several years to pick a wife but understanding really matter.
If you want to see my yellow beautiful wife. We're on facebook. Just dm me.

I will also advised you and your wife to be praying together, I thank God for my wife, she's everything to me I swear.
Bro it's well with you.

greatcrown:
Your marriage is not about to break.

It's the usual pain of teething period.

You are getting to know your wife for whom she really is.
Don't join issue with her; be calm make your point known.

Don't try to enforce anything so far it has no health implication on either of you.

With time, your marriage will come to equilibrium and you will be happy for it.

Concentrate on being romantic and make her happy.

May God continue to bless your home.

Peterosky:
Bro's you are on your own, my own marriage is just two weeks old, and by God's grace, I am still enjoying it.So,I no can fit advise, after all I was not the person that sent you to marry a beautiful nagging and ego blotted wife. Sorry please, no advice for you from my honeymoon department. Please try and seek the services of a marriage counselor, most preferably a family social work professional.

kkkp:
Please advice before i sent her packing.
Reasons are-
1. She argues alot.
2. She is not very sincere when it comes to money issue.
,3. She dares me atimes that I can't take some actions against her.

Please advice on what I should do.

emmysoftyou:
i never dated my wife for seven years But she's so beautiful and very understanding, she was there when I lost my job and she is still there praying for a better days. Sir your case is not different, just sit her down and discuss how you feel about her. If she argues Alot, take your time to listen to her ideas and give her a trial whenever she's suggesting any befitting ideas. Just allow her.
Sir if she's not sincere when it comes to money, re u saying you do give her money to buy food stuff at the market and she said the money is not enough or how do you mean?
Cos there's was a time, I will give my wife money, she always tell me not to asked her for change and whenever we argued about it, I Would told her that the change is for buying pure water or soap.
Sometimes I let go anything that led to misunderstanding because I had already spend more than three to four months to understood her character then I discovered she's such a lovely person, we prayed together, she drag me to fellowship or else we quarrel.
Sir if your wife dare you that you can't take such action, don't listen to her, we the men knows you can take such action but if you listen to her mouth you will just injured her, do you know what I do, I will leave the house for her and later she will come and say sorry.

Today we're living like boyfriend and girlfriend, people do asked if she's really my wife. My brother you're lucky to be married, just try to understand her. I have dated other girls four years to six years I didn't marry them cos I want to marry someone I can tolerate hence my prayers to almighty God and today, me and my love re living peacefully, I must not date for several years to pick a wife but understanding really matter.
If you want to see my yellow beautiful wife. We're on facebook. Just dm me.

I will also advised you and your wife to be praying together, I thank God for my wife, she's everything to me I swear.
Bro it's well with you.

Peterosky:
Bro's you are on your own, my own marriage is just two weeks old, and by God's grace, I am still enjoying it.So,I no can fit advise, after all I was not the person that sent you to marry a beautiful nagging and ego blotted wife. Sorry please, no advice for you from my honeymoon department. Please try and seek the services of a marriage counselor, most preferably a family social work professional.

kkkp:
we dated for about 7years

Tunagee:


No worry! By the time ur new wife begin show her true colour, u will come here and start crying.

lefulefu:
na waoh..where did op say his wife is beautiful? So u never see very ugly wives wey dey nag and dey give their husbands wahala? I don see plenty.

Peterosky:
.My dear, a man who dated a woman for good seven years as claimed by the Op,should at least have a clue of the petty attitudes stated here,but people like the Op are often blinded by their wives beauty which is the case of many senseless men. For instance, there is no way you can convince me that the wife was not arguing with him on certain issues before they got married.