Amarabae:
Wow I miss you sweethearts!
Oriaku Amara is back to romance section after a break to engage in the ongoing Johesu Vs NMA civil war.
.
OK I want to talk about something in love and finding the perfect person.
It's going to be brief and short.
.
The reason why that relationship teared apart may not be because you are not good for him or her ,
Things don't just happen most times ,
Its just that he/she is not the "Right " person for you,
People have a tendency of going after the best guy or girl in their fantasy, forgetting that the so called Best may not be the right fit for you,
You want a rich already made guy but does the already made guy want you?
You want a sexy light skinned beautiful girl but is she the right fit for you?
And when you manage to date the person that is not the right fit for you, you can never be comfortable,
You will feel "choked up " and stressed out because you want to impress.
Don't even make a mistake of marrying such a person.
Many of the domestic abuses we see and hear about are because the couples are not the right fit for each other.

.
Best people can leave you anytime but the right person will never leave you,
Virtuous wife and responsible husbands may not be the best people,
They may not be the most beautiful and handsome,
They may not be rich,etc but
They are the right people.
Go after them,
You will be very comfortable and happy dating or marrying the right person and not the "best person "
.
One of the fastest way of getting the right people is "cutting your coat according to your size "
You know your low income status yet you want to date and marry a very rich guy ,the rich guy when seeing how desperate you are may end up using and dumping you because he is not the right fit for you .
That kunle or emeka who is just a working fresh graduate may be the right fit for you.
He may not be rich but he will make you happy and you will comfortable with him.
For Guys, you know that you are just patching up to survive yet you want to date a high class slay queen(baby oku
)
She may pretend to like you and start sapping the little one you have because you are like a mugu,
She is not the right fit for you,
That Ijeoma or funmilayo, even though she may not be the most beautiful and fashionable may be the right fit for you to date and support you to achieve your dreams.
.
One wow fact about it all is that the "best person " will likely will never be the right fit for you BUT the "right person "will end up being the best person for you.

It takes a matured mind to understand my point.
.
I love you all.

MrCork:

Amarabae:

Mr curk?

MrCork:



...can u say my name correctly? ....say my name. ...say my name!

iamJ:
It takes a jobless mind to read all that

Summary of her point: she is a marriage counselor because she is young and her husband still smiles and looks at her

My reply: rewrite this thread when you are 50 and he is running after a girl in her 20's all these love doctors that like using assumptions to front wisdom

iamJ:
pikin wen they born the day u created your moniker done mature now


U still dey here dey alingo

Amarabae:

You are still a small boy to know anything about marriage,
Go and eat ur "mama thank you " food abeg

iamJ:
if ur marriage seems or feels perfect then it's bad, stop acting African magic here, we know u

See how u assumed again na so u dey assume say ur husband faithful

iamJ:
It takes a jobless mind to read all that

Summary of her point: she is a marriage counselor because she is young and her husband still smiles and looks at her

My reply: rewrite this thread when you are 50 and he is running after a girl in her 20's all these love doctors that like using assumptions to front wisdom

MrCork:


wot is pikin?

MrCork:

MrCork:

iamJ:
if ur marriage seems or feels perfect then it's bad, stop acting African magic here, we know u

See how u assumed again na so u dey assume say ur husband faithful

highqueen:
the best could also turn out to be the right person.nonetheless,your write up is awesome.

Amarabae:
Wow I miss you sweethearts!
Oriaku Amara is back to romance section after a break to engage in the ongoing Johesu Vs NMA civil war.
.
OK I want to talk about something in love and finding the perfect person.
It's going to be brief and short.
.
The reason why that relationship teared apart may not be because you are not good for him or her ,
Things don't just happen most times ,
Its just that he/she is not the "Right " person for you,
People have a tendency of going after the best guy or girl in their fantasy, forgetting that the so called Best may not be the right fit for you,
You want a rich already made guy but does the already made guy want you?
You want a sexy light skinned beautiful girl but is she the right fit for you?
And when you manage to date the person that is not the right fit for you, you can never be comfortable,
You will feel "choked up " and stressed out because you want to impress.
Don't even make a mistake of marrying such a person.
Many of the domestic abuses we see and hear about are because the couples are not the right fit for each other.

.
Best people can leave you anytime but the right person will never leave you,
Virtuous wife and responsible husbands may not be the best people,
They may not be the most beautiful and handsome,
They may not be rich,etc but
They are the right people.
Go after them,
You will be very comfortable and happy dating or marrying the right person and not the "best person "
.
One of the fastest way of getting the right people is "cutting your coat according to your size "
You know your low income status yet you want to date and marry a very rich guy ,the rich guy when seeing how desperate you are may end up using and dumping you because he is not the right fit for you .
That kunle or emeka who is just a working fresh graduate may be the right fit for you.
He may not be rich but he will make you happy and you will comfortable with him.
For Guys, you know that you are just patching up to survive yet you want to date a high class slay queen(baby oku
)
She may pretend to like you and start sapping the little one you have because you are like a mugu,
She is not the right fit for you,
That Ijeoma or funmilayo, even though she may not be the most beautiful and fashionable may be the right fit for you to date and support you to achieve your dreams.
.
One wow fact about it all is that the "best person " will likely will never be the right fit for you BUT the "right person "will end up being the best person for you.

It takes a matured mind to understand my point.
.
I love you all.

Amarabae:
.

iamJ:
no witty come back? U're boring out of here, no wonder he goes to bed early and u're here roaming Nairaland by 11pm

Amarabae:

You are still a small boy to know anything about marriage,
Go and eat ur "mama thank you " food abeg

Klinee:
Why do you took a break? you born?

kimbraa:
I got your message, nice one.

SoapQueen:
The Emeka or Kunle that is below average today, might become very wealthy tomorrow and decide to upgrade by going for the "beautiful light skinned" girl whom he thinks is right. (the vicious cycle continues).

Amarabae:
I know. There are always exceptions to every thing in life, But the case of this happening is quite low.

SoapQueen:


True. Great post though.
Realistic!

Thumb up!

Amarabae:
Wow I miss
you sweethearts!
Oriaku Amara is back to romance section after a break to engage in the ongoing Johesu Vs NMA civil war.
.
OK I want to talk about something in love and finding the perfect person.
It's going to be brief and short.
.
The reason why that relationship teared apart may not be because you are not good for him or her ,
Things don't just happen most times ,
Its just that he/she is not the "Right " person for you,
People have a tendency of going after the best guy or girl in their fantasy, forgetting that the so called Best may not be the right fit for you,
You want a rich already made guy but does the already made guy want you?
You want a sexy light skinned beautiful girl but is she the right fit for you?
And when you manage to date the person that is not the right fit for you, you can never be comfortable,
You will feel "choked up " and stressed out because you want to impress.
Don't even make a mistake of marrying such a person.
Many of the domestic abuses we see and hear about are because the couples are not the right fit for each other.

.
Best people can leave you anytime but the right person will never leave you,
Virtuous wife and responsible husbands may not be the best people,
They may not be the most beautiful and handsome,
They may not be rich,etc but
They are the right people.
Go after them,
You will be very comfortable and happy dating or marrying the right person and not the "best person "
.
One of the fastest way of getting the right people is "cutting your coat according to your size "
You know your low income status yet you want to date and marry a very rich guy ,the rich guy when seeing how desperate you are may end up using and dumping you because he is not the right fit for you .
That kunle or emeka who is just a working fresh graduate may be the right fit for you.
He may not be rich but he will make you happy and you will comfortable with him.
For Guys, you know that you are just patching up to survive yet you want to date a high class slay queen(baby oku
)
She may pretend to like you and start sapping the little one you have because you are like a mugu,
She is not the right fit for you,
That Ijeoma or funmilayo, even though she may not be the most beautiful and fashionable may be the right fit for you to date and support you to achieve your dreams.
.
One wow fact about it all is that the "best person " will likely will never be the right fit for you BUT the "right person "will end up being the best person for you.

It takes a matured mind to understand my point.
.
I love you all.