I've noticed times without number that our African females lack or dislike investing time in a responsible and productive way or basically making money. I know some try their best, some work their asses off and yet they money they make is not enough so they keep toiling to make ends meet.
Life's is not easy yes but why is it that a girl will have a boyfriend, man friend, sugar daddy or whatnot that is making money but only beg them to give her money for her to take care of herself and fail to ask these men that are making money to teach them how to make that money too or get into whatever business the man is into? Most girls lobe the passenger seat beside the driver so much that they can do anything for it not knowing that the driver's seat( ownership) is better.
why is that? ask the man to teach them how to establish or succeed? instead of just begging for money ever now and then you can make your own money and I swear no money sweet lass the one you made by yourself.
Ladies why can't you ask that your boyfriend or partner to teach you how to make that money he's making?

SexyDenzel:
I've noticed times without number that our African females lack or dislike investing time in a responsible and productive way or basically making money. I know some try their best, some work their asses off and yet they money they make is not enough so they keep toiling to make ends meet.
Life's is not easy yes but why is it that a girl will have a boyfriend, man friend, sugar daddy or whatnot that is making money but only beg them to give her money for her to take care of herself and fail to ask these men that are making money to teach them how to make that money too or get into whatever business the man is into? Most girls lobe the passenger seat beside the driver so much that they can do anything for it not knowing that the driver's seat( ownership) is better.
why is that? ask the man to teach them how to establish or succeed? instead of just begging for money ever now and then you can make your own money and I swear no money sweet lass the one you made by yourself.
Ladies why can't you ask that your boyfriend or partner to teach you how to make that money he's making?

Success is not sexually transmitted. Get yo ass up and start hustlin' for yo daily bread, ladies.

Though, I once asked someone I was dating to employ me so he could pay me or invest in my business( I was willing to split the proceeds). He blatantly refused, I had to count my teeth with my tongue and started doing my own(no matter how small).

Na thesame one head me and these guys get.

Not a bad post @ Op. Not bad at all.

Its in their DNA ooo
They must beg...I am not saying they shouldnt give them money,But most have turned it to Dividend of relationship.

Just some hardworking few deserves respect. Thumbs Up if you are one

SoapQueen:



Success is not sexually transmitted. Get yo ass up and start hustlin' for yo daily bread, ladies.

Though, I once asked someone I was dating to employ me so he could pay me or invest in my business( I was willing to split the proceeds). He blatantly refused, I had to count my teeth with my tongue and started doing my own(no matter how small).

Na thesame one head me and these guys get.

Not a bad post @ Op. Not bad at all.

May your hustle continue to blossom my dear, I love ladies that understands that they have to also grind to be on same or better level than their male counterparts or partners. No men will dictate no
Keep your grind on sugar ;-).

SexyDenzel:
May your hustle continue to blossom my dear, I love ladies that understands that they have to also grind to be on same or better level than their male counterparts or partners.
Keep your grind on sugar ;-).

SoapQueen:



Success is not sexually transmitted. Get yo ass up and start hustlin' for yo daily bread, ladies.

Though, I once asked someone I was dating to employ me so he could pay me or invest in my business( I was willing to split the proceeds). He blatantly refused, I had to count my teeth with my tongue and started doing my own(no matter how small).

Na thesame one head me and these guys get.

Not a bad post @ Op. Not bad at all.

May your hustle continue to blossom my dear, I love ladies that understands that they have to also grind to be on same or better level than their male counterparts or partners. No men will dictate nonsense to you because if theyre observant they will recognize you are a hustler and respect your grind.
Keep your grind on sugar ;-).

SexyDenzel:
May your hustle continue to blossom my dear, I love ladies that understands that they have to also grind to be on same or better level than their male counterparts or partners.
Keep your grind on sugar ;-).

Thank you, bitter!

For real, thanks. Amen to your prayers. I wish you same, too.

SexyDenzel:
I've noticed times without number that our African females lack or dislike investing time in a responsible and productive way or basically making money. I know some try their best, some work their asses off and yet they money they make is not enough so they keep toiling to make ends meet.
Life's is not easy yes but why is it that a girl will have a boyfriend, man friend, sugar daddy or whatnot that is making money but only beg them to give her money for her to take care of herself and fail to ask these men that are making money to teach them how to make that money too or get into whatever business the man is into? Most girls lobe the passenger seat beside the driver so much that they can do anything for it not knowing that the driver's seat( ownership) is better.
why is that? ask the man to teach them how to establish or succeed? instead of just begging for money ever now and then you can make your own money and I swear no money sweet lass the one you made by yourself.
Ladies why can't you ask that your boyfriend or partner to teach you how to make that money he's making?

God bless u sister

BabbanBura:


God bless u sister

Sister? Hahahahahhaa bro I've got two balls and theyre not used for sports man :-).

SoapQueen:



Success is not sexually transmitted. Get yo ass up and start hustlin' for yo daily bread, ladies.

Though, I once asked someone I was dating to employ me so he could pay me or invest in my business( I was willing to split the proceeds). He blatantly refused, I had to count my teeth with my tongue and started doing my own(no matter how small).

Na thesame one head me and these guys get.

Not a bad post @ Op. Not bad at all.

Ma kind of lady - Many of ma past gals refused to accept exactly this proposal. One came knocking recently asking for help with start up and i reiterated my position but she walk away cos she wouldn't let me in to share the biz

BabbanBura:


Ma kind of lady - Many of ma past gals refused to accept exactly this proposal. One came knocking recently asking for help with start up and i reiterated my position but she walk away cos she wouldn't let me in to share the biz

Well, people are different. Forgive them.

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I have this feeling that it's the society... This generation of girls (below 30) are stuck between 2 worlds. The world that celebrates independent women and the world that tells them after all their hard work and studying child bearing awaits her so It's not an easy time for them.

Men don't want to support them willing anymore and at the same time her cooking skills are questioned (as her worth)... it's not easy being a female in Africa... IMO.

majorbravo:
This was the exact thing I commented on that guy's post who was complaining about poor girls hitting on him for cash. The Davido Law is a sure banker.

What's the Davido law biko? :-)

LivingFree:
I have this feeling that it's the society... This generation of girls (below 30) are stuck between 2 worlds. The world that celebrates independent women and the world that tells them after all their hard work and studying child bearing awaits her so It's not an easy time for them.

Men don't want to support them willing anymore and at the same time her cooking skills are questioned (as her worth)... it's not easy being a female in Africa... IMO.

Who supports men? is it easy being a man in Africa?
is child bearing a demeaning act? I'd like your opinion :-).

SexyDenzel:
Sister? Hahahahahhaa bro I've got two balls and theyre not used for sports man :-).

Wow, my bad Bro. Sorry!

SexyDenzel:
Who supports men? is it easy being a man in Africa?
is child bearing a demeaning act? I'd like your opinion :-).

I have nothing to say to this. I was hoping you would understand but you want to counter so let me save us both the time and say, 'You are right'

#Peace

LivingFree:
I have this feeling that it's the society... This generation of girls (below 30) are stuck between 2 worlds. The world that celebrates independent women and the world that tells them after all their hard work and studying child bearing awaits her so It's not an easy time for them.

Men don't want to support them willing anymore and at the same time her cooking skills are questioned (as her worth)... it's not easy being a female in Africa... IMO.

What are u talking about? seemed u are as confused as the subject of your discuss.
Our mothers and grandmothers passed through all u have said without crises - they bore and brought up the kids, they also worked (go to farms, businesses etx) and do their wify duties. You gals of nowadays just want to sit on softest sofas and be pressibg TV remotes and do nothing. If you want that life, go work ya ass (yes including prostitution), make ya money and forget marriage.

all this shaku shaku girls

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LivingFree:


I have nothing to say to this. I was hoping you would understand but you want to counter so let me save us both the time and say, 'You are right'

#Peace

My dear I'm not trying to counter rather to get the full circle and understand what you mean so please enlighten me, I might learn a thing or two from you dear. I keep an open mind try not to see my questions as counter.

BabbanBura:


What are u talking about? seemed u are as confused as the subject of your discuss.
Our mothers and grandmothers passed through all u have said without crises - they bore and brought up the kids, they also worked (go to farms, businesses etx) and do their wify duties. You gals of nowadays just want to sit on softest sofas and be pressibg TV remotes and do nothing. If you want that life, go work ya ass (yes including prostitution), make ya money and forget marriage.

Bro please don't be like that, she didn't really define what she meant so let her air her views first and what she really mean by those words.

BabbanBura:


What are u talking about? seemed u are as confused as the subject of your discuss.
Our mothers and grandmothers passed through all u have said without crises - they bore and brought up the kids, they also worked (go to farms, businesses etx) and do their wify duties. You gals of nowadays just want to sit on softest sofas and be pressibg TV remotes and do nothing. If you want that life, go work ya ass (yes including prostitution), make ya money and forget marriage.

I wonder if our fathers and grandfather bitched and moaned about supporting the women folk?

I'm not doing this with you guys... it's a beautiful day and I've said my opinion.

SoapQueen:


Thank you, bitter!

For real, thanks. Amen to your prayers. I wish you same, too.

lol@bitter.


Nice idea.

LivingFree:


I wonder if our fathers and grandfather bitched and moaned about supporting the women folk?

I'm not doing this with you guys... it's a beautiful day and I've said my opinion.

My dad didn’t and he had side chics lol still made sure my mum did fuvk all .. I mean fuvk all
She didn’t work .. but after we all grew up she started a business out of boredom ... never ever ever heard my father once say anything about money .. it’s was a thing of pride for men to look after their wives .. obv this generation filled with LAZY men who will do anything to forfeit their role as a man ..

Ask them what they bring to the table .. ?

They expect ladies to cook, clean , carry a child for 9 months , push the baby out, look after the kids and the useless man , be submissive and also provide ...?.? They are crazy
That’s why I urge ladies to be independent so useless guys like that won’t get them ... keep em reserved for the guys who know their duty as a man and value the extra income the lady brings as a compliment to his ...

I’m telling you it’s guys with little or no cash that cry

Lalas247:

My dad didn’t and he had side chics lol still made sure my mum did fuvk all .. I mean fuvk all
She didn’t work .. but after we all grew up she started a business out of boredom ... never ever ever heard my father once say anything about money .. it’s was a thing of pride for men to look after their wives .. obv this generation filled with LAZY men who will do anything to forfeit their role as a man ..

Ask them what they bring to the table .. ?

They expect ladies to cook, clean , carry a child for 9 months , push the baby out, look after the kids and the useless man , be submissive and also provide ...?.? They are crazy
That’s why I urge ladies to be independent so useless guys like that won’t get them ... keep em reserved for the guys who know their duty as a man and value the extra income the lady brings as a compliment to his ...

I’m telling you it’s guys with little or no cash that cry

These guys have zero pride! They're too busy looking in the woman's purse.

They love feminism when it's about women working and paying half but hate feminism when it's about not submitting to a man... This generation of men have lost what it means to be a man and they attack us instead of going on a search for their testosterone. They run their mouth more than women then wonder why they're broke. If they spent their energy on money instead of chasing skirts they wouldn't have any problems. If a hungry bitch asks for money all they have to say is no like a man and mean it. Instead they come and disturb us.

SoapQueen:



Success is not sexually transmitted. Get yo ass up and start hustlin' for yo daily bread, ladies.

Though, I once asked someone I was dating to employ me so he could pay me or invest in my business( I was willing to split the proceeds). He blatantly refused, I had to count my teeth with my tongue and started doing my own(no matter how small).

Na thesame one head me and these guys get.

Not a bad post @ Op. Not bad at all.

u r smart girl I guess, different people different whahala, am expecting one of my ex to mention this as u said in ur first paragraph when we are dating, I already plan to invest at least #200k for her to open medicine shop but am shocked when she told me she need money for her birthday that she wants to host her friend. am shocked that I just free her that day and I block her immediately on WhatsApp and Facebook and since then she don't even bother to call me again and I don't fvcking care.

LivingFree:


I wonder if our fathers and grandfather bitched and moaned about supporting the women folk?

I'm not doing this with you guys... it's a beautiful day and I've said my opinion.

No they didn't use their hard earned resources on lazy ass bitxhes your irks that will eventually junk their innocent asses.

adetoroamos:
u r smart girl I guess, different people different whahala, am expecting one of my ex to mention this as u said in ur first paragraph when we are dating, I already plan to invest at least #200k for her to open medicine shop but am shocked when she told me she need money for her birthday that she wants to host her friend. am shocked that I just free her that day and I block her immediately on WhatsApp and Facebook and since then she don't even bother to call me again and I don't fvcking care.

Eyah. So sorry. Forgive her.

SoapQueen:


Well, people are different. Forgive them.

Ma dear, i hold nothing against anyone of them. Instead they believed and say i refused to help them - and i told them if i am never extravagant with my resources because i painfully earned them, is it them that i will give the resources to just like thay without any indication they will make judicious use of the resources? No bleeping way!

May be when government pays another Udoji

SoapQueen:



Eyah. So sorry. Forgive her.

forgive kini, shey pity they love Nii, definitely she's telling me that her birthday is important rather than getting her business set up. me just think when she have an own business she will be less demanding from me but she's soo unfortunate

BabbanBura:


Ma dear, i hold nothing against anyone of them. Instead they believed and say i refused to help them - and i told them if i am never extravagant with my resources because i painfully earned them, is it them that i will give the resources to just like thay without any indication they will make judicious use of the resources? No bleeping way!

May be when government pays another Udoji

See, maybe they felt you should at least help with their upkeep. I am not saying it is right but sometimes people need support. It isn't their fault, if you have the means, by all means do.

That being said, I am not a saint. At a time when things were tough I would have welcomed any help but mehn! I didn't want any guy to say "If not for me, she wouldn't have made it". Or any one to insult me.

All will be well.

adetoroamos:
forgive kini, shey pity they love Nii, definitely she's telling me that her birthday is important rather than getting her business set up. me just think when she have an own business she will be less demanding from me but she's soo unfortunate

Sad, but true.

BabbanBura:


No they didn't use their hard earned resources on lazy ass bitxhes your irks that will eventually junk their innocent asses.

Then be like them. Stop being a moaning mitch, and reclaim your nuts so you can stop disturbing us