soledayo:
This is exactly how it is. I noticed stuffs like but went ahead... Short of it all....just managing my marriage. God help me.

Her family. I thought a rose had grown from sh*t. I was wrong. It was a sh*t garden that grew nothing else.

koikoi2:
Rubbish. Flimsy reasons.

Rapsino:
Nice word. So many people r getting married because of children, money n time (especially girls ask linda) not because of love. My believe has always been "let love find yhu". As a young man of 27 I don't have a girlfriend not because I can't but because I am sitting waiting for the my love to come. Yes I am sitting. Of course I do relate with girls, but I am not putting force. If I approach you to be a friend and u r acting reluctant n running away. I move on. I know one day there will be one that I will approach and I will not force myself for attention and I will get it. That girl will be my wife. My advice to young guys is don't waste your time toasting a lady upandan. Sit

newsynews:
Some divorced people on AskReddit have shared what they see as red flags in a relationship which they say people preparing to get married should not ignore.





https://www.wotzup.ng/15-divorced-people-reveal-subtle-red-flags-ignored-before-marrying/

majekdom2:
mean is mean.... just had a similar experience last week. I am not sure I will get back.

ChiefSweetus:
I'm a 4-time divorcee

pocohantas:


Share with us...

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Everybody gave red painted all over them here. You just gotta take that step and hope for the best.

majekdom2:
hahaha, I don't ''publicize'' relationship events. we can do private

anigold:
I think everything boils down to understanding and love.. because everyone has a red flag. But some red flags are not to be touched example lying,cheating and unforgiving spirit.

anigold:
I think everything boils down to understanding and love.. because everyone has a red flag. But some red flags are not to be touched example lying,cheating and unforgiving spirit.

Silvermoney:


I don't want a sexually charged wife. All these women who are always hot and ready for action scare me marriage wise. When you have children, flabby body sets in, post baby big stomach that is almost permanent with many women, and overfamiliarity blurs the initial lust and attractiveness. Your desire to have sex with her as a man would drop. And yet she would still expect you to be pumping her regularly with the vigor you would if you meet a new sexy 22 year old girl. Simply not possible.

It doesn't work. I don't want that at all.

pocohantas:


But you've publicised some in the past.
I am sure of one were you talked about a self-centred gf.

I am waiting...

tydi:


my sister ,how can you hope for the best when you see the red flag, let me put it this way
you caught your fiance on fone making a call with an unknown person in a hidden place ,u came asked him whom he was with on the fone, he told you his sister , and u came to be a close pal to the sister , u later called his sister asking him after his brother when last ,she heard from him ,she said quite a while(2weeeks ago) , so you are to go ahead and marry the guy believing that he is to be a truthful person and hoping for the best of truths from him.

else the person is desperate to get married.

majekdom2:
publicised - as in full events like the ones that make front page and asking for advice.... naaaaa. I follow instincts rather than ask for advice as no one will understand how you feel.

Silvermoney:


I don't want a sexually charged wife. All these women who are always hot and ready for action scare me marriage wise. When you have children, flabby body sets in, post baby big stomach that is almost permanent with many women, and overfamiliarity blurs the initial lust and attractiveness. Your desire to have sex with her as a man would drop. And yet she would still expect you to be pumping her regularly with the vigor you would if you meet a new sexy 22 year old girl. Simply not possible.

It doesn't work. I don't want that at all.

tydi:


what would you say about forgiving but not forgetting?

MarieSucre:


Sorry about your marriage, have you tried to go for marriage counseling.

Rapsino:
Nice word. So many people r getting married because of children, money n time (especially girls ask linda) not because of love. My believe has always been "let love find yhu". As a young man of 27 I don't have a girlfriend not because I can't but because I am sitting waiting for the my love to come. Yes I am sitting. Of course I do relate with girls, but I am not putting force. If I approach you to be a friend and u r acting reluctant n running away. I move on. I know one day there will be one that I will approach and I will not force myself for attention and I will get it. That girl will be my wife. My advice to young guys is don't waste your time toasting a lady upandan. Sit

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You asking means you don't even trust your fiancee.