There's this lady I have strong feelings for and my love for her is just real. This is almost the 5th years still waiting for her "yes" . She's really stressing me a lot, I don't see any suitable lady apart from her. I'm afraid of losing my patience with her, while there are others ladies out there who are OK. But I just love this damsel sincerely. My best friend do Abuse me and insults me that how am so stupid of "waiting so long as 5years of waiting for a lady who's not interested in me. I became confused.(Although I heard from 2 spiritual brothers that she's the one for my life). If she's really the one for my life... Y giving me a tough time. (I'm confused). Her excuse and reasons for denying my offer is always "I don't have time for that now, Many things on my mind, I'm not ready for love ". I don't know or sure maybe she is dating someone. What should I do. This is almost 5years of waiting for her "Yes" please advise me sir/ma

You're on a long thing bro.

Give her another 5 years

Bruv let us put things into perspective

A jambite when you started asking her out will probably be a graduate by now

Buhari was still a saint in the eyes of many by then and now he is probably a Fulani jihadist in eyes of many

Obama was still the American president and now an impulsive Trump is the American president

Issa Hayatou, Zuma and Robert Mugabe were are amongst the most powerful men in Africa then and are nowhere today.

A toddler then will probably be old enough to hold a decent conversation with you by now


So you can see how much people have accomplished around you and the world at large in that period.

Think about that and answer your own question.

If you are ready for marriage, den u can sort ursef out, for now u never serious

You are waiting for her Yes, meanwhile she is waiting for Mr. Right!

What a life. Sorry bro.

LivingFree:
Give her another 5 years