Mrcapability7:


why would she talk about marriage with the guy, give him every attention and called him her love?

My problem is not the guy, why did she lied to me she is not dating someone or have someone she loved and consider serous in her life before accepting me even thou I have asked her the aforementioned before I proceed with the relationship

Bro, your missing out important details about what's happening to you. Uve still not answered my questions but nevertheless all I can say is this. Just because she accepted to date you doesn't give you the right to breach her privacy. Relationship takes time bro, before you question her about why she's talking about marriage, you yourself are you ready for marriage? Have you ever told her you have intentions to marry her and when? Before you even attempt to breach her privacy if you must do that, their should be a great deal of commitment from you to show her you want a serious relationship and not child's play. Ladies think differently, unlike us men they don't really have time. I'm not sure why she said yes to you yet cause I'm not in her mind but I can tell you one thing, she doesn't see a future with you hence that's why she's discussing it with someone else who she thinks is prepared to settle down soon. She might have met him after she accepted you, it doesn't mean she's sexually involved with him yet. Talk to her and let her know you respect her decision, tell her to tell you the truth and if she really wants to be with you or not. Don't ponce on her in anger else she won't open up to you, just be prepared to move on if she says she doesn't want to continue.

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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Better dump the biitch and move on with your life.

NOC1:
Why do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing.
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.

God bless you I was about typing same thing like the fact u said you are not "LEGALLY MARRIED"

Safiaa:
YES!! The world love is completely being used out of proportion. Can he die for this woman? Does he love this woman unconditionally? If she had no vagina, no legs to walk and no arms to prepare him food, would he still be there? If her beauty were to be wiped would he still look at her in the same way? If no, then that Is not Love my friend. Get with it.

Heyyy... you done dey turn am to Agape love be that ooo... lol

grossintel:
Bro, your missing out important details about what's happening to you. Uve still not answered my questions but nevertheless all I can say is this. Just because she accepted to date you doesn't give you the right to breach her privacy. Relationship takes time bro, before you question her about why she's talking about marriage, you yourself are you ready for marriage? Have you ever told her you have intentions to marry her and when? Before you even attempt to breach her privacy if you must do that, their should be a great deal of commitment from you to show her you want a serious relationship and not child's play. Ladies think differently, unlike us men they don't really have time. I'm not sure why she said yes to you yet cause I'm not in her mind but I can tell you one thing, she doesn't see a future with you hence that's why she's discussing it with someone else who she thinks is prepared to settle down soon. She might have met him after she accepted you, it doesn't mean she's sexually involved with him yet. Talk to her and let her know you respect her decision, tell her to tell you the truth and if she really wants to be with you or not. Don't ponce on her in anger else she won't open up to you, just be prepared to move on if she says she doesn't want to continue.

My nigga, my nigga! I bet you typed this with your 'good' hand! Imma call you!

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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Who sent you to be checking her phone "as the boyfriend". You have seen what you are looking for.

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages.

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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donstan18:
Did you just ask what you should do?

Well, you won't hear it from my mouth that you are foolish and stupid for asking such question.

The Boldfaced, donstan is even too polite. I feel like telling you harsher words

Grow up, move on. There is someone better out there

Safiaa:
We’ve all been here. Youll get over it with time. You don’t love her, you love the idea of being with her. Live your life

WHY DO YOU ALWAYS REASON LIKE PROPHET BULLHARY

Never let your emotions overpower your intelligence bro

did u no her age

NOC1:
Why do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing.
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.

because dey want to dead of high blood pressure

So you had to check her phn for what reason first of all

Are you hitting it?

My lover boy.. I see the garment of Sampson overshadow you, it is not obvious that is Delilah for you. Pick race jare. Or you want delilah to handle you to the enemy.


Be wise guy.

Safiaa:
YES!! The world love is completely being used out of proportion. Can he die for this woman? Does he love this woman unconditionally? If she had no vagina, no legs to walk and no arms to prepare him food, would he still be there? If her beauty were to be wiped would he still look at her in the same way? If no, then that Is not Love my friend. Get with it.

love is not unconditional anywhere in the universe.

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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She might be right by the way..

Women?




Ask us married men if you wan hear real story

Mr lover boy.. I see the Spirit of Sampson overshadow you, it is not obvious that is Delilah for you. Pick race jare. Or you want delilah to handle you to the enemy.


Be wise guy.

You dunno anything , girls of nowadays , my gf and I fought last week , I stopped talking to her so she would feel bad , today what I saw was another guy on her whatsapp status win the inscription I LOVE YOU SO MUCH BABY, I MIGHT NOT BE THE BEST FOR YOU BUT I'LL TRY MY BEST ..... I just dunno .... SMH

deleo16:
God bless you I was about typing same thing like the fact u said you are not "LEGALLY MARRIED"

Both use ya senses!,so because we are in a relationship and not married yet means we shd be careless abt our lifestyles?what do you even know abt relationships?ask your dad and mom asap!

Note-Dont try to smell what you wont even eat*

Forget about *I won't cheat on yu*...The Truth is, Everybody is gonna hurt yu..Yu just av to find the ones worth suffering for..Bob_Marley

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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Up till now your BRAIN still not working sef

iLegendd:
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Have a nice day.

Lolz

1) Never ever go through your GF/Wife phone. Nothing good can come from it, absolutely nothing. You'll just end up with at best heartache or worst heart attack.

2) I don't believe in long courtships for these reasons. If you have just a girlfriend then she's not only yours. If you have a fiancee then take her off the market ASAP.

3) Any real man will not act on a whim but on a set of principles. These principles should not be secret and should be known to anyone that you know about. These principles should be based on a set of acceptable and unacceptable.

4) My unacceptable includes infidelity and consequence is cast in stone, an immediate and unceremoniously breakup.

So if it were me then the need to do is clearly known to all concerned.

Good luck to you.

If you continue with this girl, and I think you will because most Nigerian males have turned soft, you should expect harsher stuff.

if you want to have a healthy heart and a sound mind, please try and resist the temptation of checking a woman's phone...

I swear down, the things you can find in her inbox will raise your BP to 180! Your adrenaline will pump like it hasnever been pumped before scrolling through her messages.

What if someone truly used her phone?
Am going through my sent messages d other day & I found several loves messages sent with my phone by a 15y boy who always tell me, 'sir please can I use your phone to call my mother?'

Don't jump into conclusion.

Its another one......

generation of flirts and call gals are almost all Naija babes

check did fanpage n see DAT almost all Naija babes r runs gal olosho

u may see ur sister or galfriend there

https://m.facebook.com/naijaolosho/?ref=opera_speed_dial&_rdr

donstan18:
Did you just ask what you should do?

Well, you won't hear it from my mouth that you are foolish and stupid for asking such question.

Love kill you dia.

TonyeBarcanista:

Like seriously?

hummm mr man.. Don't tell Me u know nothing about that....It's a phase most retired or experienced lovers visit and eventually seek asylum.


U gotta be honest a wise man or a would be lover boy can and should only be heartbroken once..