Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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Bros..... Play along and find a better sweetheart. Believe me u will almost hang urself when the truth opens up.

If you don't know what to do, are a baby not to know what to do?

All the money you'd spent on her, would you spend it on innocent young man that need help out there


Stop asking stupid questions.

Go get marry and stop fornication.


Well, I have ans for you dude. Impregnant her.

Safiaa:
If love is conditional it’s not true love. Period!!!!! No if buts or maybes.

Unconditional love is a myth, even God so loved the world that he gave his son, in order to achieve something great from that giving.

just get over it Bro, it's not worth it, I've been in that shoe before, check my recent thread and find solace, peace bro

...... Na Love-Love story but.........

LoneWolf200:


Both use ya senses!,so because we are in a relationship and not married yet means we shd be careless abt our lifestyles?what do you even know abt relationships?ask your dad and mom asap!

Note-Dont try to smell what you wont even eat*

chai in 21st century?now i know why u guys av complex problems with ur women...U are so daft and archaic ☛the women are milestones years ahead and u still claiming dead higher vessels..Smh

be like me.. no relationship.. zero worries... 100% peace

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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Are you ready for marriage and has she ever said I LOVE YOU to you? If yes MOVE ON. She is playing with you after seeing your seriousness...but if you are also a player ride on!

debygrin:
be like me.. no relationship.. zero worries... 100% peace

Talk true

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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Give yourself a very hot slap and then WAKE up. If you don’t, then your doomed forever in that relationship.

When it comes to heart break, i have experienced it so much to an extent i ran out of emotional glue and duck tape.

The first and 2nd time was heavy in fact i cried so hard and my friends were cheering me up. 2nd time i had a carryover in one of my courses cuz i wasn't focused.

She's not cheating on u she's cheating with you. I dated a girl that denied me in the presence of another guy thats one of the biggest Bleep up in my relationship life. Just walk away, don't yell dont quarrel. Ignore her totally

Im not beyond hearth break.
Girls can cheat OH LORD OF MERCY.
What i do when a girl messes up. If you're jobless its way worse. So get busy. Sometimes I hang out with a few friends just to get over the pain . If u have a matured female friend share your pain with her. Some ladies are really good at talking your mind off the heartbreak as for guys well all they would say is she's a b!tch. Just dont be alone and don't be less busy also don't get drunk.

Delete her numbers, pictures and text so u dont call cuz she's got u in a bottle.

Safiaa:
We’ve all been here. Youll get over it with time. You don’t love her, you love the idea of being with her. Live your life

He does not love her because he is contemplating leaving a LovePeddler?

Lol.

OP, are you a learner? Didn't you know you were only a shareholder? Probably a minority shareholder for that matter.

When it comes to multiple dating men are JJC these days. Even some girls of 19 are effortlessly juggling several guys from age 21 to 50!

She's not even a cheating wife, so what's your problem?

If you are heartbroken what of those who find out after 25 years of marriage that their kids are not theirs? Should they be kidney-broken?

Safiaa:
To me I don’t think it really exist, only between a mother and child. But hey, it’s romantic to say “I love you” to your partner, so let us continue and be happy

Ever wonder why old people say next to nothing about romantic love? Ever wonder why it's only those within the sexually active category who write songs, sing ballads, make movies, cry up and down about romantic love? It's a fiction created by nature just so men and women (especially since many women need that falsehood to have sex) can procreate.

When people say they are in love, nature laughs

You're a born fool, and so, shall you remain. That bloody girl is fucking a bigger cassava. Besides, you're not rich.uote author=Mrcapability7 post=67923458]I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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Safiaa:
Exactly, so then can we really call that true love? I don’t think so, I don’t define that as love. You love the conditons that come with the person. Not the person themselves.

You can like people and things unconditionally as a default. But when it comes to love, you love because there is something valuable and attractive to you and for you. Even a mother's love for her child is based on having the child as her replica.
ln a relationship, it should be a give and take kind of love, else we would keep deceiving ourselves with the so called most loving partner being also the most trampled on.

i woudnt do that.....checking the privat things of your partner....this is breach of trust......

you cant await from a woman to wait for you all her ol life....

she have to keep options open for herself.....

i understand that.....

you men are nothing special.....

TonyeBarcanista:

Punishment for wrong doing is a perfect display of love. It is the negative side of the reward given to loved one that does something inappropriate. It is the consequence of our action or behavior. Every action, behavior or deed either attract reward or punishment. If you love a child and you fail to punish him or chastise him when he errs, you are simply destroying him/leading him to destructive path, and how can you claim to love a child and still destroy him? Love does not accommodate irresponsible behavior/conduct.

As for God's genocide, the truth is that after the fall of man, God established covenant with Abraham and his seed (Hebrews). The covenant did not cover Gentiles but it only extend to those that treat Abraham and Gus seeds right. But Jesus came to give the grace to the whole world and extend the covenant beyond the seeds of Abraham.

There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love
1 John 4:18 KJV

Perhaps the word should be 'discipline' not 'punishment'

Safiaa:
To me I don’t think it really exist, only between a mother and child. But hey, it’s romantic to say “I love you” to your partner, so let us continue and be happy

Gbé enu e sóhün jàre! Never you confess love when udonminit.

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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all dese kids self.

TonyeBarcanista:

Punishment for wrong doing is a perfect display of love. It is the negative side of the reward given to loved one that does something inappropriate. It is the consequence of our action or behavior. Every action, behavior or deed either attract reward or punishment. If you love a child and you fail to punish him or chastise him when he errs, you are simply destroying him/leading him to destructive path, and how can you claim to love a child and still destroy him? Love does not accommodate irresponsible behavior/conduct.

As for God's genocide, the truth is that after the fall of man, God established covenant with Abraham and his seed (Hebrews). The covenant did not cover Gentiles but it only extend to those that treat Abraham and Gus seeds right. But Jesus came to give the grace to the whole world and extend the covenant beyond the seeds of Abraham.

go talk with your kenyans oo...they are loosing it....they are just continualy blabbling nonesense....

we will blaim you when they go mass suicide...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UW_xEqCWrm0

dont play with the feelings of others....

YungPrinzz:


Gbé enu e sóhün jàre! Never you confess love when udonminit.

rude and unnecessary

Mujtahida:

There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love
1 John 4:18 KJV

Perhaps the word should be 'discipline' not 'punishment'

Discipline is PUNISHMENT with intention to correct. The opposite of punishment is reward...

I will always say it "if you want to leave long, never go through your partner's phone"

Hmmm

[quote author=Safiaa post=67923577]We’ve all been here. Youll get over it with time. You don’t love her, you love the idea of being with her. Live your life [/quotle] you are really on point

[quote author=Safiaa post=67923577]We’ve all been here. Youll get over it with time. You don’t love her, you love the idea of being with her. Live your life [/quote/]

you are really on point

Safiaa:
YES!! The world love is completely being used out of proportion. Can he die for this woman? Does he love this woman unconditionally? If she had no vagina, no legs to walk and no arms to prepare him food, would he still be there? If her beauty were to be wiped would he still look at her in the same way? If no, then that Is not Love my friend. Get with it.

Then what is love oh "doctor luv"? Cos from your view, I don't think even God can love...

joe4christ:


Then what is love oh "doctor luv"? Cos from your view, I don't think even God can love...

I’ve explained it on the thread. Read through it.

That's how some guys will use their hands to kill themselves..
Bros it is now clear to you as day,that this girl doesn't love you like you do..
Why waste your time on her??
Abeg free am,make you go your own way!
But make sure you straff am before you free am o!