Princedapace:


A person who want to cheat will cheat! Forget that thing. I have many married young ladies who are cheating as we speak. If only their hubby can go through their phone, he would have known that he is living with enemy.

Find out on time the type of partner u are settling down with...

A committed relationship should be one with loyalty from both partners.. do u know why? Both are spending their time, energy and money. These three things are expensive.

Always find out who u are dating if such person is who u want to marry. Except na Bleep boy and Bleep girl relationship. But if u guys have made up ur minds to be committed, then faithfulness is expect from both of u.

If u like think sey na only when u marry ur gf u fit discover who she is! She go just kill u follow another man.. As we speak, a young married lady with two kids who used to be my friend is showing me green light for the past one year. If not that I have deleted the messages she sent to me, I would have asked u to send me message and I get to show u a part where she said "I am ready to do anything to be with u if u want'

A cheating woman can kill u just to be with her lust! No dey form 'modern guy' and say na until u marry ur babe before she can be loyal.... if she cant be loyal in committed relationship, she can never be loyal when she is married. Same goes to guys.

It is not by force, anyone who doesnt want to be loyal should not be in a relationship or marriage.. U can still be single and enjoy what married and those dating are enjoying.. So i dont see the need of going into a relationship only to be forming privacy up and down.

Just remain single so that u dont answer any question. For many years, I refused to date any lady becus I didnt want to have anyone to answer to. I was just jumping up and down and I had the fun of freedom... But when i knew I was ready to answer questions like where are u? What are u doing? Why didnt u call me? Who are u chatting with? Can i have ur phone? etc. When i was ready for these questions, I went into a relationship and remained loyal..

We shouldnt accept a stupid lifestyle in this our generation. We shouldnt justify unfaithfulness at all. It may finish our next generation.

Lol the guy thought when you 'make haste and pay her bride price' all will be well from then and if she was unfaithful, she will start being faithful.

onatisi:

Just like a wise man once told me," what you don't know ,won't bother you ".
I always say it that if 80-85% of married people still have extra marital affairs how much more the unmarried singles.
Just do your best and leave the rest,never try to please or impress anybody at the expense of your own interest or happiness,life is too short to waste it in things like this

And there are other clues for a spouse that pays attention.

For me I’ll just hire a PI and if my suspicions are correct it’s divorce lawyers office.

Life is short than to be snooping around telephones. And this particular subject deleted call records

Mr next time nor read her msgs only check her uploaded pictures ..if u do again na hospital u go dey post ur next message ............if u ask me to choose between u point gun for my head or u allow me read my gf message I go say I prefer the gun point to my head than to read my gf messages ...for peace to rein try next time avoid reading r msgs

TonyeBarcanista:

You should stop using your impressionist approach on the Bible. That passage you are misquoting... Thank you

You have not tackled the point. You said punishment is a display of love. I pointed out to you that the Bible says fear and punishment are associated and have no room in love. Rather discipline should be the be the appropriate word. Now you talking of impressionist approach. What's impressionist about the very clear words of 1st John 4:18.

I expected you to do better Bro.

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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. In the same sentence you are asking what you should do and still reminding us that you love her so much. Propose to her and take her to the altar next week.

NOC1:
Why do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing.
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.

Is like u never understand women
They are difficult & unpredictable
If a woman is not open & submissive to u during courtship how can she suddenly change after marriage?
Women are all the same as a man u have to install some discipline at the initial stage

Love is a choice, love is not a feeling.
You can choose to love her by going ahead despite her short comings...in marriage bible instructed husbands to love their wife. You choose who to marry based on what you want in your partner, if both of you are fine with each other the way you are then you make that commitment and love each other.
You often hear that love is for the mature minds not for children

NOC1:
Why do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing.
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.

See mumu. So because she's beautiful I should go n jump into marriage. As if marriage can stop cheating partners. Idiot animal!

Charlestotle22:
You must know that every disappointment might be a blessing.
Don't always expect to meet people truly committed to you within a short time.
Meeting people and expecting them to have us at the same level immidiately is usually a wrong guess.
Endeavor to avoid visiting someone's phone to monitor them. It will Hurt you. Work hard to know their emotional needs and meet them.
Finally, avoid sex because it affects your judgement of the level your relationship is and how deeply connected you are with the person in question.
Get up and walk friend!

This is good. This is what that heartbroken young man needs.

NOC1:
Why do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing.
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.

Thanks for that

Bluehill1051:
See mumu. So because she's beautiful I should go n jump into marriage. As if marriage can stop cheating partners. Idiot animal!

I swear, I love this your reply to that person. Some people don't use their head when commenting. How can he tell the op to go pay her bride price when he is just one the guys dating her.

it might be because you have started sleeping with her that brought about the jelocy. go pay her bride price and safe your heart from dating crises. stop deceiving ursef as that thing u liked in her can also be discovered by another man.

Oga, be deceiving yourself. She's not yours until u take her to the alter. She has every right to her privacy and please stop acting as if her pussy is specially designed for u.

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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If you want to live long....don't check a lady's phone. You will just die. What you don't know won't kill you. If two guys woo your boo in a day, in a month, 62 guys would have wooed her. So, just imagine the pressure on her to cheat on you. If she's still hiding it, thank your stars.

I know some oloshos will be happy with this my comment. Aiye yin ti baje.

It is important to know your motive and ensure that you are not deceiving each other.
Try talking to each other.

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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invite her over be nice to her tell her how much you love her treat her right and if she raises the issue don't tell are you are angry tell her she is forgiven, have her spread in your bed wide open and f##k her kitten up like it your last, walk her to the door n tell her u are breaking up with her she might think you are joking but bro don't let ur stupidity take control of you nicely walk her out the door n ur life for good. If you refuse to do it now n u are busy catching mum feelings sorry bro when she chatters your heart like that of adekunle-gold in Delilah we the naira landers would be here to remind u how stupid u were, it is obvious u are her side bf she is just playing u

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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Only check a woman's phone wen ur looking for an excuse to dump her

PrecisionFx:



Only check a woman's phone wen ur looking for an excuse to dump her

insecurity I guess but it paid off for him

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox ....
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Did you give her your own phone to check as well?

Serves you right!

You have no right to look through another person's phone even if she is your girlfriend!

King44:
insecurity I guess but it paid off for him

It didn't pay off.

He is presently devastated.

He still loves the girl.

Safiaa:
YES!! The world love is completely being used out of proportion. Can he die for this woman? Does he love this woman unconditionally? If she had no vagina, no legs to walk and no arms to prepare him food, would he still be there? If her beauty were to be wiped would he still look at her in the same way? If no, then that Is not Love my friend. Get with it.

somebody that don't have these things is not a human being nah. I can like it but not love it

Safiaa:

I’ve explained it on the thread. Read through it.

Don't get it twisted tho. God loves the sinner, it's the sin that He despises. But everyone has a grace until a point if such person refuses to change. It's like the bible said, "shall we continue in sin that grace may abound? God forbid."

Btw, before God can show His love to anyone on this earth, such person must believe in Christ Jesus, that is the only condition God shows His love. Those who don't believe in Christ Jesus, are only enjoying God's grace or mercy for as long as they live up until the point they accept Jesus do the love of God comes upon them.

It is unheard of that God will show love and no where in the bible does it back God showing love to people who did not believe in Christ, how then do people see the benefit of believing in Christ if the love is already bestowed upon those who didn't believe in Him in the first place?

Instead of using ur time wisely ur here crying urself a river over a bunch of shit called 'girlfriend' and someone had the effontry to bring this to frontpage

Safiaa:
No. despite all these commandments, whether we decide to abide by them or not, the love Jesus has for us remains. Just like as a parent you expect your child to abide by certain rules, but regardless you’ll still love them and treat them as your own. That is unconditional regardless of whatever.

Now in a relationship, man to woman, take some certain conditions away, and the love will eventually fizzle out. You love them based on what they can offer you, not for simply being who they are. That’s the difference.

No love is unconditional. Haven't you heard of parents disowning their children? Does unconditional love disown?

Romantic love can never be unconditional because something muct attract you to the person before you fall in love. What if that thing no longer exists?

Safiaa:
To me I don’t think it really exist, only between a mother and child. But hey, it’s romantic to say “I love you” to your partner, so let us continue and be happy

Which one be Mother and child again....I'm not sure of DAT......If u see d way my biological mother treat me henh, u will force me to ask my dad about my real mother.....Note: I'm not a wayward girl, I dont keep bad friends....If my mum see anything on me today.... she will go buy it d following day.... d envy can kill someone.

iLegendd:
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Have a nice day.

I can't find it

Thats life for you.....

Muskee Play along...

Stellamariss:
Thanks for that

Hypocrisy. If your husband cheats on you, I'm sure you wouldn't be happy

Advice next time don't check a girl's phone to avoid this you are passing through its an advise

people with sex doll are mocking at u

Safiaa:
We’ve all been here. Youll get over it with time. You don’t love her, you love the idea of being with her. Live your life

Don't love her, how? Or you are blind to the obvious red flags OP raised in the post?