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You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by MissAprokoMedia(f): 2:33pm On Jun 05, 2018
Please If You Educated read to the END of this Post, If you are less Educated read the 1st 5 lines the middle 5 lines and the last 5 lines


Good Afternoon Guys! I got an Email with "SAY NO TO HOMOPHOBIA in Nigeria" as the Subject matter and after reading that mail, I felt I should write a blog post about this, now I'm not gay for Saying No to Homophobia, I just trying to educate you on the Importance of how you treat Gay people.


I was in a chat with a friend of mine and then suddenly the talk about Gay people popped into the conversation and then he said,


"I so much hate Homosexuals, they disgust me... I prefer Lesbians to Homosexuals, atleast we understand that of Lesbianism but Homosexuality? Is so off it"


I felt he was stupid for saying that because it meant thesame thing, you don't need to prefer any of them if you don't like or support same sex relationship, are you trying to say you will gladly have a Lesbian for a daughter than a gay son,the outcome is same,leaving that aside as guy are trying to say you can date a lesbian and be cool with it, I wonder how you will cope when your Girlfriend prefers another woman's vagina to your esteemed Manhood, same goes for women on having gay boyfriends"


And then I hear some people say:

"Homosexuality" is a white man's way of life, it's not part of the African tradition, so it shouldn't exist in Africa"

this makes me cringe at their stupidity, is hate, tribalism, segregation part of the African tradition aswell, We make traditions and can aswell reform it.

I'm not in support of same sex relationships but that doesn't mean I should cast gays away, treat them like dogs, harass them and kill them, emotionally abuse them, deny them of their rights to good jobs (You cant get a Job in a reputable company in Nigeria if you are gay) simply because of their sexual orientation, you have no right to judge them,let God Judge them.

I know sometimes having a gay guy around you might be annoying, but you should learn to accommodate people just as you would accommodate worshippers of other religion, I'm sure if they had a choice they wouldn't choose what they are.. And that if they did choose to be gay, it's their personal choice.

So yesterday, I saw a guy's post on facebook while scrolling through my facebook timeline, he said,
"Who can tell me where to buy thunder that will fire all this gay people in my DM, do I look like gay for your eye? I wonder why these set of people are allowed to roam about, they should be massacred" and then I saw other Nigerian guys, even ladies that are supposed to be soft hearted cheering along with him asking him to cover his Ass with the blood of Jesus, but they failed to observe the following;
He had an artifical curly hair (His natural hair is not curly) so why perm it, since when did curly hair an attribute for women became an African man's thing?
He had a carved eyebrow like that of women (Are straight men allowed to carve eyebrow too? Only gay guys or lady's do )
He had Pink Lips �, it's now rampant, all Nigerian guys now have pink lips, some peel their original lips just to get that pink lips and then they say it's for the sake of looking cute, it's foolishness (As a straight man your goodlucks should be birthed by nature and properly managed by you) it's only women that are known to alter their looks just to look good.
He had a nose ring and a piercing in his ear lobe
He pouts when he takes selfies

Now tell me why he won't be mistaken for a gay if he is not gay, simply commented, if he doesn't want gay's around him he should look like a man and stop trying to look cute.
Imagine a world where gay people are the the majority, how would you feel if you were been beating for touching a woman, you were Been Humilliated for sleeping with a woman, you were denied a source of livelihood because of your sexual preferences? It wouldnt be good right?

As for those that keep saying "Homosexuality was the reason God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah, so Gays should be destroyed" - remember that God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah himself, remember that God didnt send a group of angry mob or soldiers to kill them, he was simply fed up and decided to flush them out of the earth himself, God has every right to do that because he created them and gave them a chance to change and when they didn't he judged them, he didn't give humans that right to judge because they too weren't worthy enough, so you see... What you as a Homophobe have been doing to gay people has been wrong, even before God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah Gay guys rapport with straight men, the Bible didn't record anywhere LOT was raped, he lived amongst them but he wasn't influenced by them.


If you're Not been Influenced by Gays then let them be, as long as they are not forcing you to practice it and to Gay men the act of forcing straight guys to have gay relationship with you is WRONG! Respect their sexual preferences as well!!



If you are not gay and a gay guy approaches you kindly tell them, "I'm sorry I don't do men, I love Women" and that is cool and okay! Very matured and if they insist, block them if it's on social media, If they try to harass you... Report to the appropriate authorities and let them be disciplined instead of hurting them, setting them up and castigating them, they will never approach you if you have not been giving them a feeling that you are gay and if they approach you when you don't look gay in any way.... Tell them straight! THAT WAY THEY WILL STAY CLEAR instead of being Homophobic.


Stop making other people's sexual preferences your BUSINESS so that you will live long, stop thinking about how gay people have sex unless you want to try it out, learn to accommodate people, just like you as a Christian you won't like a Muslim to over power you and seize your rights to worship in your faith, same goes with Muslims aswell.

The case of Homophobes and gay people is the same as the tribal war going here in Nigeria, the IPOB'S feel oppressed and cheated and want to break out, but with simple understanding and learning to accommodate people we will be at peace with one another.

I didn't write this post to offend any body, please if you are offended I'm greatly sorry, and if you feel my opinions doesn't go in line with what you think! It's fine... I accept defeat!


Published by JoelsBlog:
https://joelsblog.com.ng/you-can-dislike-gay-people-its-fine-but-dont-be-homophobic-dont-be-a-homophobe/

Lalasticlala, Mynd44

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Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by MissAprokoMedia(f): 2:34pm On Jun 05, 2018
LALASTICLALA I REALIZED YOU MAYBE A STRONG HOMOPHOBE THAT'S WHY YOU NEED TO READ THIS
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by chiommy123(f): 2:51pm On Jun 05, 2018
I don't understand this gay thing and how they feel comfortable
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by MissAprokoMedia(f): 2:52pm On Jun 05, 2018
Chiommy123 is still here reading... I'm shocked!!

Lalas247 I know you are the one that got married to Lalasticlacla, may both of you never have a happy married life... Lalasticlala even if you get married today... I don't care... I will still come for you... I swear... Better respond to your whatsapp dm
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by MissAprokoMedia(f): 2:53pm On Jun 05, 2018
chiommy123:
I don't understand this gay thing and how they feel comfortable

Me Kwa
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by babyfaceafrica: 3:10pm On Jun 05, 2018
Yinmu
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by eezeribe(m): 3:11pm On Jun 05, 2018
Before you open your sinful mouth to judge and condemn them...
If you have ever indulged in pornography,mouth action masturbation,fornication, adultery, rape,bestiality,necrophilia, etc... QUIETLY SHUT UP,YOU NO HOLY PASS.

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Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by chiommy123(f): 3:14pm On Jun 05, 2018
MissAprokoMedia:
Chiommy123 is still here reading... I'm shocked!!

Lalas247 I know you are the one that got married to Lalasticlacla, may both of you never have a happy married life... Lalasticlala even if you get married today... I don't care... I will still come for you... I swear... Better respond to your whatsapp dm
why are you shocked MissAprokomedia because me iam not understanding
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jun 05, 2018
Your anus was not created to accept dick penetration, so why would you burst it open undecided
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by MissAprokoMedia(f): 3:26pm On Jun 05, 2018
chiommy123:
why are you shocked MissAprokomedia because me iam not understanding

I thought you would have read the first 5 lines and disappear
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by MissAprokoMedia(f): 3:26pm On Jun 05, 2018
OfficialDad:
Your anus was not created to accept dick penetration, so why would you burst it open undecided

Is not your Anus... So why are u concerned?
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Mariangeles(f): 3:29pm On Jun 05, 2018
MissAprokoMedia:
Please If You Educated read to the END of this Post, If you are less Educated read the 1st 5 lines the middle 5 lines and the last 5 lines


Good Afternoon Guys! I got an Email with "SAY NO TO HOMOPHOBIA in Nigeria" as the Subject matter and after reading that mail, I felt I should write a blog post about this, now I'm not gay for Saying No to Homophobia, I just trying to educate you on the Importance of how you treat Gay people.


I was in a chat with a friend of mine and then suddenly the talk about Gay people popped into the conversation and then he said,





I felt he was stupid for saying that because it meant thesame thing, you don't need to prefer any of them if you don't like or support same sex relationship, are you trying to say you will gladly have a Lesbian for a daughter than a gay son,the outcome is same,leaving that aside as guy are trying to say you can date a lesbian and be cool with it, I wonder how you will cope when your Girlfriend prefers another woman's vagina to your esteemed Manhood, same goes for women on having gay boyfriends"


And then I hear some people say:



this makes me cringe at their stupidity, is hate, tribalism, segregation part of the African tradition aswell, We make traditions and can aswell reform it.

I'm not in support of same sex relationships but that doesn't mean I should cast gays away, treat them like dogs, harass them and kill them, emotionally abuse them, deny them of their rights to good jobs (You cant get a Job in a reputable company in Nigeria if you are gay) simply because of their sexual orientation, you have no right to judge them,let God Judge them.

I know sometimes having a gay guy around you might be annoying, but you should learn to accommodate people just as you would accommodate worshippers of other religion, I'm sure if they had a choice they wouldn't choose what they are.. And that if they did choose to be gay, it's their personal choice.

So yesterday, I saw a guy's post on facebook while scrolling through my facebook timeline, he said,
"Who can tell me where to buy thunder that will fire all this gay people in my DM, do I look like gay for your eye? I wonder why these set of people are allowed to roam about, they should be massacred" and then I saw other Nigerian guys, even ladies that are supposed to be soft hearted cheering along with him asking him to cover his Ass with the blood of Jesus, but they failed to observe the following;
He had an artifical curly hair (His natural hair is not curly) so why perm it, since when did curly hair an attribute for women became an African man's thing?
He had a carved eyebrow like that of women (Are straight men allowed to carve eyebrow too? Only gay guys or lady's do )
He had Pink Lips �, it's now rampant, all Nigerian guys now have pink lips, some peel their original lips just to get that pink lips and then they say it's for the sake of looking cute, it's foolishness (As a straight man your goodlucks should be birthed by nature and properly managed by you) it's only women that are known to alter their looks just to look good.
He had a nose ring and a piercing in his ear lobe
He pouts when he takes selfies

Now tell me why he won't be mistaken for a gay if he is not gay, simply commented, if he doesn't want gay's around him he should look like a man and stop trying to look cute.
Imagine a world where gay people are the the majority, how would you feel if you were been beating for touching a woman, you were Been Humilliated for sleeping with a woman, you were denied a source of livelihood because of your sexual preferences? It wouldnt be good right?

As for those that keep saying "Homosexuality was the reason God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah, so Gays should be destroyed" - remember that God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah himself, remember that God didnt send a group of angry mob or soldiers to kill them, he was simply fed up and decided to flush them out of the earth himself, God has every right to do that because he created them and gave them a chance to change and when they didn't he judged them, he didn't give humans that right to judge because they too weren't worthy enough, so you see... What you as a Homophobe have been doing to gay people has been wrong, even before God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah Gay guys rapport with straight men, the Bible didn't record anywhere LOT was raped, he lived amongst them but he wasn't influenced by them.


If you're Not been Influenced by Gays then let them be, as long as they are not forcing you to practice it and to Gay men the act of forcing straight guys to have gay relationship with you is WRONG! Respect their sexual preferences as well!!



If you are not gay and a gay guy approaches you kindly tell them, "I'm sorry I don't do men, I love Women" and that is cool and okay! Very matured and if they insist, block them if it's on social media, If they try to harass you... Report to the appropriate authorities and let them be disciplined instead of hurting them, setting them up and castigating them, they will never approach you if you have not been giving them a feeling that you are gay and if they approach you when you don't look gay in any way.... Tell them straight! THAT WAY THEY WILL STAY CLEAR instead of being Homophobic.


Stop making other people's sexual preferences your BUSINESS so that you will live long, stop thinking about how gay people have sex unless you want to try it out, learn to accommodate people, just like you as a Christian you won't like a Muslim to over power you and seize your rights to worship in your faith, same goes with Muslims aswell.

The case of Homophobes and gay people is the same as the tribal war going here in Nigeria, the IPOB'S feel oppressed and cheated and want to break out, but with simple understanding and learning to accommodate people we will be at peace with one another.

I didn't write this post to offend any body, please if you are offended I'm greatly sorry, and if you feel my opinions doesn't go in line with what you think! It's fine... I accept defeat!


Published by JoelsBlog:
https://joelsblog.com.ng/you-can-dislike-gay-people-its-fine-but-dont-be-homophobic-dont-be-a-homophobe/

Lalasticlala, Mynd44
No matter how pitiful you describe them, their act is a pollution to the society and
are they ready to change...? The answer is NO!


What I hate most about them is when they lure unsuspecting, naive little virgin boys and defile them angry angry ruining their future and turning them to homosexuals! angry

Do you know that most guys that are homosexual were defiled and conformed by a homosexual?
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jun 05, 2018
MissAprokoMedia:


Is not your Anus... So why are u concerned?

Who is this one undecided , did i mention you. You created a stupid post, i decided to help you and comments. Abeg get lost from here.

Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by austyn0(m): 3:33pm On Jun 05, 2018
Hian,,, onye nkea,, is he/she alright??

Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by darfay: 3:34pm On Jun 05, 2018
OfficialDad:
Your anus was not created to accept dick penetration, so why would you burst it open undecided

Lol. I think that is their problem to worry about
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Nobody: 3:37pm On Jun 05, 2018
grin
darfay:


Lol. I think that is their problem to worry about

Well you're correct, but vagina was created for that penetration stuff, I wonder how bone go dey kncak bone, and they will be mourning undecided . this world don spoil
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Mariangeles(f): 3:39pm On Jun 05, 2018
In the US today, almost 7 in every 10 persons are homosexuals... Why is that so?
That's because when you allow them to freely do whatever they want, the society becomes polluted.

God does not HATE them, God hates the ACT!
But are they willing to change from their ways...?
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Lalas247(f): 3:54pm On Jun 05, 2018
MissAprokoMedia:
Chiommy123 is still here reading... I'm shocked!!

Lalas247 I know you are the one that got married to Lalasticlacla, may both of you never have a happy married life... Lalasticlala even if you get married today... I don't care... I will still come for you... I swear... Better respond to your whatsapp dm
see me see trouble o grin
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Lalas247(f): 3:55pm On Jun 05, 2018
OfficialDad:
grin

Well you're correct, but vagina was created for that penetration stuff, I wonder how bone go dey kncak bone, and they will be mourning undecided . this world don spoil
even Adam loved pussey cheesy
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by BluntTheApostle(m): 3:55pm On Jun 05, 2018
Mariangeles:
No matter how pitiful you describe them, their act is a pollution to the society and
are they ready to change...? The answer is NO!


What I hate most about them is when they lure unsuspecting, naive little virgin boys and defile them angry angry ruining their future and turning them to homosexuals! angry

Do you know that most guys that are homosexual were defiled and conformed by a homosexual?

Did it happen to you? Please, be free to share, son.
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by BluntTheApostle(m): 3:56pm On Jun 05, 2018
Lalas247:
even Adam loved pussey cheesy
shocked
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Lalas247(f): 3:57pm On Jun 05, 2018
BluntTheApostle:


shocked
lol I lie
it made him eat the apple God told him not to eat... is u see even from Genesis it is written man n woman ..

shalom
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by LordOfNaira: 3:57pm On Jun 05, 2018
Lalas247:
even Adam loved pussey cheesy
What about Jesus? It appeared like he was gay.
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jun 05, 2018
Lalas247:

even Adam loved pussey cheesy

Just the same way i love your pussey cheesy , nothing sweet pass Pussey that is wet, hot and delicious. Taste like jollof rice stack with meat, fish, pomo and wine.

#yummy

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Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by BluntTheApostle(m): 4:01pm On Jun 05, 2018
Lalas247:

lol I lie
it made him eat the apple God told him not to eat... is u see even from Genesis it is written man n woman ..

shalom

You are right. grin

But the world has changed seriously. For instance, long ago, it was only dick for the pusssy but now, people use tongues also.

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Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Lalas247(f): 4:01pm On Jun 05, 2018
OfficialDad:


Just the same way i love your pussey cheesy , nothing sweet pass Pussey that is wet, hot and delicious. Taste like jollof rice stack with meat, fish, pomo and wine.

#yummy
haha ..
but if it makes them happy sha wts my biz....
God will judge at the end..
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Lalas247(f): 4:01pm On Jun 05, 2018
BluntTheApostle:


You are right. grin

But the world has changed seriously. For instance, long ago, it was only dick for the pusssy but now, people use tongues also.
Maybe Adam used tongue too who knows.. grin
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jun 05, 2018
Lalas247:

haha ..
but if it makes them happy sha wts my biz....
God will judge at the end..

That sh!t doesn't make them happy. They're bunch of miserable low life idiots. How can you be fvcking another guy whereby you can clearly see his balls dangling undecided . I prefer to see boobs dangling, not ballz
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by BluntTheApostle(m): 4:03pm On Jun 05, 2018
Lalas247:

Maybe Adam used tongue too who knows.. grin

grin

Surely, the Bible will never record that. So, it is a possibility Adam ate the pusssy like it was imported apple.

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Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Lalas247(f): 4:22pm On Jun 05, 2018
BluntTheApostle:


grin

Surely, the Bible will never record that. So, it is a possibility Adam ate the pusssy like it was imported apple.
lol which made him disobey God
the power of kitty grin
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by Kaysalas(m): 5:52pm On Jun 05, 2018
BluntTheApostle:


grin

Surely, the Bible will never record that. So, it is a possibility Adam ate the pusssy like it was imported apple.

BluntTheApostle:


You are right. grin

But the world has changed seriously. For instance, long ago, it was only dick for the pusssy but now, people use tongues also.
Waoh! I tot I was engaged in a healthy intellectual debate with you on another thread? Why you con run comot naa? Since morning wey I don reply you. wink
Follow my handle and post to the thread, if you don forget. I am still waiting for your response. Don't come and tell me u nor get time for me O grin shocked shocked
Re: You Are Free To Dislike Gays, But Don't Be A Homophobe" - Nigerian Writer by chiommy123(f): 6:20pm On Jun 05, 2018
MissAprokoMedia:


I thought you would have read the first 5 lines and disappear
NO. I wanted to understand the op very well. how was your day

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