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Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by wayne4loan: 10:12am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Iranu |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Stamfordluiz(m): 10:13am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Quality20:And you call a woman of fifty years a lady 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Sijo01(f): 10:14am On Jul 12, 2018 |
dalaman: Says who? you trying to tell me you've not seen women on the news who were 50 and above gave birth? 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by blazesam(m): 10:14am On Jul 12, 2018 |
WHO SHE EPP |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Stamfordluiz(m): 10:14am On Jul 12, 2018 |
I knew she must have made some expensive choice when she had the chance to get married 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by dalaman: 10:16am On Jul 12, 2018 |
oglalasioux: Whether in 2050 0r 2100. Women at 50 can not have children naturally. Majority of women attain menopause at 50-52 years. 2 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Stamfordluiz(m): 10:16am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Sijo01:Am sure you won't like to make such choice or you didn't make such choice |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by SAMBARRY: 10:18am On Jul 12, 2018 |
SMH. We need a lot of repriotization in this part of the world When marriage is a standard of measuring a woman's success and achievement even if the family knows she's beaten like an animal 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by dalaman: 10:19am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Sijo01: It is so uncommon that it makes news. It is just like a man falling from the 12th floor of a building and surviving. It will definitely be a news item because it is considered as a miracle. Getting pregnant naturally and giving birth at 50 to a normal baby is a miracle. 2 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Sijo01(f): 10:19am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Stamfordluiz: You think it was her choice to be single at 40 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Nobody: 10:20am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Simplep:Oti o! Don't let your mama hear that o! She go just call village elders meeting on top your head. |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by oglalasioux(m): 10:20am On Jul 12, 2018 |
dalaman: What do they have, robots or mannequins? 3 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by omojesu202(m): 10:21am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Quality20: are u kidney me |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:22am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Stamfordluiz: dalaman: the reason some women (and also men) commit suicide is because of narrow minded people like the above. to them, a woman above 40 is useless to marry, and marriage is solely about having children (and certainly not about wanting to spend the rest of your natural life with someone). then we wonder why an educated woman would commit suicide?! THEY are the reason why, THEY should be blamed, and funny because these are the same people who would be against abortion but then reject adopting a child! these people, along with rubbish religion, failed governance and deluded society, are the reason Nigeria is going backward 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by franchasng: 10:23am On Jul 12, 2018 |
ehinmowo:Yeah, its not easy for ladies....couple with the menopause issue....its not just about parental pressure alone...even if their parents don't pressure them, society pressures them....seeing their friends and mates back then in school sharing lovely pictures with their husbands and kids is enough to pressure them. It is not easy to be a woman be it in America, Europe, Asia or Africa...the pressure is almost the same, the only difference is that the economy of other nations are okay so single ladies can still fend for themselves and live a happy life materially, but still traumatized emotionally for being single, reason most white ladies fall for Yahoo Yahoo boys and their internet romance scam. Seriously, we need to help the ladies become happy in any way we can cos its not easy for them at all, God will strengthen you ladies 4 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by dalaman: 10:24am On Jul 12, 2018 |
oglalasioux: She will need to get pregnant through artificial insemination(IVF). Even at that the success rate is less than 10%. The chances of getting pregnant naturally and giving birth to a healthy baby at 50 is less than 5%. 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Yankee101: 10:26am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Naija parents should stop that rubbish |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:27am On Jul 12, 2018 |
franchasng: bro, stop writing nonsense....it is ONLY in deluded countries like Nigeria that a single woman would commit suicide because she isnt married at 40. in most part of the west, people dont view marriage like Nigerian does. most women who fall for yahoo yahoo do so because they are LONELY, not because they cant get married, duh! there are NO pressure to get married in the west, stop writing rubbish. 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by dalaman: 10:27am On Jul 12, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: Shut up and be quiet! The reason why most people remain married today is because of their children. If not because of children majority of couples would have gone their separate ways. 4 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by esty27: 10:30am On Jul 12, 2018 |
delugajackson:How come women are the ones who need marriage the most? Explain cos I don't get your thinking 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by romenna: 10:30am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Simplep:let me advice u like an elder bro, date a guy u love and stick with him weda he's rich or not. wen u r 28 marry him. how abt dat? |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Schuffeadv23: 10:32am On Jul 12, 2018 |
HeWrites: Where is your own sense in this. |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by phemsie(m): 10:32am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Quality20: Except having chldren |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by mimimile93: 10:35am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Was there any need letting us know she had a masters degree? Just tell us a lady above 40 died due to parental pressure to get married. 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by franchasng: 10:36am On Jul 12, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1:speak what you know! I have single ladies from USA, Canada, Ireland, Germany, Japan, Austalia (very many of them), Kenya, Malaysia, China, etc, etc that write me seeking for help to find a man to marry. Some even ask for love spell to trap a man they have been crushing on.....God in heavens knows what I am talking about....its unprofessional for me to reveal some personal conversations with some of them, if not, I would have revealed them here....you guys always think living in America, Europe, Asia and any advanced nation exempts you from life's miseries, huh No human being ever want to remain lonely forever no matter who they are okay We are social animals....loneliness affect our emotion and general mental being it can destroy some people, so stop talking thrash and listen to a professional 3 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:36am On Jul 12, 2018 |
dalaman: A) do you know you can have children without being married to someone?! B) do you know that many Nigerian women are miserable in marriage, and the only thing that keeps them there is the child? C) do you know that many Nigerian women are married solely for baby making purposes, and they remain miserable in that union? D) do you know that many deluded Nigerian women marry the 1st donkey that comes their way, as a desperate measure to be married and/or have babies?! why do you think that is, if not because of a deluded Nigerian society/people who look down on unmarried or divorced women?!?! if a woman/man are miserable together then they have NO reason to stay together for any reason whatsoever. if a woman and man dont LOVE one another then let them go their separate way and raise that kid in a safe positive environment. 2 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by 21savages: 10:39am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Quality20:U said 50, wt will dat one go nd do in her husbands hux. |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Jabioro: 10:41am On Jul 12, 2018 |
All what she studied academically was nothing to her,she reads books without putting them into practice., she was a failure from the devil's dungeon darkest world ..If I may ask what did she study? A master in self killing... do not mention me because I am a wicked man to any suicidal... |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:42am On Jul 12, 2018 |
franchasng: bro, again, STOP WRITING RUBBISH!!!! here in the west, people dont give a damn about marriage. if it happens, its ok, but if it doesnt then LIFE GOES ON! it is only in deluded miserable countries (where people cant even get 3 square meals a day) that women are raised to believe tha their only salvation is marriage, and whether happy or not, without marriage they are viewed as worthless. again, women all over the REAL world, dont give a damn about marriage, if it happens GREAT, if it doesnt LIFE GOES ON... stop believing the messages you receive from either yahoo yahoo or fat fugly disgusting women who know that desperate Africans would do anything for a green card (even marry a woman that nobody wants in the west) No human being ever want to remain lonely forever no matter who they are okay We are social animals....loneliness affect our emotion and general mental being it can destroy some people, so stop talking thrash and listen to a professional angry angry there is a HUGE difference between being lonely and being desperate to marry AT ALL COST...many women in the west are lonely, YES, but they certainly aint desperate to get MARRIED, they are only desperate to find a man.....HUGE DIFFERENCE! again, only in Nigeria that marriage is viewed as a DO or DIE issue! because guess what?! here you dont have to get married to get all the perks of married people,,, its called common law union 3 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by oglalasioux(m): 10:43am On Jul 12, 2018 |
dalaman: Thanks for confirming the possibility. There are over 7 billion people on the planet. Work out the percentage of women that are above 50. A 1% success rate is substantial and it paves the way to the fact that mankind can do more in the near future. 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by bukatyne(f): 10:44am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Simplep: What will marriage stop you to enjoy? And life is not maths. Except you have someone you both havery agreed to wait till the next five 5yrs to hit the 28 mark, there is no guarantee that when you are 28, they kind of men you want will still be available. And if marriage is not useful to you at 23, why the usefulness at 28? 4 Likes |
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