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Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Saff(f): 5:10pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
justmi1:sharraaappp. Let us live our lives. If we happen to meet a guy on the way, great! Keeping your options open is what most 23 year olds do. But I’m not going to kill myself because I haven’t found my husband yet. Jesus 2 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by dasparrow: 5:10pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Sharpshooota: African culture is so flawed that Africans can't seem to make any significant progress. All other continents are making some strides except Africa. Very horrible place and the butt joke of the entire world. 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by dalaman: 5:11pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
dasparrow: Your aunty got pregnant at 50 though non natural means . Either through egg donation or IVF. Women at 50 can not get pregnant naturally. Most have either hit menopause, even if the produce eggs, the eggs are useless. Doctor Sauer says "Women age 50 and over rarely get pregnant without in vitro fertilization and donor eggs. Just 0.01 percent of all births occur in women over age 47, reports reproductive endocrinologist Mark Sauer " I agree with the rest of your post. 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by dasparrow: 5:13pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Stamfordluiz: The only choice she made was deciding not to get married and that is not a crime. I don't know why Nigerians like you don't get it that marriage is a choice and not something you force people into. 2 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by victorian(f): 5:27pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
I feel ladies should just ignore family, friends, society pressuring us for marriage. As for me, while I was still living single, it got to a stage I don't allow anyone pressure or mock me into getting married. The stubborn ones I cut them off. Weddings of friends I ignore, lol . I simply focus on my work, love life and friends who make me happy, even family sef disturbing me to get married I cut them off, lol.. I don't need such emotional stress Biko. I pity ladies who get themselves worked up Cos of marriage. I know we all thinking of our biological clock but for me o, what will be will be. I have other pressing issues to disturb my brain on.. Certainly not marriage. Am already in a loving relationship, that's just like been married, the only thing remain na paper work. And we are both happy with what we have going for us. Do u know because of society pressures, some women end up marrying wife beaters, ritualists and con men. I know of a lady who got married due to pressures to a ritualist. No one knew the man was planning to kill her and renew his wealth. They wedded in a big way. Everyone was happy and saying at last. She married at 32. Within two Months into the marriage, we heard she's dead. The husband said he came back from work, met her lying dead on the floor. Just like that. That's how her matter end. Parents cried uncontrollably but shes gone. Another one, she brought her fiance home to meet her parents, after much pressure. They like the guy gentle looks, after meeting her parents, it's now the guy turn to take her to his parents, whom he claimed lives outskirt of Lagos. They went together. She's meant to come back 2days later. The second day, mum called her phone, it's switched off, the 3rd day still switched off and she's not back from her fiance parents place. They began to panic. One week, she's still not back and phone off. The dad had to report to police station, no one knows where he lives. He gave the parents fake address. All hell was let loose. Last last, someone on their street saw this lady at Ibadan expressway, half naked running up and down by the side of the road.. She has turned into a mad woman. The neighbor who saw her, quickly alighted from the bus and screamed her name, she didn't recognize him, he was just crying, he quickly brought his phone and called home, tell his friends to go to the girl's parents house , that he has found their daughter and she's now Raven mad . The parents came, shedding tears, cursing the guy whom she brought home., covered her body and tied her up. She is locked up in her room, receiving treatment . Up till date she's still not OK. It's going to 3years now, still locked up. So single ladies let nobody, no family ,no friend push u to your destruction and death. It's not worth the wahala. Be careful. Be wise. 3 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by dasparrow: 5:52pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Stamfordluiz: Now I am convinced that most Nigerians are illiterates. The dictionary defines lady as: "a woman (used as a polite or old-fashioned form of reference." But then again since you come from a chauvinist society like Nigeria, I don't expect you to know that the term "lady" is a polite way of referring to a woman irrespective of her age. |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by dasparrow: 5:54pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: You will live long. Thank you. |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by kongolo(m): 5:55pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
dasparrow:When i was reading Mrbrownjay1 posts on this thread i was saying to myself; "Hmm...this person sounds exactly like Dasparrow" and now here you are 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by dasparrow: 5:55pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
tintingz: Well said. 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by dasparrow: 6:06pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
franchasng: And I maintain, not everyone desires marriage same way not everyone desires singleness. There are people out there who are not married but are not alone either. They are in long fulfilled relationships with their partners. I for instance detest sex so being married will be a nightmare for someone like me who does not desire to swim in another person's genital fluids or secretions. So I intend not to get married. And even if I had desired marriage, I will not marry from that backward continent called Africa that the world never takes seriously. I don't mingle or socialize with Nigerians in real life so they won't have the chance to pressure me into a union I genuinely don't desire. Not all women or men desire marriage and that is the bottom line. Forcing a person into marriage can have dire consequences. Take it or leave it! 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by kongolo(m): 6:07pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
tintingz:Oprah Winfrey has been in a committed relationship for over 30years with a man called Stedman Graham 1 Like
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Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by justmi1: 6:18pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Saff:lol, I didn't say you must marry at 23, I mean if you get someone you love at 23, why not get married. She sounded like she still wanted to flex till 28 even if a man proposes earlier. |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by OyinO: 6:24pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
The parents never killed her; foolishness did. 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Saff(f): 6:39pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
justmi1:okay better |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Saff: |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by tintingz(m): 6:44pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
kongolo:She's not married to him, she's not under any obligations and vows of marriage, they are not husband and wife, they are boyfriend and girlfriend, she's in an open relationship with the man, know the difference. |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Saff(f): 6:45pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
GODPUNISHUNA:lol what |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Saff: Your post is hilarious but true Who knows, I might just be that PERFECT ONE you've been searching for |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by OkpaAkuEriEri(m): 7:25pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
dasparrow:shes a wayword disgrave |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Lol,abi my dear,as for me,i stay alone,take care of myself,nd i still need more money in my life,i want to b very comfortable on my own bfore tinkin of marriage,dnt want my kids to pass tru wat i passed tru abeg,,i want to enjoy..cheers!!!! Saff: |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Yes,i will not get married until am 27,28,even if i get proposals i will stand by my words,until am comfortable, am nt gonna marry,even if d guy has money,am nt gonna marry him.i want to b okay on my own.dis is MY life nd dats how am gonna do it,so ur opinion dos nt count a kobo justmi1: |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Nobody: 7:30pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
I tire o dasparrow: |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Saff(f): 7:40pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
GODPUNISHUNA:first start by showing me your picture. We can go from there |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Saff(f): 7:41pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Simplep:I feel you sis |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by oglalasioux(m): 8:09pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
janellemonae: First you said it's not possible. Then you said it's possible and gave examples of Hollywood women. Where exactly do you stand and where is my statement wrong? The end product is children. You people just want child bearing to be the traditional mama papa fucking process. And that's how many are frustrated to marry total strangers. |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by oglalasioux(m): 8:13pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
authority2006: Can you give an example of a right partner? Our papas where able to have a right partner in our mamas because of the threats of religion and tradition. Not anymore. Women have opened their eyes to that deception by men and want equality in everything. Expect more divorces in the coming years. |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by justmi1: 8:59pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Simplep:lol, no vex nau simplep |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by franchasng: 9:00pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
dasparrow:lol, wahala de are u a male or female abeg |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by franchasng: 9:01pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Mobilia: 1 Like |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by kongolo(m): 9:15pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
tintingz:An open relationship is a partnership in which both parties agree to have sexual relations with others while still maintaining their relationship.I repeat,Oprah Winfrey has been in a monogamous relationship with Stedman Graham for over 30years 2 Likes |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
Saff: Trust me, you wouldn't be disappointed when you see my pictures and when you see me face to face. I'll just let the suspense continue for now |
Re: "40-year-old Woman Poisons Herself Due To Parental Pressure To Marry" - Lady by authority2006(m): 11:51pm On Jul 12, 2018 |
oglalasioux: No one will disagree with you on this point. But then, an example of the right partner is the one you will give everything to get married to again if there is anything like reincarnation. |
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