Ok, so I am going to fess up that I'm peeking on alot of the pictures that some of the members post here on their profiles. Some of yall are what I'd call not cute, very unique, or what some may just flatly call ugly

In my past, I'd never look at a guy who in my eyes is not a cutie, but as I got older, I learn that cuteness is very overated, hence, I learnt how to see someone from the inside and stop looking on the out. My most recent ex is one of those, as most of my friends would frequently question and compare both of us in looks and ask why I choose him.

Have you ever seen past someone's uniqueness and love them with all your heart because you no longer see what everyone else sees?

Is 'Uniqueness' a replacement for d word ugly/wowo?

topup:

Yes, looks are uncertain and they change, you've seen those makeover shows, is it not the same man/woman, just with different clothes etc.

Yes there are some people who look pretty much the same before and after, but to be honest, if you pick a man with a good character, you won't be complaining of his looks 20 years into your marriage.

Exactly what I am saying. You see them for who they are and not how they look. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. He's cute when you behold his heart and he behold yours. Nice uh?!

'Mi o le somo ti o fine'

I believe we should learn to appreciate the innermost being.Handsome and beautiful can be most deceptive.all the same,God help us.

Pweety4me:

'Mi o le somo ti o fine'

What's this baby-sis



I must admit I do appreciated good looks in a guy but, good behaviour and a kind heart mean more to me.

^^^Cool runnings.

Carolece:

My most recent ex

This should be the body

The girl I've been closest too was "off point" in looks from my dreamy fantasy girl. She had a pretty face and her proportions were ok for her height and weight. That was all. No nice round prominent bum, not dark and provocative colour; Eyes weren't slit cut, and she wasn't all that tall; but I thot she was perfect cos she was my friend before being my girl and we shared everything and had peace.

I've met other girls I wouldn't say were "Oh My Goodness" in looks, and have see that I could date them if things worked out, and I've met girls that were "ALL THAT" but never made it to the 'date-able' list cos they probably were grossly lacking in character or just were not looking for what I was in a relationship or just were not interesting enough to keep me in pursuit or outrightly didn't think of me as their kinda guy.


Point is, sometimes it's good to be flexible. The 'must have's' sometimes end up been guide lines to draw us to the niche where we myt find the best thing or the next best thing. Good to pay attention to our corporeal ideals that are temporal in substance while seeking the real.

With a the typos there I hope I still communicated effectively?

Onchedu:

With a the typos there I hope I still communicated effectively?

use the "modify" tab and edit them . use spell correct function if u have any queries. or just yank out ur dictionary

Thanks. Noticed that shortly after I had posted.

Goes both wayz. Same 4 ladies 2.

As they grow older, they get wiser

iice:

I tire ooo

@Topic
I associate uniqueness with character not looks. I've always been a character person. Yes sometimes they are cute but that's just a bonus and not really necessarily. Nothing like a cute face with a wasteland behind the eyes.

Wat's dat?

Character takes all. Being cute is just a bonus. I love bonuses. Dont like pretty package with rotten content.

only one of it's kind, distinctive, exceptional, exclusive. Whatever; however u understand d word uniqueness, it shouldn't be a watchworld because of d singular fact dat ''they all look bright until they speak''

@ poster;
i'm well pleased with d fact that u look at it other-wise as u grow up.

The right attitude speaks for every other attrributes.

@ y'all gals;

Don't embrace 100% compatibility if you cherish and crave what will survive the test of time.

Looking unique?? Really don't know about that.  

I have to find him attractive. And the good thing about that is that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". And yes, what some deem as beauty may be downright ugly to another. At the end of the day, it's the way YOU(who's actually gonna be in the relationship) feel about the person in question, that really matters. I don't think viewing him/her as 'unique' is a healthy way to start a relationship. That's like, "Oh you're really not up to my level but I'll manage". S(he) should be attractive to YOU, even if other people don't see their attractiveness.

can date monkey
but not having baby with monkey
my baby daddy fine
my own daddy well fine 2
but my daddy not very nice
hope baby not be like own daddy