mytime24:
See them baby papas

Giving advice to fellow men to b like them


What a shame

kmcutez:
Very good advice.

jbreezy:
Honestly, itz jst hard to find a naija woman who will love yu unconditionally for wu yu are...american/ british women av different mentality tho...for me, itz either foreign woman or no marriage

Tundeobama:
olosho spoted

yettymuse:
very sad and not enviable. The reason a lot of women are rooted to a SITUATIONSHIP in the name of marriage is because of the patriarchal society they've found themselves and a whole lot cannot leave their PROVIDERS.

Have you asked yourself why the rate of divorce amongst Nigerians living abroad is lower compared to Nigerians living in Nigeria The system resets their archaic cultural values and makes them sit tight! Changes their misogynist being and brings reality to their doorstep.

Truth is, it's quite hard in this mad clime to have a 'forever happy after' without the usual appearance keeping. Kudos to the few ones that are GENUINELY and HAPPILY married in this COUNTRY. to the rest, the Lord is una strength!

Shortyy:
SMH look at what a so called respected celebrity is vomiting from his mouth? Marriage is not for everyone. Don't discourage people from getting married just cuz you are not mentally mature to get married.
I'll get married someday, when I'm ready and with someone who understands me. Not just love, love isn't enough.

I'm so disappointed in you Timaya.

stane007:
Few hours after Nigerian music star, Timaya disclosed he is done making babies, he was spotted in a video advising Phyno and others about marriage

In the viral video Phyno shared on his Insta-story, Timaya was spotted saying 'marriage doesn't work, just have babies.' Here is the video below; 


https://lailasnews.com/marriage-doesnt-work-just-have-a-child-timaya-advises-phyno/

savvytouch:
Wasn't he the one always panel beating her Nigerians sha smh

yettymuse:
very sad and not enviable. The reason a lot of women are rooted to a SITUATIONSHIP in the name of marriage is because of the patriarchal society they've found themselves and a whole lot cannot leave their PROVIDERS.

Have you asked yourself why the rate of divorce amongst Nigerians living abroad is lower compared to Nigerians living in Nigeria The system resets their archaic cultural values and makes them sit tight! Changes their misogynist being and brings reality to their doorstep.

Truth is, it's quite hard in this mad clime to have a 'forever happy after' without the usual appearance keeping. Kudos to the few ones that are GENUINELY and HAPPILY married in this COUNTRY. to the rest, the Lord is una strength!

Waakanda:
Very wrong advice bro ... As for me, I'm enjoying my marriage like 'kilode'

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xtervaganza:
He's right. I wish I never got married and more than 70% of married men feel the same way

pansophist:


Of course, you can always, conveniently, blame it on patriarchy, typical knee-jerk reply from women that lack any sense of accountability.

Waakanda:
Very wrong advice bro ... As for me, I'm enjoying my marriage like 'kilode'

kmcutez:


Everyone is an olosho to the simple minded. You have no imagination to think outside the box. Probably your mother was an Olosho.

Tundeobama:

my mum marriage is intact so is mine,its only olosho who jump dicks and thinks marriage doest work.marriage doesn't work for people with several sex partner or people thier mother did that

kmcutez:


Since most marriages in Nigeria have one partner or the other jumping preek and t*t*. Why are they still married?

I'm sure your mum has jumped preek several times, so has your dad. Your wife is also jumping from one preek to the other, but codedly. Probably you are also jumping t*t*.

Abegi, spare me the sanctimonious bullshit. There is no difference between married and single olosho. Your mum, dad, wife and you are all oloshos.

xtervaganza:
He's right. I wish I never got married and more than 70% of married men feel the same way

Rozaytee:
thats y most of u are unfortunate...

omooba969:





@anjilgreat - you have no moral compass to side with the idea of denying either of the parents rights over their kids.

People like you ride on emotions, which is sad!

Newboss:
Oh, how dumb those your people are

Who is your father? The one that paid your mom's bride price or the one that fücked your mom, released his semen into her pussy, and a sperm succeeded in fertilizing an egg which finally metastasized into a foetus?

Oh, some people are so dumb.

Go ahead and deny the child access to the father and blame the father when shit gets real.

You are dealing with a human being, not some plastic baby.

mailemy:

In Igbo land any child born out of wedlock belongs to the girl's family. He or she will bear thier surname. He will have every right to land in the mother's house.
You think being a father is just having a dick to impregnate a woman.

mailemy:

In Igbo land any child born out of wedlock belongs to the girl's family. He or she will bear thier surname. He will have every right to land in the mother's house.
You think being a father is just having a dick to impregnate a woman.

omooba969:


That bolded text above is a misuse of word, I mean it's an inappropriate word to use which is self-destructive. One question you have failed to ask yourself is - 'Is tradition made for man or man is made for tradition'? If tradition is made for man(which I believe that you'll agree with) then it shouldn't be greater than man nor destroy man but serve a useful purpose.

My question is - 'Does this Igbo tradition promote internal cohesion or further breeds rancour in the society'? Does it serve Justice? Just as it serves as an instrument of identity, also behaving as law, need I say that it will be improper for that aspect of your tradition to serve as law coz the final product of such tradition doesn't serve justice to the father & is not in the child's best interest - it calls into question that aspect of your tradition.

Your last paragraph DOES NOT negate the fact that the one who impregnated the woman is the true father of the child. When the time comes, water will eventually find its level - if you know what I mean.

Have a good day.

mailemy:

Definitely the man is still the father of the child. That's the tradition but it can be settled amicable btw both irrespective of the laid down tradition. But in case where the woman's family are in need of a child,definately the child will be theirs and will benefit from the woman's land. That does not relegate the father of the child.
I have a female friend,who is not married but has 3 children from different men with the support of her parents because she is the only child of the parents. I do not support her,because her parents are being selfish here. All of those 3 kids are with her parents.

omooba969:


I have another question about that tradition but wanna know if you're Igbo...are you?

mailemy:

Yes