Funkybabee:



It's not a sin my brother, why run away.he should have sit her down there and talk about it nah, don't u think it didn't show about been a responsible man..

OK she didn't talk about it when she was ordering? Its when she finishes eating she wants to talk about it!! Hmm.. Some reasonings are baffling. Greed is greed no matter how you paint it. Well trained girls don't go on dates to wreck people.

Adakintroy:


You are right my broda.

But this girls sometimes deserve this kind of embarrasement. They are just too greedy sometimes wicked.

If you tell them this way. Them go tell their friends you are broke and stingy.

A wise lady make order with considerations. You don't just make order. Sometimes you systematically ask the guy..: "are you sure you can afford this"?

It's a sign that you care about his pocket. Some will just take the lead in ordering everything like them Don catch mugu. Thats why they get treatments like this. Don't feel sorry for them. The girl know what she did. Just like the guy knows what he did.


Aside. dates should be just a light outing to meet each other and make simple intruduction. Something that white do at coffee stand.

Our girls go go eateries Wan finish everything with eye.
lazy girls that never ever want to work.

7 gbosa for this comment. Nice

Ihatelove:

Offer her even bottled water!! See this one shouting poverty up and down!! Go and eradicate the one in your village

he is right, honestly speaking you are poor.

Oreofepeters:
he is right, honestly speaking you are poor.

Honestly speaking you are broke

Ihatelove:

Poverty alleviation scheme? How much can you spend on a date that you want to alleviate someone's poverty? If you can't offer her anything, simply don't invite her out.

If ordering takeaway for her whole family in an eatery is not poverty alleviation scheme then what is it? Even nigerian politicians no send you reach that one.

Wiseonetemmy:


If ordering takeaway for her whole family in an eatery is not poverty alleviation scheme then what is it? Even nigerian politicians no send you reach that one.

stay away from poor girls

Lol... Gobe reloaded

Ihatelove:

you will be my escort then

Even if I were idle and wanted to get involved, I still wouldn't because of this your Moniker, it's so unnatural. It suggests a bad history with the opposite sex. If you stab your date when dispute about bill settlement emerges, I'd be tagged as an accomplice, or taken as an eye witness.

Well truth be told I can't say serves her right because I believe what the guy did is wrong.

First of all if you are taking a girl out and you feel your pocket isn't deep, tell her, if she really want to be with you she won't mind taking a bottle of coke.
I have planned dates on very small budget before because I understand that "he cannot KILL himself"

What happens to "I would want to hang out but don't really have so much, but we can both do with this budget" But pride will not let some of them talk, and then end up embarrassing the girl this way.

So tell her your budget before hand and if she no agree, let her be.
No be by force to hang out with the babe.

And to some ladies, stop being Oliver twist, stop embarrassing the woman image, Don't you cook or eat in your houses.

Ihatelove:

Honestly speaking you are broke

broke doesn't exist in my dictionary. Do I need to prove it to you.?

flyca:
I cannot, have never and will never go on a date without having my own money in my pocket. Even when I was younger, my mum will not even allow me leave the house empty handed. For first dates, I love to be the one to pay.

Besides the only thing I eat out is yogurt, few other times moi-moi Every other thing I can invite you and cook it in my house. I even cook better than all those curry-one-side rice they serve at most Nigerian eateries. So we cannot be spending more than 1k on first date, for what nah

Anyway, it's all these guys abandoning their dates in restaurants are broke cowards! And I can smell from them 50km radius.

Let's do it this weekend na ... Atlest I just got an assurance we spending less than 5k!

Ximenez:
Even if I were idle and wanted to get involved, I still wouldn't because of this your Moniker, it's so unnatural. It suggests a bad history with the opposite sex. If you stab your date when dispute about bill settlement emerges, I'd be tagged as an accomplice, or taken as an eye witness.

oh lord, I am not like that

no need embarrassing the lady. if you can't pay, then say so.

Wiseonetemmy:


OK she didn't talk about it when she was ordering? Its when she finishes eating she wants to talk about it!! Hmm.. Some reasonings are baffling. Greed is greed no matter how you paint it. Well trained girls don't go on dates to wreck people.

Okay sir

I wonder when a date becomes a quorum sef, whr we have a minimum number of people for a meeting or forum...

Shameless and hungry girls... I think I luv the guy, I just assumed probably he was in a show like that lately which he tried correcting the babes and they ignored and he was forced to form a big boy n paid* and luckily those emerged..!


Serves them right*

Techlisa:
Well truth be told I can't say serves her right because I believe what the guy did is wrong.

First of all if you are taking a girl out and you feel your pocket isn't deep, tell her, if she really want to be with you she won't mind taking a bottle of coke.
I have planned dates on very small budget before because I understand that "he cannot KILL himself"

What happens to "I would want to hang out but don't really have so much, but we can both do with this budget" But pride will not let some of them talk, and then end up embarrassing the girl this way.

So tell her your budget before hand and if she no agree, let her be.
No be by force to hang out with the babe.

And to some ladies, stop being Oliver twist, stop embarrassing the woman image, Don't you cook or eat in your houses.

Thank you bro!!! One bottle of Satz for u

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A mad man will not know that he is mad!! same With you. please did I ask u to quote me before bringing ur unfortunate frustrated life outside?


U arr craz√.

Note: my last quote for an unfortunate being and if ur cra√y is that bad u can quote bk

The golden rule is to do onto others as you would have done onto you. These girls should be human. Do not order what you cannot pay for. Those days girls call am VEXMONEY!!!

Ihatelove:

oh lord, I am not like that

I will find out in due time, perhaps one guy here will also create a thread and share the experience he had with you.

hmm

Lakside1955:
Honestly, am beginning not to understand what always goes through ladies mind when they go out on a date.

Thats how I met a girl on Saturday noon at a bustop in my area, on normal level, I asked her; can I drop u to your destination cos am with my ride, she said yes and we exchanged numbers after dropping her, like 2hrs later she beep me up that she's bored at home that can we just hang out? On a weekend level now nothing to do but catch fun, I told her yes and asked where can I picked her up, she told me the bus top.
By getting there I met her with other two friends making three, OMG, I asked her why three? She said baby they are my friend and all of us where bored at home that's why they came along with her, ( I don turn baby sharp sharp) I said fine no problem, on our way going she asked where are we heading to, I replied dinners hotel, a popular hotel bar around d area, she said no they want to go KJ as in Kingstonjo haaaaaa, alakoba leleyi o.
Well on getting there, all of them ordered for plate of rice with chicken and big chivita juice each , i don die , i called the waiter and asked for each, she said 4500 so all of them now is 13500, I jejely asked her, sandra are u paying for this? She said no now baby, I said if you are not paying for this then return the food cos am not paying.
Me dat want to carry them go dinners bar jeje then buy one big magic moment make all of us they alright go home
I just left them there and go without paying a dime, luckily for them no one don taste the food sef if not dem for hear am

You really did this?
Infact lemme, make I faint in peace mbok.

pp802:
This is so unfair. Yes, I know some ladies can be greedy, but then he should have spent according to his pocket. Tell her, No I'm not buying......this is what I can afford. Better than letting her demand for plenty and stylishly abandoning her.

So, she needs to be told that she shouldn't eat like she would die tomorrow? Had she been fasting for days before the date? What a senseless excuse you are giving

Ehiscotch:
This is so not right. Making fun of such a situation is so wrong, it is never right to treat a girl this way - whether not she is a slaymama.
This behavior should never be condoned. We all have friends or sisters who slay or go on dates and we wouldn't want them to be treated this way.

So not right.

To all those mentioning we do not know what actually happened and we cannot really say "she deserves it because she was trying to wreck a guy". Heck! You also should not carry every random "slayqueen" to a date .

Since you too don't know what really happened, don't you think you are being unreasonable to say "it isn't fair to treat her that way? For all you know, she might have been trying to play that guy for a fool

Techlisa:
Well truth be told I can't say serves her right because I believe what the guy did is wrong.

First of all if you are taking a girl out and you feel your pocket isn't deep, tell her, if she really want to be with you she won't mind taking a bottle of coke.
I have planned dates on very small budget before because I understand that "he cannot KILL himself"


What happens to "I would want to hang out but don't really have so much, but we can both do with this budget" But pride will not let some of them talk, and then end up embarrassing the girl this way.

So tell her your budget before hand and if she no agree, let her be.
No be by force to hang out with the babe.

And to some ladies, stop being Oliver twist, stop embarrassing the woman image, Don't you cook or eat in your houses.

U made sense but let me tell you many girls forming big dont think so when a guy ask them out they think it’s their right to show that they have class and wanna hangout at expensive places which they themselves on their own cannot even dare to enter.
I have talked to many and they wanna hangout but when i lay ground rules of date on where we can go and all they say I AM BROKE and i should look for girl of my status. And i just laugh at them its not about how much a person can afford but is like if i make a million should i come and be spending million on a date every month.is it wise?? Most girls just dont know how to manage finances as i have seen.
If you tell them your budget they will say u r cheap and u should go and date someone of tour standard and next thing is insult that you will face for wasting their time.
And i know not every girls is same some understand what money means and how to spend if if they are serious about a guy and not one tht will chop and clean mouth she will surely know what to spend on date rather than ordering too much she will manage her own self and understand what guy can offer rather being greedy.
Just my view no offence intended

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Good one

Funkybabee:



Ask What! Is he not the one who asked her out

So, this is the kinda thought you would eventually brainwash your children with , Is this the way you were brought up
I wonder the kinda slum n cesspit you emerge from .... Filth n trash girls with empty head !!

We be winning like its our right.
join us tomorrow morning (06/09/2018) and thank us!!

Darkseid:
Guys are finally starting to have sense, kudos to that nigga. If she order too much, no complain, just jejely leave her to pay her own bills.

the people saying is not right are women not men, I remember sometime ago I went to sell live chicken for someone at the market, so after I finished selling I saw my chick so told me she was hungry that I should buy her a plate of rice and I did, after eaten one plate she said sorry o she took another one, after finishing that one again she said sorry o and took the 3rd one, I ended up using all my profit to pay for the food, but if na now, honestly I go waka leave am, gush.

pp802:
This is so unfair. Yes, I know some ladies can be greedy, but then he should have spent according to his pocket. Tell her, No I'm not buying......this is what I can afford. Better than letting her demand for plenty and stylishly abandoning her.

Same ladies don't want to hear that, incidents like this is good sometimes

Funkybabee:



Thank you bro!!! One bottle of Satz for u

I am a female