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Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by adaphik(f): 5:06pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
@ Filani, Ur last sentence made me LMAO, STILL THERE? I mean listening to ENYA? May join u shortly, lol |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
@filani thank god another person who witnesses that Carolece's each and every post is male bashing. actually, since she is quick to hate on all men, i wonder why she hasnt turn into a lesbian by now. |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
MRbrownJAY: I think for once I agree with you! You can tolerate what you can permit! |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
^^^^^woah, UJUJOAN and I agreeing on a subject. . . . . . . . .that definitely calls for celebration! |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
^^^ LOL |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by BeautfulB(f): 5:29pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
@ poster am very sorry for that pls try and talk things with him, if he still continues then let go of him, he did not deserve you at all, I can never in my life take such shit from a man, not even when am married NEVER! |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by adaphik(f): 5:41pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
MRbrownJAY:Oh Puuhleeeezzee |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by lonelydude: 6:00pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
@adaphik, where exactly are you at the moment? |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by 0hsisi: 6:39pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
Carolece: Where you are from,they also have numerous babies out of wedlock,must you do same? If you want to change your situation,you must be willing to change your outlook until then ,you will wallow in the same pit and return some years down the line with 3 kids and 3 different fathers still searching for the right man |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by 0hsisi: 6:44pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
LOVE.4BUG: Thank God you didn't pull a dagger on him. these men think it's every female that is as meek as a lamb. once in a while,they do jam real women |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by Onchedu(m): 8:02pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
Caro, mabe U bring out the shyt in men? U said it Urself, they don't appear to be shyte coming from afar but they seem to end up giving off shyty qualities when they are with U? Lemme read the rest of Ur post and know what Ur on about first before I continue. |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by Onchedu(m): 8:10pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
Ayt, I've read thru ur post. I'm sorry for being hard on U in my previous response. It wasn't intended to make u feel like Ur no good with me. Anyway, I perceive U are among the girls that want to live the script someone else wrote with the hope that following it will bring them good? Sounds to me like U try to be the good girlfriend but end up setting urself up with the things U do and those u dont just so u can be that different woman to a man that would appreciate Ur efforts and reward u by being to u the best man? I myt not understand u very well but i think for Ur post there's enough evidence that U are not just being urself and letting the girlfriend in U be herself? Forget the how to be the best gf scripts in ur head (if that's what this is) Just be U and know what U want and what U expect and demand to be respected by who U are with as a person by what u allow or don't. U are neither good nor bad but U probably assume ur good enuf to get good and bad enuf to be revered shey? Lemme stp analysing U. The guy that slept with ur sister has issues and this one has serious issues but U seem to have let them with those issues affect ur joys negatively. Maybe U should take a break from the dating scene too and get to know Urself a lot better so next time around u'l be ontop of things. |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by Isabella89: 10:19pm On Jul 05, 2010 |
Hey people! How about we open a thread and find a good man here in Nairaland for Miss Caro, Nigerian men make excellent husbands/life companion (whichever Caro wants). There are many out here looking let's see what we can do and for your info I am trying to look for a husband for my cousin in the thread below https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-474266.0.html Miss Caro, trust me we can get you a good Naija man here, a white woman from Atlanta met this Nigerian friend of mine online, came down here and swept him and all the goodness in him off his feet. Lots of our men are more than good, believe me. |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by GL(f): 1:14am On Jul 06, 2010 |
all guys are nice when they approach women, everyone likes to put up a good front. that's why this issue of good/bad choices keeps coming up; we have to look beyond the exterior, into guys' pasts, habits, associations etc when we choose. even with all this there's still a risk of things going wrong, and it's everyone's responsibility to protect themselves from abuse. i understand how some women feel tied down to abusive relationships, but in your case, i agree that you tolerate what you can permit. growing up with your dad must have taught you a lot about these sorts of relationships. one personal experience with a nice guy who turned abusive should have made you even more wary. yet, you repeated the pattern of getting into abusive relationships. from all you've said there's no indication that you had a child with any of these guys, and you even said that you are financially independent. so what could have been tying you down, making you hang on long enough for any guy to hit you a second time? i actually find it surprising that you didn't call the cops, or move out the day after the guy in your post sexually assaulted you. surely, the first assault must have brought forth strong, painful memories of your childhood. that you endured several assaults from more than one man might indicate that, on some level, you rationalized abuse as inevitable. |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jul 06, 2010 |
@poster i agree with you talk is cheap alot of pips are talking about how you shld have gotten out e.et.c they were nt wearing your shoes.The goodnews is you are out of those r/ships,the second is you are healing,the third is you are never going back to such i hope,the fourth is you are looking up to God.The scars will always be with you but dont forget you deserve the best and you just made a mistake everyone does in different ways now you are making a right take so goodlucl with life. P.S pls i knw this aint easy but dont let those men steal the joy you could get from hooking up with a goodman.Not all men are the same. |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by 190: 3:32pm On Nov 25, 2010 |
ROTFLMFAO, @ Dis old topic not my carol!! |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by MrsEve1: 3:43pm On Nov 25, 2010 |
Furry Willy, Did you beat Omoloa when you cheated? |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by 190: 3:45pm On Nov 25, 2010 |
^^^ Shut up black badger!! |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by MrsEve1: 3:56pm On Nov 25, 2010 |
I badgers people who cheats! Just say the word Omoloa! |
Re: I Got The Beating When He Cheats. by Youngpo413: 3:52pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Hmmm |
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