Ladies and guys
Why is it so hard to move on after u break up with your first real love.....

Your first love,........ the one u really loved
The one you had a real connection with.
The one you want to build your world around.
The one that made u know the true defination of love.
The one that made your heart tingle and you skip a beat when he/she is around.
The one you had plans about starting a life and family with.
The one u connect with both physically, spiritualy and emontionally

but, all of a sudden...... something happened along the way, which made both of you to go your seperate ways
its like a tusnami that swept u off your feet

Most times the fault aren't yours but, yout keeps holding to the apron of love you both shared for a long time thinking it will work, we will patch it, we will survive this test of time
but, the faults mostly lies with your partner because he had moved on while u still believe their is a relationship. Also, it might be due to religious differences, medical stuffs, and family compactability, mistakes.....
So, moving on is the apprioprate choice for both parties involved

In life changes are part of our existence and u have to move on, but what happens will definately affect the process of moving on.
Because,
Its keeps bringing back memories of how we gave our all...... but, we couldn't show anytin for all we gave and put into it.
It keeps aftecting the person that wanna show us love because we believe they are bird of the same feathers
It make the other guy become the 'escape goat' of our failed relationship.....
Its makes us believe that love is a ferrytale


So, why is it soo hard to move on from your first love
and embrace the other person that is showing us the part to true love,want and desire

so good 2 be back. it was hard 4 me 2 4get dey guy o! until i found some1 that could f@ck like him

chipatra: so good 2 be back. it was hard 4 me 2 4get dey guy o! until i found some1 that could f@ck like him

was that the only thing you missed about him?

Depending on how mature you and your first partner were. I was sixteen when I supposedly had my first "love". Today when I see him I only ask myself how I got involved with him in the first place.

being broke, when you get fvckin rich, infatuation vanishes automatically, you can't even remember from where you knew her

Elantracey:

was that the only thing you missed about him?

yes naw

Most are just Crushes and Infatuation.Nothing real

My hubby will b my first n last love

Lordabas: you'll forget your "first love" as soon as you find "true love"

words of wisdom ...... but, the first love also set the part for true love......

That is if one eventually sees it

Odilafta: Most are just Crushes and Infatuation.Nothing real

some are real


And if not real as u said.....
why do people still hold on to them if they are crushes and infatuation.... that it mostimes affect their relationship with the opposite sex

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some are real


And if not real as u said.....
why do people still hold on to them if they are crushes and
infatuation.... that it mostimes affect their relationship with the
opposite sex[/quote]





They hold on to it because they refuse to move on.What you would understand is that most people are always too clingy/obsessed of their supposed "first love"

Odilafta:





They hold on to it because they refuse to move on.What you would understand is that most people are always too clingy/obsessed of their supposed "first love"

because that is the first person that gave them the defination of what they believe true love is....
The ferry-tale they read in the novels..... And he/she makes their world complete

and most times the person they would have moved on with couldn't match up with what their 'first love' gave them.........

Still dating my first love

i dnt think first love is hard to forget o cos most often we do mistake infactuations for love especially wen we are younger, u will most likely find out u werent in love by d time u find true love. first love ke, tahhh!

Oooooooooook.