Please i am not a good writer, just read it the way I write it.

It all happen that since 2012 that I broke-up with my girlfriend because her mother did not approve our relationship, It was as if my life is disaster. I then vow not to engage in any relationship again until I am ready to settle down, Note: I become a deeper life member in 2014

It happen on February I meet this Calabar girl were we both work in a restaurant as waiter and waitress. And I was interested on her, but I always pull her leg by asking her how is her boyfriend doing and the reply she always give me is that she don't have a boyfriend. After many observation I decided to propose to her and she accept my proposal that very night it was as if that was the happiest moment of my life that I finally find what I have been searching for after 5years.

Along the line she got pregnant on April and I believe it my own then until I find out the truth recent so I doubt if that pregnant is really my own. I told her to abort it then because I am not planning to settle down at the moment and I don't have what it take to be a father yet, she insist that she will not abort it. After some weeks her mother find out and ask her who is responsible, she call me that her mother ask me to come over, I town it down without much thinking. After some weeks she suddenly agree to abort it which I give him money to do that and to treat her infection too because she was having toilet infection then, I spent almost all my salary on her then because what I earn them is 30k while she earn 20k.

The restaurant worker find out that we are both dating and they report the issue to the company management. To me it look like insult so I resign without much thinking, I spent roughly 2 weeks at home jobless before I got a security job that they pay me #17,500 per month. That is never my problem all I know is just to make her happy. She later fought with the restaurant supervisor over the same issue and they sack her...

To cut the long story short, along the line her birthday is close and I want to surprise her with something. Her phone is not good again, then come to think of it how can someone that earn just #17,500 monthly buy good for for someone, luckily before then I hit a small jackpot on bet9ja because i am a punter. I then contact bobo65 to help me order for a phone from AliExpress and the phone arrive 3 weeks after..

Tuesday was her birthday. I was awake till 12am just to be the first person to send her birthday wish which I finally did, she insist I should come to her place that very day, which I did I get there place around 7pm I meet her sister and mother there, I give her the gift I bought for her she seems so happy, but that day the way I see her she is pregnant because after we both left the restaurant we don't see like before again,

And finally after so much investigation and analysis as a Betting specialist, Lolz. I find out another guy at her computer school I have bleeping her. I feel so heartbreaking, so discouraged, betray I can't just control my emotions. I am planning to resign from my current job. And pursue my dream as a graphic design so that I can get better job. It look like this is my first break up but it not. Please help me I can I forget about the feelings I have for her and the time we have both spent together, this things keep flashing my mind. I am unable to concentrate with my work again. But 90% of my friends and family advise not to resign that is not the solution to my problem. Please were can I start

The way out is to call off the relationship. Which other way you want?

Did you say you worship at Deeper Life or Deeper Love?
If it is Deeper Life, then the God of Kumuyi has visited you with pains of heartbreak and will be coming with more fury for smearing the image of the church here.
You are a security man and your heart was stolen? You are not fit to be security man as you couldn't secure your heart and I advise that you resign.
You also play bet games without knowing that your heart is playing game on you. See how you would have killed an innocent baby if not that your girl in quote kept the pregnancy for the true owner.

Don't make that mistake of quitting your job just because someone broke your heart.....Find a to start your graphic design lessons...... you'll be fine trust me

yommyk222:
Please help me I can I forget about the feelings I have for her and the time we have both spent together, this things keep flashing my mind. I am unable to concentrate with my work again.

Oboy wetin dey worry you? You no get shame?

Is she your wife or did you pay for her bride pice that you should expect much faithfulness from her?

I keep saying it; One cannot LOVE and be WISE at the same time.

-You lost your job[Waiter] because of her.
-You supported abortion because of her.
-You bought her a phone to impress her.
-You sacrificed your sleep just to wish her HBD, all to find out that another guy has been doing computer programming in her kpekus.

And you had the audacity, guts and impetus to come here crying that you love her, you can't concentrate and want to quit your job again?

Tufiakwa!!!

Just kill yourself and run away, because that's the only thing that can reset, retrieve and return your common sense from this bondage of Calabar toto.

Oyindidi:
The way out is to call off the relationship. Which other way you want?

Is very hard for me to just forget every single moment we have spent together, I have already cut off the relationship with her but it was as if I am not myself again

My only problem here is both of u killing an innocent soul.
If u were aborted too will u be here writing this poo.
Anyways just know that both of u have shed blood.

Deeper life member engaging in pre marital sex and even advising ur gf to go for abortion.

What if rapture comes right now?

I'm not a saint either but... Never mnd

yommyk222:


Is very hard for me to just forget every single moment we have spent with her, I have already cut off the relationship with her but it was as if I am not myself again

Find that which you love most and do it regularly....... Hope it helps

NIGHTMAREOO7:
My only problem here is both of u killing an innocent soul.
If u were aborted too will u be here writing this poo.
Anyways just know that both of u have shed blood.

I know sir but it not an easy decision for me too

yommyk222:


Is very hard for me to just forget every single moment we have spent with her, I have already cut off the relationship with her but it was as if I am not myself again

Go back to her

NIGHTMAREOO7:
My only problem here is both of u killing an innocent soul.
If u were aborted too will u be here writing this poo.
Anyways just know that both of u have shed blood.

Pastor!

Millenniumlady:
Find that which you love most and do it regularly....... Hope it helps

I really love betting but I bet for fun with my mobile phone and laptop, it will not be good idea if I decide to full time gambler, thanks for the advice

So Na woman you buy that phone for?

Oyindidi:
Go back to her

That will be d worst decision of my life. If she can cheat on me now that means she can also cheat on me if I eventually married her... I will render remain single than to go back to her, thanks for the advise anyway

bobo65:
So Na woman you buy that phone for?

Bro bobo sorry that I lie to you ooo, Na woman ooo

yommyk222:


That worst decision of my life. If she can cheat on me now that means she can also cheat on me if I eventually married her... I will render remain single than to go back to her, thanks for the advise anyway

Then why you say you no fit forget her?

Some guys have been programmed from womb to be draft and they are proud of their Default Settings

Please someone should summarize this epistle for me!

Oyindidi:
Pastor!

The guy said the truth now.
Aunty i thought u once told me u a mother.
Mother indeed! ,He killed period

tossie101:


The guy said the truth now.
Aunty i thought u once told me u a mother.
Mother indeed! ,He killed period

Tossie, watin concern motherhood for this matter? I only dey find a troll trouble biko let me comment in peace.

yommyk222:


I really love betting but I bet for fun with my mobile phone and laptop, it will not be good idea if I decide to full time gambler, thanks for the advice

Betting is a serious problem I think you should watch more comedy skirts it will help..... Here are some page....... maraji......josh2funny.... brodashagi..... laffnaija..... wofiafada..... etc..... hope it helps

Diamond23:
Do u v evidence dat d guy beeped her or just heard?, y not confront her to know if wot u heard wz d truth U decided not to go into relationship till u r ready to settle down buh later found out u aren’t ready Nd financially buoyant wen she took in derby sorted for abortion as alternative ......infact ur story z as complicated as ur life.....Coming frm a deeper life member am totally surprised brother, truly Uka di na obi!

I have enough proof already that left her speechless both on WhatsApp on Facebook. She was even afraid to come over to my place, after I told her my findings...

As the Matter of fact been a deeper life member and still committee pre marital sex and abortion is because I lost my believe and faith after staying single for over 5 years and nothing change good for me, to nail it all. The last time I attende church is about 5 to 6 month ago because of my challenge. I just pray God restore back my faith soon

yommyk222:


Bro bobo sorry that I lie to you ooo, Na woman ooo

Lolz

Omo This English has made me lose my ability to comprehend o I can't understand I don't know what to do Got me losing my cool.

The length a man would go to please a woman. @Op you mentioned analysing everything because u are a punter and all but my question is, do u have substantial evidence that she cheated on you?

You sure its not your spiritual wife clouding your reasoning?

Toilet affection

Niggas please leave this love thing alone and face your life ... in this our time it's hard for a girl to be with only one guy so if you're doing relationship you're deceiving yourself... your girlfriend is sucking another guys penis... the truth is bitter...just focus on yourself

Oyindidi:
Tossie, watin concern motherhood for this matter? I only dey find a troll trouble biko let me comment in peace.

OK sorry oh