A lady known as Kamal Kaur took to Twitter to detail the abuse she suffered at the hands of her ex-husband before walking out of the marriage. In response, a man said walking out was not the best option and she was just making excuses for her failure.



Kamal wrote,

“I remember when the ex-husband would leave the restaurant just because he had finished eating. One time he emptied a glass of beer in my food so we could leave. It came to a point where I feared going out because of this humiliation. He needed me to drive him so he could drink.

“This is to remind you to get out. It’s to let you know life will go on. It’s to let you know nothing goes wrong when you respect & love yourself enough to walk away from someone or something that takes away from you negatively. You deserve to be happy & free. Not controlled”.

The man replied,

“Walking out is not the best option. You are simply a failure. Solving the problem is the option, working things out. Failures have a way to glorify their ignorance of truth”.

Kamal fired back at him saying,

“Ahahahaha. You’re an idiot. I tried for 14 phyuking years and nearly got killed in the process, along with my kids. You’re the most ignorant person I’ve heard from regarding this.”

SOURCE: https://naijalog.com/you-are-simply-a-failure-man-condemns-woman-who-walked-out-of-an-abusive-marriage-of-14-years/

Da man should fire back

wow... I wonder why common sense did not reach some people... or maybe these people just chose not to use their brain sha

Ladies (nd guys in some cases), walk away from any abusive relationship... the only thing you owe urself in this world is to be happy.. don't let anybody take that from you

lalasticlala... send this thing to FP.. ladies need to know they actually have an option to walk away

As a Christian, divorce is Not an option. That is why you should take your time before you get married.


Abused for 14 phyucking years! Honestly, she has tried!

This is life and death!


Moreover, she should have been seeing traces of abuse before they got married but love won't let her use her brain.


You guys were arguing, he got angry and slammed the table. Your opinion is: " he knows how to control his temper" shio!

When you're finally his, he'll no longer find it comfortable to slam the table, he'll slam you till you decide to follow your brain.


Love oshi...

He is a potential or already a wife beater, that will or expects his wife to still stay despite the beatings, a mistake of a human he is

queenbetsy:
As a Christian, divorce is Not an option. That is why you should take your time before you get married.


14 phyucking years! Honestly, she has tried!

Yes divorce is not allowed, but seperation 100% is, i will not for the life of me continue to stay with a lunatic cos of marriage, nah.

The lady did an honourable thing by quiting the entrapment called marriage.
I for one will never condone any abusive marriage because they say it is for better for worse.
Divorce in is own right is bad brought it is better to divorce that man before he send you to your grave.

Biglittlelois:



Yes divorce is not allowed, but seperation 100% is, i will not for the life of me continue to stay with a lunatic cos of marriage, nah.

Differentiate between divorce & separation logically?

Biglittlelois:



Yes divorce is not allowed, but seperation 100% is, i will not for the life of me continue to stay with a lunatic cos of marriage, nah.

that is why you should follow your heart and let your brain do the necessary calculations

LuciferYaweh:




Differentiate between divorce & separation logically?

Divorce is legally allowed but not biblical. If you had a customary marriage, divorce is allowed and you can remarry. A Christian CANNOT leave his/her partner and decide to remarry. The bible says, he/she should not remarry unless one of them dies.


The separation she's talking about means that they should live seperately and NOT REMARRY. That is where single parenthood comes in.

Most times, separation helps to bring the marriage back in one piece. Some of them, as a result of their children... Some, they felt the need for each other after separation


My opinion tho...

LuciferYaweh:




Differentiate between divorce & separation logically?

I expect that you know the difference, cos i believe you know what divorce entails and what staying away from your spouse means!!!

The stupid man is definitely a wife battering monster !

queenbetsy:
As a Christian, divorce is Not an option. That is why you should take your time before you get married.


Abused for 14 phyucking years! Honestly, she has tried!

This is life and death!


Moreover, she should have been seeing traces of abuse before they got married but love won't let her use her brain.


You guys were arguing, he got angry and slammed the table. Your opinion is: " he knows how to control his temper" shio!

When you're finally his, he'll no longer find it comfortable to slam the table, he'll slam you till you decide to follow your brain.


Love oshi...

I just want to address only the bolded.. This is a misconception.

Matthew 19:9
And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”

The bible okays divorce if sexual immorality is involved.

lookatew:


I just want to address only the bolded.. This is a misconception.

Matthew 19:9
And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”

The bible okays divorce if sexual immorality is involved.

thanks bro, my assertions were directed to the term "ABUSE"

Biglittlelois:
I expect that you know the difference, cos i believe you know what divorce entails and what staying away from your spouse means!!!

queenbetsy:
The separation she's talking about means that they should live seperately and NOT REMARRY.

I included the word "logically" in my question for a reason.

Now what is the point living apart from your "spouse" if you're still together??


If you're no longer interested in someone, end it.
Simple!

queenbetsy:
As a Christian, divorce is Not an option. That is why you should take your time before you get married.


Abused for 14 phyucking years! Honestly, she has tried!

This is life and death!


Moreover, she should have been seeing traces of abuse before they got married but love won't let her use her brain.


You guys were arguing, he got angry and slammed the table. Your opinion is: " he knows how to control his temper" shio!

When you're finally his, he'll no longer find it comfortable to slam the table, he'll slam you till you decide to follow your brain.


Love oshi...

divorce is not an option and you will continue to download blows like swift 4G data bundle and pop antidepressants like vitamin C. last last i will come to slay in black and eat burial rice. As a lady you must put yourself first

queenbetsy:
thanks bro, my assertions were directed to the term "ABUSE"

Chai...u again!!!

U just disappear and reappear ni sha

funmisticqueen:
divorce is not an option and you will continue to download blows like swift 4G data bundle and pop antidepressants like vitamin C. last last i will come to slay in black and eat burial rice. As a lady you must put yourself first

LuciferYaweh:





I included the word "logically" in my question for a reason.

Now what is the point living apart from your "spouse" if you're still together??


If you're no longer interested in someone, end it.
Simple!

Simple, if he's used to beating her before they got married, she WILL NOT marry him. My brother, something went wrong somewhere. It is that "something" that needs to be found and tackled NOT while they are together.


That is the point where they need a marriage counselor!

May the gods forbid that i fall in love.
Love that died centuries ago..
Glad you walked away, you are a survivor.