At the mention of Ex, many people run for cover.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being friends with your Ex after getting married.

Some people became Ex because we misjudged the part they were supposed to play in our lives. We thought that being romantically involved with them will make a great deal.

Sometimes, we took the wrong steps by being intimate with people who naturally were meant to be our guardian angels or friends for life.

Before I got hitched. I have had not less than 20 boyfriends.

I still keep in touch with most of them because we are good friends first before romance. And note..... 99.9% of my boyfriends were sex free.

No matter how love carry me, sex was a No no for me. (probably because of my background and experience).
The very boyfriend I attempted having sex with, I ended up hating him. Though we are cool today.

But in a case whereby you know that the man you are married to is not your choice.

You married him to fulfill all righteousness like many of my Sisters. Please run away from having anything to do with your Ex, especially the one you have had sexual relationship with. Or the one you are still strongly emotionally attached to.
That is were the saying (old firewood dey quick catch fire) was gotten.

But generally, you don't have to loose a good man or a good woman because your romantic relationship with them did not survive.

One can be a terrible lover but the best friend you may need forever to be great.

Some of you men that deletes your wives friends contact or even change their contact number after marriage, you may have blocked a road your family needed to climb to the next faze of greatness.

If you don't trust the woman you married, why marry her in the first place?

A cheat is a cheat. If you like hide her under your bed, she will still cheat with roaches and rats. So to what end nah?

I can wake up one morning and go see my Ex comfortably. Chiedozie knows that nothing would make me cheat on him.

Same with him. We built and are building our home out of Respect, trust and understanding.

I encourage you all to do same. And if you got it wrong in the first shot, don't be shy admitting your mistake. End it, go for the one you will be happier with.

For now, you are not guaranteed two lives on earth. Since you have one, maximize it. Live unapologetically.

You owe nobody your life. Stop listening to the rules and regulations made by the society to limit your access to joy and fulfillment.

And to those women that will come and cry in the comment section, please, it is not my fault you got married by evil tyrants, it is either you ditch their power hungry ass or endure your cross while I enjoy mine. Allow me be biko.

Ndewenu

Wow, interesting...... Though some exes are dangerous

Quite enlightening.

This is like you saying

"hey people, this shiit is super dangerous, but give it a try cos i did and it's been working fine for me"


there's a big pit in front of you and a little safe path round it but you decide to go through/ jump over the pit..................


Issoraite

Is Aiit Next!!