Erums:



Can you please be quiet and let elders deliberate.. If u attention is needed.. We wud hint u

wtf are u sayingyou are obviously a stingy type....na who give dey receive... wats bad to loan ur girlfriend money....mtchewww...stinginess will kee some pple sha!!!u will see the truth but refuse to say the truth.... mtchewww

guyz of these days are just holding on to their pasts...holding on to heartbreaks.... holding on to the girls who have disappointed them...and have now developed a dumb mentality DAT girls shouldn't be taken care of....move on!!!there are good girls...!!! don't let ur blessings pass u by!!

I just want to say something tho. ..

before u sit down to type trash about a person's situation.. first of all imagine if u are in the same situation... imagine how u would feel tho..
lemme shock... giving it's not a bad thing....also. giving is not even if the person is rich ..a guy can be rich and very stingy...a guy can not have much and still know how to give....

this girl in question has a job....she works...she earns her own money... buh still...bcoz she's in a relationship... she can get assistance from her bf...DAT is why it's a relationship.. to help each other... don't bash her for feeling bad about the fact DAT her boyfriend doesn't assist her financially....she has been with him since 2010...at least the guy should av sense...he should be considerate...
even some sidechicks get better money from their guy.

I have seen a lot of guyz who give their gfs money on a monthly basis....I mean good amount of money...I know guyz DAT I've given their gfs cars to ride.... let ur babe enjoy you... so DAT u will enjoy her...if u treat a woman right... submission comes naturally....

and I've noticed DAT very broke and stingy guyz always say trash sha.. they always support stinginess....na wa

MannieA:




wtf are u sayingyou are obviously a stingy type....na who give dey receive... wats bad to loan ur girlfriend money....mtchewww...stinginess will kee some pple sha!!!u will see the truth but refuse to say the truth.... mtchewww

guyz of these days are just holding on to their pasts...holding on to heartbreaks.... holding on to the girls who have disappointed them...and have now developed a dumb mentality DAT girls shouldn't be taken care of....move on!!!there are good girls...!!! don't let ur blessings pass u by!!

Really... U dnt even kno me, nd u term me stingy? In wat sense... Well, cnt blame anyone who's held unto experience as thier guide.... Its certainly the best teacher

Erums:



Really... U dnt even kno me, nd u term me stingy? In wat sense... Well, cnt blame anyone who's held unto experience as thier guide.... Its certainly the best teacher

sorry about DAT tho.....its true experience is the best teacher... buh experience is meant to strengthen you and give you Sense..not to make you become less of a man...not to make you senseless...don't loose good things bcoz you are holding on to irrelevant things

MannieA:




sorry about DAT tho.....its true experience is the best teacher... buh experience is meant to strengthen you and give you Sense..not to make you become less of a man...not to make you senseless...don't loose good things bcoz you are holding on to irrelevant things

ND WHAT'S the sense we talking about here.. I believe is not repeating the same stupid decision u made in the initials.... Repeating it tantamount to dump Ness... It seem the man is ruled by pussy... Well im just been factual.. Npt all relationship go same directions... Some just have thier paths.. As de op said.. They broken up couple of times bt they manage to find dem elves back.. So i rest my case, cos wen couples reconcile na who put moth dey suffer am... For me I give inasmuch its reasonable to... Atleast we all are in nigeria, we all are broke.. Buhari still dey throne

before u break up with him, sit him down and discuss all u have written down here with him don't hold anything back just pour out your heart his reaction should inform your next line of action.

EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
Will you keep quiet.
useless sets of liabilities

u are the one who should keep quiet.....
does the girl in the story look like a liability?? or is the girl who u just quoted strike u as a liability you better go and learn how to read and understand properly

foreverdiamonds:
before u break up with him, sit him down and discuss all u have written down here with him don't hold anything back just pour out your heart his reaction should inform your next line of action.

the only sensible male here...the rest are saying nonsense

Poster without mincing words. Your so called bf is either spending on someone else, or is not so into you. Take it or leave it. There is no man that doesn't spend on the woman he loves . Pls take a walk

MannieA:




u are the one who should keep quiet.....
does the girl in the story look like a liability?? or is the girl who u just quoted strike u as a liability you better go and learn how to read and understand properly

shut up ugly wh0re.
if you believe on no premarital sex I also believe on no premarital spending.
shameless women

malaria:
Poster without mincing words. Your so called bf is either spending on someone else, or is not so into you. Take it or leave it. There is no man that doesn't spend on the woman he loves . Pls take a walk

you're a fool. I love my current fiancee but there's no assurance we'll be getting married till the day we get married, even if she's arrested by the police and eventually jailed I'll let her rot in the cell cos I can't spend no hard earned dime on any useless biitch all in the name of relationship except my wife

DateMynd44:
shut up ugly wh0re.
if you beieve on no premarital sex I also believe on no premarital spending.
shameless women

u are a cow... shut the Bleep up... u just came here to insult people's daughters....keep ur fucking money......see the hediot calling me a LovePeddler...mtcchewww

MannieA:




u are a cow... shut the Bleep up... u just came here to insult people's daughters....keep ur fucking money......see the hediot calling me a LovePeddler...mtcchewww

check the prostitute on your profile picture and compare it with those wh0res at brothel or those pornstars on the net and check if there is any difference.
you're a hell bound wh0re.
lazy idiot don't go get a job and find something meaningful to do with your life.

DateMynd44:
check the prostitute on your profile picture and compare it with those wh0res at brothel or those pornstars on the net and check if there is any difference.
you're a hell bound wh0re.
lazy idiot don't go get a job and find something meaningful to do with your life.

lol....u even looked at my profile...ohhhh....well...u are not important enough for me to view ur profile....ur words can't hurt me...u know why coz I ain't a LovePeddler....go and get sense... when u av gotten sense...come back to nairaland and talk like a sensible male....as for being jobless... u fool...I don't ask men for money... I take care of myself... I don't see myself depending on anybody... oya...go and receive sense.. mumu

MannieA:



lol....u even looked at my profile...ohhhh....well...u are not important enough for me to view ur profile....ur words can't hurt me...u know why coz I ain't a LovePeddler....go and get sense... when u av gotten sense...come back to nairaland and talk like a sensible male....as for being jobless... u fool...I don't ask men for money... I take care of myself... I don't see myself depending on anybody... oya...go and receive sense.. mumu

I actually don't like exchanging words with low lives and dumb ugly cheap products like u but judging from your pics you're over 30 and still you have nothing to achieve at your age other than just to login to nairaland with free basic and comment on romance section and the purpose of uploading your ugly nude pics on ur profile is to attract a potential husband on nairaland.
miserable desperate woman

[s]Am usually the type to keep my relationship issues to myself but I just have to let this out, it’s eating me up.
I have been dating this guy since 2010 during university days till date. I am 24 and presently a Corper. I haven’t dated a lot of guys so he is like everything about relationships I know. Although there has been a few breakups in between, somehow we find ourselves back together. I have been through thick and thin with this guy. When there is zero Naira to when there is a few bucks to spend (he spends all on himself by the way). I do not know what being pampered feels like. I do everything by myself.
Make my hair, buy my clothes etc. I am used to struggling by taking up part time jobs/internships to buy the things i want and thankfully God has been kind to me. He says he loves me and cannot do without me but I think he is wicked and self centered. I now even forget I have a boyfriend when am in some kind of financial situation. It is that bad. Sometimes I ask myself what I am doing with this bloke but still, I have being optimistic things will get better and I would enjoy with him in the future.
So he got a job, an alright pay and I was happy at least not because I expect him to spend everything on me, but because I now have a shoulder to lean on when I need financial help. Well, that is not the case. Whenever I ask for little sums just to do one or two things, he gets angry and complains terribly how he has bills here and there. Most times, he doesn’t even want to hear what my request is about. He just shuts me up. Even when I ask for a loan, I get same excuses.
In 6 months if I ask him for money twice, I get once and a quarter of the amount. I get very disapointed because I am reasonable, considerate and I do not ask for money where there is none. He doesn’t do anything for me, never bought me a gift, never interested in my ideas but he does everything for his sisters and buys them 12,000 Naira body cream.
Relationship is not because of money some people will say but I believe in sharing with your partner. I have supported him in my own little way when things got really bad. I don’t know why he gets the way gets when I bring up the issue of money. This is one amongst other things I have to tolerate in the relationship.
I am really fed up and I don’t mind breaking up with him because of this money issue. I believe he is not going to change even if he has all the millions in he world. I don’t know how i fell in love with this guy and he is already talking about marriage.
I need your help guys….

[/s]

DateMynd44:
I actually don't like exchanging words with low lives and dumb ugly cheap products like u but judging from your pics you're over 30 and still you have nothing to achieve at your age other than just to login to nairaland with free basic and comment on romance section and the purpose of uploading your ugly nude pics on ur profile is to attract a potential husband on nairaland.
miserable desperate woman

husband ke?? lol.....u are the low life tho.......nude pics?? I've never taken DAT in my life.....
.do u even have sense??

u are just basically angry at the world... dimwit

MannieA:




husband ke?? lol.....u are the low life tho.......nude pics?? I've never taken DAT in my life.....
.do u even have sense??

u are just basically angry at the world... dimwit

dimwit u say? who taught you that word? you're a dumb nimwitted douchebag sorry I'm being forced to ask, where did u stop in your education? or you'll come with the usual lies that u also possess a bsc?
numbskull

Read the story well, no one is depending on anyone, for 8 years no penny dropped why na?Mfunny enough she makes her own money to still look attractive for the stingy guy

Read the post again. She said if she asks him twice in 6 months, he might give her only once and it's just a fraction of what she demands... So this is not a matter of "no penny dropped"

monerozi5590:





Why are you still with her knowing fully well that she is a cheat?

She has refused to leave. Well she is dating herself. It is a long distance relationship

Obviously you are not his priority and he doesn't value you. You cherish and spend on whatever you value. Marrying such a person is risky.

Forget all those guys saying it is not an occupation. They spend on their women. I couldn't date a man who wouldn't spend on me. Waste of time. Being stingy is not about not having money...it is a thing of the mind and mentality.

The calibre of some of the guys on this thread are very myopic and have a stupid way of thinking, i dont know if they didn't read it well or they just have one dimensional thinking.

Ultimatesammie:
The calibre of some of the guys on this thread are very myopic and have a stupid way of thinking, i dont know if they didn't read it well or they just have one dimensional thinking.

Most of them have a thinks pattern...one way traffic. They make comments like "is he your father?" " Is relationship an occupation". Very myopic thinking

Liliyann:
That guy doesn't value you!!
This is one of the reasons that I can't date struggling guys!!!
You need to be with someone that values you!!!
Someone that is crazy about you!!
Someone that is ready to spend his last dime to prove his love for you!!
Real men don't wait for their girl to ask before giving them, they spend willingly and happily!!!
Call me a gold digger but I don't care, my happiness comes first in everything, Financial security is one of the things that makes me happy!!!

once nigerian girls say my happiness comes first, just know its financial happiness,you that is calling guys struggling,are you not struggling as well?what makes you.think you are better than him.......GIRLS ,its only an unserious man that take your girls serious