What I am about to say has been considered somewhat controversial. Normally, I’d try to avoid controversy in an inspirational article like this, but the point is particularly well worth making at this stage in your life.

In general, God doesn’t, and won’t, tell us who to marry. We don’t see in Scripture that it would be disobedient not to marry any one particular individual. There is no command in the Bible that says, “You must get married.” And there is certainly no command, “Emmanuel must marry Lilian.”

God is a sovereign God, and it is wise to seek His guidance, but that doesn’t mean He promises to tell us the exact person we should marry. On your wedding day, you are making a choice. The best platform on which to build a monumental marriage is one in which you own this choice instead of putting it off on God...Read more on http://www.eaolatoye.com/2018/11/how-to-prepare-your-heart-for-marriage.html before making wise decisions, you need not be wise in your own eye, you need to consider the future, and basing your decision on the right priorities.