gloria34:
See u, searching 4 trouble where there is none. I Cant b earning above 40 and dating a guy that have no job, guy think am na. U as a guy, can u date such a girl?

I no criticise you na.... Dating a comfortable guy is a nice move.... That's what I meant...

LightQueen:
YES

DanDeeBoss:
I no criticise you na.... Dating a comfortable guy is a nice move.... That's what I meant...

DanDeeBoss:
I no criticise you na.... Dating a comfortable guy is a nice move.... That's what I meant...

DanDeeBoss:

samysmoothfresh:


i had to read his post thrice after reading this comment yet i didnt see nor could i deduce how he took it personal


oh well, i'm not surprised anyway cos to a typical nl lady, discussing objectively means "shut the fvck up and tak what i say as the truth and final answer"

joseph6071:
Gone are the days when ladies do marry for true love, when nobody thought of material things when it comes to getting married. But it is quite different finding the same around these days.


I had a female friend then in school who told me that she does not really care about studying and passing, that all she wants to do is to look really good and she is sure a rich man would notice her and get married to her and they would spend the money together.


now my question is, what happens to those that are poor who needs a beautiful woman by their side to become successful with them, or is the saying that "behind every successful man is a woman" now obsolete?

I want to see all your opinions...cheers

source: https://www.musictori.com/2018/11/ladies-can-you-marry-poor-man-and-try.html

cc: lalasticlala, mynd44, dominique

gloria34:
Una don start ba? a woman is tested when a man have nothing, a man is tested when a he have everything. Its a game of chance, not everyone is willing to play. Personally, i have never dated a rich guy, i date Comfortable guys. D rich once always believe u are after their cash, thats an insult

MissRaine69:
A poor man can have ambition and drive but lack the means HOWEVER the biggest issue is some of you brothers struggle with discipline and loyalty! So a woman can stand by you while you both try to make ends meet but the moment the good times start to roll that very woman that struggled with you, is replaced with someone who was never there from the start. This is the biggest issue why would you replace your all weather woman with a fair weather one?

mhizv:
I can marry a man who is educated,career minded,ambitious,knows what he wants,isn't lazy,and can take care of a family. Obviously things would change. Besides I'd support too.

babyfaceafrica:
why not date an unemployed guy?

pryme:


Hard to believe.

gloria34:
Unemployment get grade. Its not a bad thing but i Havent done it before and Dont think i can do it. It just sounds somehow

babyfaceafrica:
well if that is what some ladies are scared of..then everybody should maintain his or her lane..there are no guarantees on life...some men appreciate ladies who stand by them..some don't

MissRaine69:
The word some was used there.

babyfaceafrica:
I also used some...so we are even

mhizv:
I can marry a man who is educated,career minded,ambitious,knows what he wants,isn't lazy,and can take care of a family. Obviously things would change. Besides I'd support too.

Nnabugwu8590:

Will you marry me?

gloria34:
Una don start ba? a woman is tested when a man have nothing, a man is tested when a he have everything. Its a game of chance, not everyone is willing to play. Personally, i have never dated a rich guy, i date Comfortable guys. D rich once always believe u are after their cash, thats an insult

pryme:


This saying was just another hot smoking Dinosaur shiit that was making the rounds.
I don't know which word will do more justice in defining it - propaganda or myth.

I think is will choose Myth.

More than 80% percent of men swam through the shiits of life alone while making it to the top.
Men are always told to work hard so that they can then settle and start a family, I have never heard where men were told to go look for a woman to swim through the shiits of life together to make it to the top.
It begs the question how was the woman behind the man's success?

It's things like these that makes me believe some villains in a movie are just misunderstood.

Women behind EVERY successful man my black ass, tell that to Elton John

joseph6071:
Gone are the days when ladies do marry for true love, when nobody thought of material things when it comes to getting married. But it is quite different finding the same around these days.


I had a female friend then in school who told me that she does not really care about studying and passing, that all she wants to do is to look really good and she is sure a rich man would notice her and get married to her and they would spend the money together.


now my question is, what happens to those that are poor who needs a beautiful woman by their side to become successful with them, or is the saying that "behind every successful man is a woman" now obsolete?

I want to see all your opinions...cheers

source: https://www.musictori.com/2018/11/ladies-can-you-marry-poor-man-and-try.html

cc: lalasticlala, mynd44, dominique

funmisticqueen:
this is why we marry rich guys

funmisticqueen:
this is why we marry rich guys

mhizv:



If you think so. A man who can do any of this or has any of this,isn't POOR.

If he's willing to work, take care of his family,what's there?

pryme:


Yeah that's OK, I but I have always wanted to ask the likea of you this question,

What will you do if the rich guy you married were to lose all his wealth, or got retrenched or his business hits the rocks?

What will you do then?

naijaboiy:


He may not even lose his wealth, what if he retires or makes a bad business move or gets duped.

Well I think we all know what most of them would do in such a situation.

pryme:


Well I await her answer, maybe she knows something we dont

If I hear! These single mama's don't know life is a struggle. That you see a successful man to marry doesn't mean that's the end of the journey, you have to struggle in your own way to keep such a man same way he keeps providing for you.

Shebi na them Wan marry trophy.

naijaboiy:


If I hear! This under aged girls single mama's don't know life is a struggle. That you see a successful man to marry doesn't mean that's the end of the journey, you have to struggle in your own way to keep such a man same way he keeps providing for you.

Shebi na them Wan marry trophy.

gloria34:
Una don start ba? a woman is tested when a man have nothing, a man is tested when a he have everything. Its a game of chance, not everyone is willing to play. Personally, i have never dated a rich guy, i date Comfortable guys. D rich once always believe u are after their cash, thats an insult

funmisticqueen:
what else should we be after biko?