Can u marry a poor man if you're rich?

How can u handle this?

Can u spend ur money for the man?

Can u do this to make the man love u?

Those that have done it, how did it end and what was their experiences or your own experiences if you have done so?

Pls house let's discuss this and help those in this situation.

And pls Moderators, move to the front page asap!

There is a probability that the man will use you for sugar mummy things, then in turn spend the money on the woman he love.

If you’re a rich girl, how in the world would you notice a poor man?

Doesn’t she network? Or does she happen to network with poor men?

Seal33:

Can u marry a poor man if you're rich?

How can u handle this?

Can u spend ur money for the man?-

Can u do this to make the man love u?- i

Those that have done it, how did it end and what was their experiences or your own experiences if you have done so?

Pls house let's discuss this and help those in this situation.

1) If you are spending money with the delusional belief that he will love you then this is a whole different topic for discussion not what you asked.
2) What’s there to handle? It’s about the type of woman you are and his confidence if he has potential and is willing to explore it why not? But Nigerian women have a flawed way of thinking most don’t recognise potential they aim for the already made man.
3) What do you expect to happen? Are there no women who have sponsored their man’s visa, schooling and are now husband and wife?
What happens is based on mindset and emotional intelligence. ( many lack this)

Good question! Some ladies claim too superior if they've gathered enough change. And forgot the fact that they were created to be a worthy help for the man. SAY NO TO LAZINESS! But gentle ladies in the house, pls be humble despite ur worths.

If there's 'chemistry', Sure

FRANNN:
If there's 'chemistry', Sure

Pls what do u mean by chemistry? What has chemistry got to do with this?

Colourich:
There is a probability that the man will use you for sugar mummy things, then in turn spend the money on the woman he love.

But when a rich dude marries a poor girl, such probability doesn't exist huh? Smh

They wont

Seal33:


Pls what do u mean by chemistry? What has chemistry got to do with this?

He talking some organic chemistry

Seal33:


Pls what do u mean by chemistry? What has chemistry got to do with this?

A strong connection. Real love

FRANNN:
A strong connection. Real love

Hmm

I can marry a financially poor guy but not a mentally poor one.

If his future prospects realistically and practically had the potential to be fruitful

MariaLavina:
I can marry a financially poor guy but not a mentally poor one.

And u will take care of his responsibilities? Take care of him?

Seal33:


And u will take care of his responsibilities? Take care of him?

A mentally rich guy can never be poor


BTW there is a difference between a Poor guy,and a broke guy. The latter i can manage

MariaLavina:
A mentally rich guy can never be poor


BTW there is a different between a Poor guy,and a broke guy. The latter i can manage

So if he is financially poor and broke but talented will u marry him?

Seal33:


So if he is financially poor and broke but talented will u marry him?

Share your problem with me...
I'm willing to help.

What are your doubts about him?

OP, you shouldn't have directed that question to 'girls'. It's the women you need to ask.



P. S *in Patorankin's voice * Call me, I'm available. Call me, I'm capable. I am able to disable you on top of the table.

Seal33:


Pls what do u mean by chemistry? What has chemistry got to do with this?

Can I call you mummy?

MissRaine69:

1) If you are spending money with the delusional belief that he will love you then this is whole different topic for discussion not what you asked.
2) What’s there to handle? It’s about the type of woman you are and his confidence if he has potential and is willing to explore it why not? But Nigerian women have a flawed way of thinking most don’t recognise potential they aim for the already made man.
3) What do you expect to happen? Are there no women who have sponsored their man’s visa, noschooling and are now husband and wife?
What happens is based on mindset and emotional intelligence. ( many lack this)

mrAMG:
If you’re a rich girl, how in the world would you notice a poor man?

Doesn’t she network? Or does she happen to network with poor men?

Are u saying a rich lady cannot meet a poor man? Even if she networks among the elite she can still meet a guy that's not financially ok

MariaLavina:
Share your problem with me...
I'm willing to help.

What are your doubts about him?

Hmm, lol

Seal33:


Hmm, lol

If the thread is about you, I'd advise you do not marry that poor boy yet. If you are that rich try set him up first, help his business grow then tie the knots if he asks.


Life is so simple.

Seal33:
Can u marry a poor man if you're rich?

How can u handle this?

Can u spend ur money for the man?

Can u do this to make the man love u?

Those that have done it, how did it end and what was their experiences or your own experiences if you have done so?

Pls house let's discuss this and help those in this situation.

And pls Moderators, move to the front page asap!

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Hypergamy won't allow that

pcguru1:

Hypergamy won't allow that

Hyper wetin? Meaning what?

Seal33:


Hyper wetin? Meaning what?

hypergamy
hʌɪˈpəːɡəmi/Submit
noun
the action of marrying a person of a superior caste or class.

Women (today's generation) marry up but not down, few women would (those madly in love or those desperate to marry anyone). Then again it could be that the guys pride could be considered too , some guys can't handle women out earning them, so its a multi faceted issue and not just a simple one

pcguru1:


hypergamy
hʌɪˈpəːɡəmi/Submit
noun
the action of marrying a person of a superior caste or class.

Women (today's generation) marry up but not down, few women would (those madly in love or those desperate to marry anyone). Then again it could be that the guys pride could be considered too , some guys can't handle women out earning them, so its a multi faceted issue and not just a simple one

I see. So is it in all situations that women must marry upward

Seal33:


I see. So is it in all situations that women must marry upward

If its a Nigerian lady I would most probably say Yes, its rare to find rich ladies marrying poor guys, however ladies marry guys they are way richer than but those guys won't be that poor.

Seal33:


Are u saying a rich lady cannot meet a poor man? Even if she networks among the elite she can still meet a guy that's not financially ok

I agree she can meet a poor man but then have a relationship with him? I don’t like the sound of that.

I’ve heard stories about this sort of thing and the only question in my head is how?

What were those girls thinking?

That’s why I admire the indimi girls, infact, you should have noticed how rich daughters of northern billionaires only marry sons of other billionaires/millionaires

No.

Seal33:
Can u marry a poor man if you're rich?

How can u handle this?

Can u spend ur money for the man?

Can u do this to make the man love u?

Those that have done it, how did it end and what was their experiences or your own experiences if you have done so?

Pls house let's discuss this and help those in this situation.

And pls Moderators, move to the front page asap!

Yes. Love is priceless.