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Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by MissRaine69(f): 4:33pm On Jan 01, 2019
lefulefu:
why are u even letting him know this sef.i laugh when i hear some guys saying that withdrawal method will prevent u frm getting hiv and gettin a girl prego.
You are right there is too much stupid in that one. It’s best to let them find out the hard way..
Happy New Year
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Au79(m): 4:34pm On Jan 01, 2019
MissRaine69:
He likes them immature and thick .....a sure why to be miserable Maybe that’s his thing.
missRaine how can an op recommend someone for banning to the super moderators? your comments sha!
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by chikk(f): 4:35pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

she has been looking for a way to punish me primarily cos of the issue of unsatisfying sex...
I sent her 30k a day before the 5k demand seen in dat screen shot yet she stil "broke" up with me( she as broken up with me like 100times and always comes bak apologising so I don't take her break up seriously anymore )...everything habit she displays all boils down to the issue of sex...

Wait, thw last screen shot it real? Lol... I honestly thought it was a joke because I saw it on facebook yesterday and ignored. I felt it was made up because it doesn't make that a reasonable human being should respond like the girl. Like seriously, oga, just thank your God for setting you free from this girl Abeg. Run

#boyfriend material grin grin grin grin grin grin Ha!!! God!!!
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by chikk(f): 4:37pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

missRaine how can an op recommend someone for banning to the super moderators?
your comments sha!

Lol... Don't be offended. She's angry on your behalf. grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by boiz2men(m): 4:38pm On Jan 01, 2019
MissRaine69:

It’s nothing to do with pain it’s a mindset. Nigeria has one of the highest rate in the world of children born to mothers who are HIV positive, Nigeria also has a very high rate of HIV infection and one off the lowest rates of condom use.
Those are things no one should be proud off.
You have not even specialised yet I bet? And you are worrying about marriage? Stop thinking with your d1ck. Children inherit their intelligence from their mother, do you want to have children who have the stupid gene?

What's that?

Why does one have to specialise before marriage?
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jan 01, 2019
If HIV is as potent as Ebola, nearly every human for die. Condom is no more selling sef.
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Au79(m): 4:41pm On Jan 01, 2019
lefulefu:
why are u even letting him know this sef.i laugh when i hear some guys saying that withdrawal method will prevent u frm getting hiv and gettin a girl prego.
it takes a certain number of sperm cells to cause fertilization..its a very tough competition goin on in there so the spermatozoa in pre-cum is usually not sufficient enough to cause pregnancy so complete withdrawal before ejaculation ideally, is a way of preventing pregnancy. except in instance where the popular medical statement comes in " you can never say never in medicine "
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by linearity: 4:47pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

do u really think her intention is to destroy me or she just want to have a 'good' intercourse? I wil really appreciate if you can b very honest with your response.. tanks in anticipation

Dude!

Going by how she have pushed the matter, she have been having constant raw sec else where. She appear to love it and what’s to see how it feels with you.

The fact that, she does not want any test at all is a red flag, she is not confident that she does not have an STD and she is fvcking many guys outside period!

Sometimes, I don’t know how guys think....you have set out for more than a year now to insist ‘no CD, no fvucking’ because you don’t trust her, yet you are planning on getting marry to her.

It appear your standards are getting compromised, you even coming here to ask this question is a bad sign...so, if majority of people here say, you should yield and accommodate her, so that she can take the breakup threat off the table, you will do it?

Dude, don’t compromise your stands; any good lady out there will even love you the more for your stands and will gladly do the STD test. Don’t be a fool after playing safe for more than a year. She does not love you, she like raw fvck and your money period!

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Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Au79(m): 4:47pm On Jan 01, 2019
chikk:


Wait, thw last screen shot it real? Lol... I honestly thought it was a joke because I saw it on facebook yesterday and ignored. I felt it was made up because it doesn't make that a reasonable human being should respond like the girl. Like seriously, oga, just thank your God for setting you free from this girl Abeg. Run

#boyfriend material grin grin grin grin grin grin Ha!!! God!!!
did u see the the complete screen shots on Facebook or just d last one?? it was just d last one I posted recently on Facebook cos its d one dat happened recently
modified: I just saw where u stated that is d last screen shot
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by MissRaine69(f): 4:47pm On Jan 01, 2019
boiz2men:


What's that?

Why does one have to specialise before marriage?
The concept of career is alien to you I see.
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by MissRaine69(f): 4:52pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

missRaine how can an op recommend someone for banning to the super moderators?
your comments sha!
Banned for?
For saying it like it is?
Why wrap someone in bubble wrap how else will they learn?
You allow stupidity into your life ...you will wallow in mediocracy.
Ps she is getting it elsewhere is possibly pregnant and what’s to pin it on him.

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Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Au79(m): 4:53pm On Jan 01, 2019
MissRaine69:

The concept of career is alien to you I see.
if am replying u it will be asif am supporting my ex.
ok now tell me how does marriage affect one's career pursuit? as a matter of fact missRains marriage does positively catalyze it
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by boiz2men(m): 4:58pm On Jan 01, 2019
MissRaine69:

The concept of career is alien to you I see.

You trying too hard sweetie.. cheesy

You are not a bitter person. Don't let frustrations change who you are. You will recover this new year dearie kiss
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Au79(m): 5:10pm On Jan 01, 2019
MissRaine69:

It’s nothing to do with pain it’s a mindset. Nigeria has one of the highest rate in the world of children born to mothers who are HIV positive, Nigeria also has a very high rate of HIV infection and one off the lowest rates of condom use.
Those are things no one should be proud off.
You have not even specialised yet I bet? And you are worrying about marriage? Stop thinking with your d1ck. Children inherit their intelligence from their mother, do you want to have children who have the stupid gene?

do you even have an idea of how long it takes to be fully specialized in a given field?
this girl sef you will just be intentionally spitting our rubbish under the cover of 'blunt advice'
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by MissRaine69(f): 5:17pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

if am replying u it will be asif am supporting my ex.
ok now tell me how does marriage affect one's career pursuit? as a matter of fact missRains marriage does positively catalyze it
Do you know how long it takes to specialise? How any unsocial hours you have to work? The impact that has on a spouse/partner? Especially if they have the mental depth of a teaspoon?
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by MissRaine69(f): 5:17pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

do you even have an idea of how long it takes to be fully specialized in a given field?
this girl sef you will just be intentionally spitting our rubbish under the cover of 'blunt advice'
Yes I do actually as I specialised in two fields.
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by MissRaine69(f): 5:18pm On Jan 01, 2019
boiz2men:


You trying too hard sweetie.. cheesy

You are not a bitter person. Don't let frustrations change who you are. You will recover this new year dearie kiss
Yeah whatever
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by MissRaine69(f): 5:21pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

most doctors are truly clean but you know there is always exception to everything... doctors and health professionals in general can be promiscuous but they take necessary precautions..
Well I disagree working in Lagos I treated more colleagues than I care to recall and some of them repeat offenders.
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Au79(m): 5:21pm On Jan 01, 2019
MissRaine69:

Yes I do actually as I specialised in two fields.
I dont know your field of study but to be a specialist (consultant) in medicine or surgery, it takes a lot of time ranging from 5-10 years... for neurosurgery its like 8 to 10 years
so I don't know if your are trying to say I should wait for averagely 7 years again after my 8 years I spent in medscul before I should get married
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Au79(m): 5:25pm On Jan 01, 2019
MissRaine69:

Well I disagree working in Lagos I treated more colleagues than I care to recall and some of them repeat offenders.
wow so you are a medic..you said you specialize in 2 fields..what are they? are u married?
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Au79(m): 5:28pm On Jan 01, 2019
MissRaine69:

Do you know how long it takes to specialise? How any unsocial hours you have to work? The impact that has on a spouse/partner? Especially if they have the mental depth of a teaspoon?

I don't intend marrying someone with a shallow brain..tnx
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by MissRaine69(f): 5:35pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

I dont know your field of study but to be a specialist (consultant) in medicine or surgery, it takes a lot of time ranging from 5-10 years... for neurosurgery its like 8 to 10 years
so I don't know if your are trying to say I should wait for averagely 7 years again after my 8 years I spent in medscul before I should get married
What do you want in life? What’s important to you right now?
Obstetrics/Gynaecology with a special intrest in Fertility and FGM.
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Au79(m): 5:46pm On Jan 01, 2019
MissRaine69:

What do you want in life? What’s important to you right now?
Obstetrics/Gynaecology with a special intrest in Fertility and FGM.
Have not heard of FGM been a specialty on its own in medicine. i stand to b corrected though ..if your a specialist in O$G am very sure u got married before you became specialist...
tanks very Much for your contributions dear..though they were very harsh but I still managed to filter out some very useful messages in them..
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by MissRaine69(f): 6:00pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

Have not heard of FGM been a specialty on its own in medicine. i stand to b corrected though ..if your a specialist in O$G am very sure u got married before you became specialist...
tanks very Much for your contributions dear..though they were very harsh but I still managed to filter out some very useful messages in them..
I will post it again
Obstetrics/Gynaecology with a special intrest in Fertility and FGM.
The emphasis being “special interest” did I mention FGM as a stand alone speciality?
I did not.
You need to be hit with a few blunt points to reset a fee things in your head. What is the point of mollycoddling you at this point in your life?
Anyway I will ensure that I put hugs and kissss to cushion the blow when writing future posts.

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Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Eveezy(m): 6:09pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

everything I wrote up there is real and true
tanks for your invaluable contribution
Lol, you are invaluably welcomed.
I told you that it seems unreal, not that I said its fake.
You know what to do, this is not something u should be confused about

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Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

she has been looking for a way to punish me primarily cos of the issue of unsatisfying sex...
I sent her 30k a day before the 5k demand seen in dat screen shot yet she stil "broke" up with me( she as broken up with me like 100times and always comes bak apologising so I don't take her break up seriously anymore )...everything habit she displays all boils down to the issue of sex...

That is the main issue with Benue girls but my brother if u can satisfy her sexually i swear down u will enjoy her. They can be very loving to a fault i swear to u. I have lots of them in Abuja & when i broke na them dey survive me but one thing be say them fit still dey cut corners on code based on hustle but once u fit dominate that side them ready to do anything u want
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Au79(m): 6:33pm On Jan 01, 2019
MissRaine69:

I will post it again
Obstetrics/Gynaecology with a special intrest in Fertility and FGM.
The emphasis being “special interest” did I mention FGM as a stand alone speciality?
I did not.
You need to be hit with a few blunt points to reset a fee things in your head. What is the point of mollycoddling you at this point in your life?
Anyway I will ensure that I put hugs and kissss to cushion the blow when writing future posts.

ok I get it now...
smiles...ya pls u better soften up in your subsequent post..the grace you av is that I don't know how to report someone to lala..
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Au79(m): 6:37pm On Jan 01, 2019
dairykidd:


That is the main issue with Benue girls but my brother if u can satisfy her sexually i swear down u will enjoy her. They can be very loving to a fault i swear to u. I have lots of them in Abuja & when i broke na them dey survive me but one thing be say them fit still dey cut corners on code based on hustle but once u fit dominate that side them ready to do anything u want
so you are satisfying the lots of them sexually? mehn you dey try o..are they ok with you using a barrier?? or they complain too
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

so you are satisfying the lots of them sexually? mehn you dey try o..are they ok with you using a barrier?? or they complain too
Baba i always use a condom oo except on one & when she became too possessive i had to bail then we became enemies till now.. I still run things with them even the ones with serious boyfriends but we know our boundaries.. Na just understanding sha so we keep it like that.
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by BecaciaBarbie(f): 7:12pm On Jan 01, 2019
MissRaine69:

A girl asks him for money than calls him broke? And he is still confused about her level of maturity? He has not even started working properly and he thinks marrying her will solve all their issues?
A refund to those poor parents is in order....
grin grin grin you served him the Hot truth loool the annoying part is the fact that he thinks marrying her will solve the issue... grin a refund better be in order grin
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by BecaciaBarbie(f): 7:15pm On Jan 01, 2019
lefulefu:
dem plenty for naija oo.dem dey use guys like op as their ultimate magas.
When I hear "Maga" the description of a rich fat old married man comes to my head, not a young medical doctor as op grin but op is clearly one... a big one at that.
Re: am i supposed to be scared of her or its normal among ladies?.. advice pls by MissRaine69(f): 7:20pm On Jan 01, 2019
Au79:

ok I get it now...
smiles...ya pls u better soften up in your subsequent post..the grace you av is that I don't know how to report someone to lala..
Report? You are that petty?
Dude you are being used and you want to act all wounded? Fine my comeuppance is
I will report myself if it makes you feel better however
Your situation won’t improve that’s for sure if you stay with that human female you call a girlfriend.

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