Hello everyone.I have been married with Nigerian man for 2 years.We live in my country in Europe.I never felt that he loves me and i always saw him as selfish person.It was always about him.I am the one that provides for rent bils food everytjing.Even i help him send money to his family.I am not rich far from that.Also my husband is racist to white people.He always critisize them on very bad way.He always tels me how i dont do nothing right.And always makes me feel worthless.He ia very good looking man.So now he is in very bad situation with documents.He told me that he wil divorce me.if i dont make our lives move forward which means if i dont help him.with papers...Please i am desperate people..I dont want to lose him...but at other side i tjink love has no conditions...Pls answer

Hmm

gaby:
Hmm

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Lol

Someone treats you worthlessly and you don't want to lose him.

I hope you know what a paradox is.

Go on, work out his papers for him, then go back to living your fantastic life.

If after all these actions and signs of manipulation and selfishness, you still don't wanna lose him. Then, Goodluck.

ok

Strongsoul:
Hello everyone.I have been married with Nigerian man for 2 years.We live in my country in Europe.I never felt that he loves me and i always saw him as selfish person.It was always about him.I am the one that provides for rent bils food everytjing.Even i help him send money to his family.I am not rich far from that.Also my husband is racist to white people.He always critisize them on very bad way.He always tels me how i dont do nothing right.And always makes me feel worthless.He ia very good looking man.So now he is in very bad situation with documents.He told me that he wil divorce me.if i dont make our lives move forward which means if i dont help him.with papers...Please i am desperate people..I dont want to lose him...but at other side i tjink love has no conditions...Pls answer

Let him know you will walk away if he doesn't treat you right. There are many Nigerians that looks better than him. Don't be fooled. He's not the best in bed either- so dont panic.

Talk to him that you are tired and ready to leave if he will continue to make you sad. You can't be weak around that man.

Strongsoul:
Hello everyone.I have been married with Nigerian man for 2 years.We live in my country in Europe.I never felt that he loves me and i always saw him as selfish person.It was always about him.I am the one that provides for rent bils food everytjing.Even i help him send money to his family.I am not rich far from that.Also my husband is racist to white people.He always critisize them on very bad way.He always tels me how i dont do nothing right.And always makes me feel worthless.He ia very good looking man.So now he is in very bad situation with documents.He told me that he wil divorce me.if i dont make our lives move forward which means if i dont help him.with papers...Please i am desperate people..I dont want to lose him...but at other side i tjink love has no conditions...Pls answer

He is using you for papers. No man in his right might if he loved you would allow you to be the bread winner or take care of all the bills. Walk away now before it's too late

Please open the door and let him go!
If he doesn’t respect you now , will never in future when things are right

IRONY OF LIFE!

Strongsoul:
Hello everyone.I have been married with Nigerian man for 2 years.We live in my country in Europe.I never felt that he loves me and i always saw him as selfish person.It was always about him.I am the one that provides for rent bils food everytjing.Even i help him send money to his family.I am not rich far from that.Also my husband is racist to white people.He always critisize them on very bad way.He always tels me how i dont do nothing right.And always makes me feel worthless.He ia very good looking man.So now he is in very bad situation with documents.He told me that he wil divorce me.if i dont make our lives move forward which means if i dont help him.with papers...Please i am desperate people..I dont want to lose him...but at other side i tjink love has no conditions...Pls answer

And why exactly are you doing all this?..... Have you fallen in love with your heart or brains?........?

Strongsoul:
Hello everyone.I have been married with Nigerian man for 2 years.We live in my country in Europe.I never felt that he loves me and i always saw him as selfish person.It was always about him.I am the one that provides for rent bils food everytjing.Even i help him send money to his family.I am not rich far from that.Also my husband is racist to white people.He always critisize them on very bad way.He always tels me how i dont do nothing right.And always makes me feel worthless.He ia very good looking man.So now he is in very bad situation with documents.He told me that he wil divorce me.if i dont make our lives move forward which means if i dont help him.with papers...Please i am desperate people..I dont want to lose him...but at other side i tjink love has no conditions...Pls answer

You have to set your priorities right, work on yourself esteem, stand your own ground, s either he loves you or he dosent, why should a grown ass man be allowing his woman take responsibilities of the house needs all the time It's obvious you love him more that he loves you, I doubt if he is a Nigerian though, we don't treat our women like that....

@OP
You are not European. Your poor grasp of English, poor spelling and style betray you. Get serious with your life.

Chongaiman:
@OP
You are not European. Your poor grasp of English, poor spelling and style betray you. Get serious with your life.

You are wrong. Most Europeans have a very poor grasp of English as it's not their official/native language. Apart from Great Britain, very few countries (if any) in Europe speak English

Chongaiman:
@OP
You are not European. Your poor grasp of English, poor spelling and style betray you. Get serious with your life.

English is the first language of diplomacy and commerce but it has limited speakers in Europe.
I had a good laugh when I read your comment. Besidess, your unwarranted, unprovoked, and baseless attacks on the distraught OP betray what a mindless ignoramus you are. Thank God nairaland is a teachable platform. Now, who needs to get serious with his life?

Dear Mrs OP, please listen to the advice of sensible and compassionate Nairalanders.

Strongsoul:
Hello everyone.I have been married with Nigerian man for 2 years.We live in my country in Europe.I never felt that he loves me and i always saw him as selfish person.It was always about him.I am the one that provides for rent bils food everytjing.Even i help him send money to his family.I am not rich far from that.Also my husband is racist to white people.He always critisize them on very bad way.He always tels me how i dont do nothing right.And always makes me feel worthless.He ia very good looking man.So now he is in very bad situation with documents.He told me that he wil divorce me.if i dont make our lives move forward which means if i dont help him.with papers...Please i am desperate people..I dont want to lose him...but at other side i tjink love has no conditions...Pls answer

what the name of your country? or is Europe a country?
are you older than him?
what your appearance are you fat or looks like a whale?

Strongsoul:
Hello everyone.I have been married with Nigerian man for 2 years.We live in my country in Europe.I never felt that he loves me and i always saw him as selfish person.It was always about him.I am the one that provides for rent bils food everytjing.Even i help him send money to his family.I am not rich far from that.Also my husband is racist to white people.He always critisize them on very bad way.He always tels me how i dont do nothing right.And always makes me feel worthless.He ia very good looking man.So now he is in very bad situation with documents.He told me that he wil divorce me.if i dont make our lives move forward which means if i dont help him.with papers...Please i am desperate people..I dont want to lose him...but at other side i tjink love has no conditions...Pls answer

You are just an attention seeker on this thread you're married for 3years
https://www.nairaland.com/4906327/husband-changed

and now your married for two years wtf is wrong with you

Chongaiman:
@OP
You are not European. Your poor grasp of English, poor spelling and style betray you. Get serious with your life.

She's not European because her English isn't good? You have clearly never left Nigeria to know the reality of the world around you. Try to understand things first before accusing people falsely.

mrblessed:
English is the first language of diplomacy and commerce but it has limited speakers in Europe.
I had a good laugh when I read your comment. Besidess, your unwarranted, unprovoked, and baseless attacks on the distraught OP betray what a mindless ignoramus you are. Thank God nairaland is a teachable platform. Now, who needs to get serious with his life?

Dear Mrs OP, please listen to the advice of sensible and compassionate Nairalanders.

1000 likes for this fantastic post.

Chongaiman:
@OP
You are not European. Your poor grasp of English, poor spelling and style betray you. Get serious with your life.

Not all Europeans have English as a first language

Strongsoul:
Hello everyone.I have been married with Nigerian man for 2 years.We live in my country in Europe.I never felt that he loves me and i always saw him as selfish person.It was always about him.I am the one that provides for rent bils food everytjing.Even i help him send money to his family.I am not rich far from that.Also my husband is racist to white people.He always critisize them on very bad way.He always tels me how i dont do nothing right.And always makes me feel worthless.He ia very good looking man.So now he is in very bad situation with documents.He told me that he wil divorce me.if i dont make our lives move forward which means if i dont help him.with papers...Please i am desperate people..I dont want to lose him...but at other side i tjink love has no conditions...Pls answer

It's safe to say that this guy is just using you to get his papers and stay in the country permanently.

As soon as he has them he will abandon you especially since he is much better looking than you and believes he can easily get a more beautiful lady.

Chongaiman:
@OP
You are not European. Your poor grasp of English, poor spelling and style betray you. Get serious with your life.

The countries in Europe (a continent of at least 50 countries) with English as their official language are the United Kingdom, Malta and Ireland. You do not have to attack the poster, as many Nigerians can't speak English, even if English is an official language.

You'll save yourself a lot of money & stress if you just got rid of this oxygen thief. I can't believe you're letting yourself go through all this emotional rollercoaster to hold on to a good-for-nothing, ungrateful, broke, sorry excuse of a husband. Love can't be that blind! Work on yourself. Gain some confidence & ditch this extra weight you call a man.

Strongsoul:
Hello everyone.I have been married with Nigerian man for 2 years.We live in my country in Europe.I never felt that he loves me and i always saw him as selfish person.It was always about him.I am the one that provides for rent bils food everytjing.Even i help him send money to his family.I am not rich far from that.Also my husband is racist to white people.He always critisize them on very bad way.He always tels me how i dont do nothing right.And always makes me feel worthless.He ia very good looking man.So now he is in very bad situation with documents.He told me that he wil divorce me.if i dont make our lives move forward which means if i dont help him.with papers...Please i am desperate people..I dont want to lose him...but at other side i tjink love has no conditions...Pls answer

dump him, come back here to thank me later.

ceeroh:
If after all these actions and signs of manipulation and selfishness, you still don't wanna lose him. Then, Goodluck.

i am very weak on him n this is my.problem

HeavenlyCherub:


He is using you for papers. No man in his right might if he loved you would allow you to be the bread winner or take care of all the bills. Walk away now before it's too late

i pay all and he stil tels me that i dont do nothing for him...he wil tel me AH U DIDNT DO NOTHING FOR ME DID U BUY ME APARTMENT A CAR??

Eleyi ti jones, you love him but he maltreats you, ko buru, continun

Strongsoul:
Hello everyone.I have been married with Nigerian man for 2 years.We live in my country in Europe.I never felt that he loves me and i always saw him as selfish person.It was always about him.I am the one that provides for rent bils food everytjing.Even i help him send money to his family.I am not rich far from that.Also my husband is racist to white people.He always critisize them on very bad way.He always tels me how i dont do nothing right.And always makes me feel worthless.He ia very good looking man.So now he is in very bad situation with documents.He told me that he wil divorce me.if i dont make our lives move forward which means if i dont help him.with papers...Please i am desperate people..I dont want to lose him...but at other side i tjink love has no conditions...Pls answer

DUMP HIS SORRY ASS

HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU