stevetboy9:

The truth is if u marry a virgin,chances are there that she'll be faithful ,trustworthy,and loyal. Ink, i want to tell u Ds, if u future hubby meet u not a virgin, 1. He wont respect u that much 2. He'll always be suspicious of your movement and that is where trust comes in! I'm a guy and am telling u the truth. The guys that tell u that virginity is old skul are those who want to chop and drop. Wen they want to settled down,they'll now want to marry a virgin. Whereas,they've disvirgined so many girls. Men are terrible. I'm telling u d fact. Take it or leave it. I dont want to talk abt dis issue again. It pis me off!

You speak as though what your saying is a fact. Not all men will have the same mentality as you. Just because you would judge a girl based on whether or not she is a virgin doesn't mean that every guy would do the same. What you did was just tell me what your own personal feelings are towards this subject.

gbam!

There is no need arguing this case.

Every man or woman is free to choose and believe in whatever characteristics they feel is fit for a good wife or husband (regardless of how shallow the reason) be it beauty, money, education, or even VIRGINITY.

If a guy does not want to marry you because you are not a virgin then, no wahala, there are plenty more fish in the sea. If a guy does not like you for your personality, then its his loss!

No need trying to change people's mind set. For some people it is very hard to change because these things are ingrained in culture and personal beliefs.

^^ gud talk, U will make a gud wiv oo. U talk like one

Ehwo! All of you are in trouble. IF YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN AND YOU ARE HAPPY ABOUT IT, SHAME ON YOU! Ok, when u all marry, you'll know and remember all I've said. Virginity ensures trust,love like never b4. I pray you'll live to marry and you'll get wat i'm saying. Fact is fact! Dont let us hide under 1 finger!

stevetboy9:

Ehwo! All of you are in trouble. IF YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN AND YOU ARE HAPPY ABOUT IT, SHAME ON YOU! Ok, when u all marry, you'll know and remember all I've said. Virginity ensures trust,love like never b4. I pray you'll live to marry and you'll get wat i'm saying. Fact is fact! Dont let us hide under 1 finger!

LMAO, I'll be sure to keep you in mind when that never happens.

Folks, Pls read the epic novel,The Godfather by Mario Puzo.There is a section where Michael falls in love and marries a young Sicilian virgin.Their sex life will explain some of the emotional connection between a man and a genuine virgin.
Virginity will not guarantee a good wife, there is a lot that makes a good wife and that distinction is very relative.But one consolation is that a virgin will not come to the marriage with battle scars and the ghosts of a thousand relationships.

ogianyo:

Folks, Pls read the epic novel,The Godfather by Mario Puzo.There is a section where Michael falls in love and marries a young Sicilian virgin.Their sex life will explain some of the emotional connection between a man and a genuine virgin.
Virginity will not guarantee a good wife, there is a lot that makes a good wife and that distinction is very relative.But one consolation is that a virgin will not come to the marriage with battle scars and the ghosts of a thousand relationships.

Says who? Being in a relationship doesn't mean that sex is included. You can be a virgin and still experience terrible relationships that would result in "battle scars and the ghosts of a thousand relationships".

some guy will want to marry virgins while some will not. my late twin bro always wanted a non virgin gurl but insist he will remain a virgin. u seee what u see as anoder mans poison is anoder mans meat. for me i prefer a virgin dan non virgin. if i have to chose btw 2 good gurls to marry , 1 a non virgin and d other a virgin . i will surely take d virgin. dats me.

Inked_Nerd:

That's not true. How did you come to such a conclusion?

and hw did u also come to ur conclusion

Marrying a Virgin does not guarantee a Good Wife , I won't marry a Virgin even if i met one when i want to marry because virgins turn into something else when their cherry has been popped ,

Honeyboy09:

Marrying a Virgin does not guarantee a Good Wife , I won't marry a Virgin even if i met one when i want to marry because virgins turn into something else when their cherry has been popped ,

Which conclusion are you referring to?

Marry your choice. A virgin or NOT!!! I'm not a VIRGIN and I'm proud of it If not how i wan take no say big d1ck and small d1ck dey[s][/s]

but i knw say big toto and small toto dey. but i neva fuk, tanks to pono

Madukaele:

but i knw say big toto and small toto dey. but i neva fuk, tanks to pono [/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

Then you must be self servicing.

@inke_nerd&stevenson, Both of u are draggng dis issue too far.The fact still remain that"VIRGINITY IS THE PRIDE OF WOMAN"There are many evidence to back it off.1.In our society 2day,hardly 10%of ladies are virgin.This10% dat are virgin must ve dis characters that enables them to keep dir virginity.1.Good moral upbringing by parent.2.Discipline.3.Committment.4.Religious.4.Respect 4 nature.5.Belief&integrity.6.pride.7.Character.Dis characters are present in almost a virgin.Now tell me,if a virgin can posses all d following qualities,wat again is needed to make a wife material compared to dos dat ve been despoiled who hardly will have 1 of dis characters,ink_nerd am waitng 4 ur comment??

Count yourself very lucky if u ve a virgin to marry. The world is so corrupt, for someone to be able to keep herself is kudos to her. Just as Stevetboy9 said, you will be happy u put someone in the hse not the  one maybe when u travel ur heart will be pounding. Many married women are not faithful. They still sneak out when your not there to meet with former boy friend. So bros, if you have one pls hold her tight. By God's Grace and what she has decided to be, only u ll mary her.
Gud luck.

Olami099:

@inke_nerd&stevenson, Both of u are draggng dis issue too far.The fact still remain that"VIRGINITY IS THE PRIDE OF WOMAN"There are many evidence to back it off.1.In our society 2day,hardly 10%of ladies are virgin.This10% dat are virgin must ve dis characters that enables them to keep dir virginity.1.Good moral upbringing by parent.2.Discipline.3.Committment.4.Religious.4.Respect 4 nature.5.Belief&integrity.6.pride.7.Character.Dis characters are present in almost a virgin.Now tell me,if a virgin can posses all d following qualities,wat again is needed to make a wife material compared to dos dat ve been despoiled who hardly will have 1 of dis characters,ink_nerd am waitng 4 your comment??

My point was that you guys are making it seem as though a woman cannot be a good wife is she isn't a virgin. I have friends who have married woman who were virgins yet they posses none of the qualities you've described. There's more to being a "good wife". Being a virgin is in not a determining factor of ones ability to be a "good wife".

i didnt say so, wat i was tryng to say is that virgin girls are better than non-virgin.understood

I quoted you but when I said "you guys", I wasn't specifically referring to you

@inke_nerd,i want to ask u some questns and i need honest reply,don't be angry it might look stupid 4rm ur view but i wish to knw to enable me to proceed

Yes Olami099, what is your question?

Ink,are u a student,of which skul,which course?

I go to school in New York.

@ink,Here are my questns and i want u to give me honest answer b4 i proceed on dis issue.1.Wat is ur marital status.2.Are u a virgin(if u are nt hw does u feel d day u lost ur virginity)3.Which course are u studying?If u cannot reply to dis answer publicly u can reach me at olamidebak@yahoo.com.Am expecting 4rm u soonest,have a nice day.

@inky darling

does ?s are 2 much jooor haba free my gal mehn

inky d guy dey do undercover toasting no gree ooo , i trust u inkilet

Idowuogbo,i hate your username. It's raw and awkward. Anyway,how's alaba?

LOVE.4BUG:

Marry your choice. A virgin or NOT!!! I'm not a VIRGIN and I'm proud of it If not how i wan take no say big d1ck and small d1ck dey[s][/s]

nobody said u r not proud

stevetboy9:

Idowuogbo,i hate your username. It's raw and awkward. Anyway,how's alaba?

omg did u jus get rude
u called for it , if u dont like tuff , u can kiss d a-s-s of an horse
stupendous intete , did i complain about ur name tseeeew

Did i stepped on a raw nerve?

Virginity does not guarantee a womans trust, faithfulness or character.

That a girl is or ain't a virgin doesn't mean she won't make a good mother or wife.

Some funny comments from stevetboy! Berra wise up

Virgins. Often times than not-

1. 40% of girls that keep their virginity are usually as a result of chance
- either by strict upbringing
- Were lucky to have met a good guidance at an early age
- never in a very dicey situation.
- And of cause pure luck

2. Another 40% is as a result of the first guy syndrome.
- They were lucky that they ended up with the first guy either as husband or it led to marriage.
invariably they are not in a position to ever know, assuming,

3. Only 20% really keep theirs as a result of principles from a tender age.

Please note that this cannot be totally attributed to upbringing or religious way of life but it could be said to be a combination of a lot of factors but majorly an early personal conviction.

So my dear think twice before you throw all those praises on that virgin, so you don't ask for refund on the bride price.
Obviously, its never going to be her fault.