what? you got something to say.

to you,nah nah.Thats your opinion anyways.

I have said alot in time past

And God formed woman out of Man's rib.............. since then, neither God nor Man has rested.

If you are in love and you see him/her as someone you'd love to spend the rest of your life with...and share your joy,pain,happy moments together!

Z4M4eva, the guy hasnt even proposed yet. so what if after all her dreaming the guy leaves her 

My opinion, U 'll never be sure till after u say your pronouced "husband and wife".
If his got the cash to burn, running his credit card wont proof trash.

Do alot of prayers and opening of eyes more and when i say prayers i mean prayers.pastors don't know their better half but they just pray for God to show them the way.then maybe u should listen more to know how serious this person is the true him might just show.

HOW DO U KNOW YOUR HUSBAND TO BE mmmmmmmmmhmhmhmhhhh what a question,why wont u?rather why wont l know him u tell me

I think it is only God that knows and would tell you your so called soul mate/husband to be. I think you would see it through dreams, prayers and revelations because marriage is not an easy institution. Forget about what happens before marriage all the love , flowers and gifts but it is when you get into the marriage institution that you would know what marriage is all about. So l think everyone should pray about it. thanks.

Kaylala- are you a pastor or consultant?
You ve got things upstairs- keep it up!!

Right Kaylala,

Ask God- He knows best. I state that as a true testament of the man I have. He mirrors all that I am:
sensitive
sweet
smart
spiritual
strong and
sensual

Needless to say, I'm in heaven.

yeah, yeah, yeaahh........ dont we all have such a man

Zhade I love that. I srongly believe that if one is good, something good must surely come to the person. If not now it will be later.

If ur guy is ur husband to be there is some kind of feeling u will have 4 him alone. ur flesh will tell and u will u feel it

wow! dat a funny questn ok fine when u see ur husband 2 be u feel the paloma feels when she sees diego dats if u watch the soap when u're mine otherwise u feel all mushy when he speaks 2 u on d fone, u feel butterflies in ur tummy when u see him, u heart skips a bit when u hear his voice infact dont let me decieve u
when u see the man u love u wud know

paint a perfect picture of him,then he's all urs

when the time comes "she'll" know.

how he makes u feel...and u need to be with each other a lil bit before u get married. You need time for their REAL personality show so u can decide if thats really the type of person u want to be with FOREVER!

Get this straight once and for all!!!

Your husband to be will be the type that will not tell you this "how he he killed the dragon and kissed the princess"

But he will be type that will first take time to explain this yo you"how the dragon and the princess got there in the first place"

Hope this will help you more

You will know your husband to be when you personally ask God if he is your husband because so many bloody so called brothers are fake and ot even husband material. Infact, some of them pretend to be church workers, gives us christian advice on NAIRALAND but not God fearing for instance.

When you ask God personally, he will answer you dear heart especially when you are faithfull.

what of u guys how will you know ur wife to be?

God does not Find a wife/husband for you. You FIND your spouse.
... you get to KNOW, when you FEEL a CONNECTION of that thing MISSING in you.
That gives Joy and not Happiness.

Simple. Everybody knows what they want in life and like some posts suggests, you choose from the pool, the one you think will best help you achieve your goals in life. Whether you can manage the evolution of your choice during marriage is the complex part.

My people I used the wise words we have here for her, the thing worked. She is cool now, strong and minds her work for the mean time but there's little *wahala* she vowed not to give her heart to any guy.

Waooooooo,that is shocking,alarming and a harsh decision. Must she do that to herself [flash=200,200][/flash]

it'll take d grace of God 4 ur friend 2 walk out of d relationship. ladies have a way of remaining in d "fryin pan" and nothing u say makes 'em change deir minds.

am new maybe someone may help me enjoy d jist

kaylala wat if he dosent open up. i mean u do most of d marraige talks

Majinice,you are so much welcomed to the land.

majinice:

kaylala what if he dosent open up. i mean u do most of d marraige talks

In that case you have to keep on trying because then only God can help you out to make him open up