this thread didn't even last a month.
let me resurrect it. perhaps new people will have something to say

Z4m. . . gotta give it to you. . .

Any man who follows these rules would mosdef have the woman he desires. . .for a long term relationship i mean!



5 Stars for this post of urs!

fusionX:

Ladies, How to attract a Guy
- Show up at his door step Naked,

RIGHT SPOT MATE, U GOT IT ALL FIGURED OUT.

the first steps r wrong, only a desperate girls or story book girls will fall for all that,
these ones r better
Steps:

1. dont send appearance,but make a good first impression.

2. is trivial

3. Give her a reason to think about you. do the opposite of wat all guys do to her
4. Flirt with her and be raw but dont touch, let her be the one to want to touch u.

5. be rough,

6. Listen intently to what she has to say, full stop.

7. Ask about her interests, her work and her hobbies.

8. Leave a little something to the imagination. let her feel she is missing out in something

@ original post

simple as ABC yet so hard to do.

Z4M4eva:
Steps: 

1.   Take pride in your appearance. Realize you only have one chance to make a good first impression. 
 
2.   Appeal to all her senses through your sensuous voice, fragrance, clothing and appearance. 
 
3.   Give her a reason to think about you. Wear a masculine fragrance that haunts her memory, tasteful clothes that she yearns to touch, a smile that she can't get out of her mind. 
 
4.   Flirt with her by sending silent signals of your interest through subtle body language. 
 
5.   Treat her like she's the center of your world. Focus your full attention on her and block out distractions. 
 
6.   Listen intently to what she has to say, and respond with respect for her opinions. 
 
7.   Ask about her interests, her work and her hobbies. Pay attention to the details. 
 
8.   Be honest and sincere. Keep your promises. Call if you say you're going to call. Show up at the time you say you're going to arrive. Don't make idle promises that you have no intention of keeping. 
 
9.   Let her know you're different from other men. Emphasize your originality through your personality, intelligence and behavior. Don't pretend you're anyone other than yourself. 
 
10.   Refrain from boasting, particularly about your past triumphs with other women. 
 
11.   Leave a little something to the imagination. Don't bare all or tell all immediately. An air of mystery can be provocative and appealing to a woman. 

Tips: 

Your appearance and body language may catch her attention, but it takes personality and charm to sustain a woman's interest. 

Talk about her too

Don't just talk about yourself. Make sure you ask her questions and let her know that you want to get to know her better.
 

You forgot the most Important thing...M.O.N.E.Y

SirDorianGray:
You forgot the most Important thing...M.O.N.E.Y

truth is bitter

Z4M4eva:
Steps: 

1.   Take pride in your appearance. Realize you only have one chance to make a good first impression. 
 
2.   Appeal to all her senses through your sensuous voice, fragrance, clothing and appearance. 
 
3.   Give her a reason to think about you. Wear a masculine fragrance that haunts her memory, tasteful clothes that she yearns to touch, a smile that she can't get out of her mind. 
 
4.   Flirt with her by sending silent signals of your interest through subtle body language. 
 
5.   Treat her like she's the center of your world. Focus your full attention on her and block out distractions. 
 
6.   Listen intently to what she has to say, and respond with respect for her opinions. 
 
7.   Ask about her interests, her work and her hobbies. Pay attention to the details. 
 
8.   Be honest and sincere. Keep your promises. Call if you say you're going to call. Show up at the time you say you're going to arrive. Don't make idle promises that you have no intention of keeping. 
 
9.   Let her know you're different from other men. Emphasize your originality through your personality, intelligence and behavior. Don't pretend you're anyone other than yourself. 
 
10.   Refrain from boasting, particularly about your past triumphs with other women. 
 
11.   Leave a little something to the imagination. Don't bare all or tell all immediately. An air of mystery can be provocative and appealing to a woman. 

Tips: 

Your appearance and body language may catch her attention, but it takes personality and charm to sustain a woman's interest. 

Talk about her too

Don't just talk about yourself. Make sure you ask her questions and let her know that you want to get to know her better.
 

reason I comment on this post was that. Seun, You and myself joined nairaland same year in nutshell we are active member of the forum