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Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by stanliwise(m): 11:17pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
LONEER:so why haven't you told him? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by anonymuz(m): 11:19pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO:you make a lot of sense bro |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Nobody: 11:21pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
You have posted this topic before and it drew the attention of many , OP. I think you're lying, just trying to make people read a myth. It's not ok |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by dammyd46(m): 11:23pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
just explain things to him, cus he might not even see it as a bad thing, if you can't then just lock up |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Elliot2(m): 11:23pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
dierich:Which ever way u tell him is the best way so long he leaves. People like that are wired in a way that they are illogical and don't appreciate even the most diplomatic ways—all they will say is that you chased them. You will be the bad guy in their eyes for sure. You should be more concerned about you sanity and peace of mind at this moment. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by baby124: 11:25pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Tell your girl to come and visit anytime he’s coming. Make sure she’s very rude to the girl he brings and rude to the friend too. By saying... “ah uncle you are here again with a new girl today, please you can’t stay here tonight ooo”. I have not cleaned up the mess you did here last time!” You sef form surprise... walahi bobo no go come back! 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Gabriel99: 11:26pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Amos 3:3 two cannot walk together except they agree. Since you've stopped agreeing tell him you're going and at such should leave your house, fix a date if possible, if he changes reconsider. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Nobody: 11:27pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
dnt send him any msg... instead of talking to him, u should talk to his girlfrnd nd let her discuss it with him or beta buy rat poison of 20naira nd gv them to eat. haaaa, what are my even saying...RAT POISON... dnt kill dem yet, i repeat dnt kill them yet. just kidnap the girl for 2 weeks nd chase ur fucking frnd out of the house. best option, just fucking poison them both nd watch them die, but do not kill them. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by SmartMen: 11:29pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
kallmemrB:they judge everything from emotions... me i be mad man. if u like be my twin brother, once something does not seem right, i will tell u to fvck off. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by consultancy: 11:33pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl. [/quote] are you gay?? what is the meaning of the above?? 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by stanliwise(m): 11:34pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
baby124:abeg this your strategy na wa o. Na girl go come do your job for you? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Elliot2(m): 11:37pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
dierich:Truth is you can't,not until this moment. If you can then go and tell him already. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by flokii: 11:37pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
The first questions is.. Are you straight? I don't see reason why you should share a room and even bed with a guy in a 3 bedroom apartment honestly. If your answer to question 1 is No.. then sorry is your case. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by babakb: 11:38pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
godbroda:Period.............. Confirm Solution |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by stanliwise(m): 11:39pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl. consultancy:Even me sef o I was surprise why he has to say that part. Or is he jealous that the girls are replacing his position ? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Omudia11: 11:39pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Speak for the women you know. frank317: 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Trezagezz: 11:41pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
[s][/s] dierich:[s][/s] You are pointless since u never mentioned the main reason that made u tired.. If he is tour true Friend as u called him and he is still with his parents... Endure it and man up.. no one knows tomorrow |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Nobody: 11:41pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
on a serious note, i understand ur mood bro.... same thing happens in an apartment where i once live nd work in Dubai . since the cost of renting an apartment was high, we guys came togeda in group nd rent that apartment. we were up to 6 including some girls who were living with us right in the same room. things was cool and everyone was like a family and this one room apartment was dam big so everyone lives comfortable. Not until one afonja guy started bringing in different girls in to the apartment, the funniest part was that this girls will eat our food and at mid night hot sex begins.. this went abt for a month nd no one could bear it any longer but they were just scared to confront the guy so that malice won't start. One day i was inside the room when this guy brought in a Tanzania babe nd right in my presence try to have sex with her but the girl was not comfortable with it since i was there and the guy was looking at me trying to gesture so i could leave but i never looked at him, i was just pressing my phn and at last the girl stood up nd decides to leave whc prompt the guy to be angry with me. the guy left with the girl nd later that night he challenged me wen everyone was inside nd i stood my ground nd let him realize the apartment was not a brothel whc spark heated words btw us both. This gave other people the power to speak too nd as things went that day, we kick the idiot out of the house then he started begging us. So bro, if u can not allow him understand u then u are in a big mess. To him, he finds it comfortable nd thought u like it but to u, u are not comfortable with him bringing girls to ur apartment. so forget abt 10yrs friendship bro nd act like a guy unless he is gona be ur doom. 6 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Kaybex007(m): 11:41pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Three advise I got for you 1. Go and get married, at least if your wife is with you, he won't have the mind of bringing Amy lady to your apartment again. 2. Relocate to another area and tell him that this place you are going, he will not be welcomed there. 3. Invite him to join Nairaland and bring up the issue again and pray to God he comes across it. Then he will know that you are totally passed off. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by middlebelter(m): 11:41pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
dierich: This is about your life. The action of your "friend" who does not want to take the risk of taking his partner in sin home has both spiritual and legal implications for you. Commiting sin of fornication makes God to be angry with the sinner and someone aiding the sin. It is recorded in the Holy Bible that fornicators will have their part in the lake of fire. Why then will you risk God's anger against yourself just because you can't tell him the truth to someone who is ready to make God angry with you and spoil the works of your hands. Remember the accommodation was provided by God and he can take it away from you if you use it against His will. Legal angle of the matter, if anything should happen and the girl sleeps and fail to wake up, your so called friend will run away, you may be surprised that you are the one that will be jailed for murder. Hey guy brave up and set yourself free from enemy - friend. You have been warned. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Omudia11: 11:42pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
What is difficult in understanding that someone doesn't like such acts around them. He doesn't like his friend using his house as a brothel. Is that too difficult to understand? frank317: 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by foreshore(m): 11:43pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
dierich: There is no other way than to tell him to his face to stop bringing babes to your house for bashing. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by uuzba(m): 11:44pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
aanuoluwami14:OP is suffering temptation. People are looking for house. And you have house, swept clean and empty. Na E devil carry himself enter. Isn't there such a passage in the Bible? Somebody had evil spirit worrying him. They cast out the spirit. The guy was cured. Instead of filling his mind and heart with God, he was relaxing and doing nothing. Na im the Spirit waka upandan, and came back to check the person's head. Upon meeting the head, very clean and empty, it went and carried 7 other BADDER spirits and the scattered the guys head finish. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Make him understand that you earn urself that apartment by being focused so for him to stay there, he should get busy and stop coming there with ladies without ur permission so that one day he won't bring assassin inside without knowing and if he can't abide by ur rules, he is welcome to leave.. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by arosseun(m): 11:44pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
frank317:This is the only person making sense here |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by mechanics(m): 11:44pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Tell him straight that you don't like him bringing his girlfriends to your house, if he gets angry, life continues, if not you are partaking in his sins by using your house as an abode to do evil. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by AskProf: 11:48pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
fairfora: Pls, link to the previous post. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by laudate: 11:48pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
dierich:Tell him some of your relations from the village are coming to stay with you in order to take care of you. Let him know they are strict Deeper Life or MFM people, and you need the extra room he is using, to accommodate them. So he should try and get alternative place to stay, before they come. If you like, I can help you rent some MFM people to come and visit you, so that he can see them. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by uuzba(m): 11:49pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
aanuoluwami14:OP is suffering temptation. People are looking for house. And you have house, swept clean and empty. Na E devil carry himself enter. Isn't there such a passage in the Bible? Somebody had evil spirit worrying him. They cast out the spirit. The guy was cured. Instead of filling his mind and heart with God, he was relaxing and doing nothing. Na im the Spirit waka upandan, and came back to check the person's head. Upon meeting the head, very clean and empty, it went and carried 7 other BADDER spirits and they scattered the guys head finish. OP is trying to be neutral between good and evil. Sitting on the fence. |
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Deowl: 11:50pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
If you owe him pay him off, except he rented the flat and you are only a house keeper. Any way I think u are just cracking fun. |
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