1. Attraction test: Is he/she attracted to the content or container that is it about your person or your body.
2. Purpose test: Will the relationship be temporal or forever, what exactly is the basis of your love.
3. Vision test: Does your vision unite you or divide you, do you compliment him and does he add values to you.
4. Activity test: Are you planning for tomorrow or all you care about is the excitement of today. Do you see a future together are you guarding it or destroying it
5. Caring test: What does he care about your life or body, your present or future? Is the care genuine or to get through to you.
6. Starting test: How did it all started, was is based on friendship, infatuation or lust.
7. Purity test: Do you stand for righteousness or engaging in sexual immoralities.
8. Divine relationship test: Are you together in Christ or together in club.
9. Interest test: Is he warm, tender and gentle or harsh rude and arrogant.
10. Maturity test: How wise are you both, can your wisdom build a home and will your understanding establish it.
11. Excitement test: Are you happy or you are enduring the relationship.
12. Marriage test: can you spend the rest of your life with him/her. Can you marry him/her?
13. Self-emotions test: can you both control your feelings and urge for sex.
14. Peace test: Is there peace of mind or you are always troubled
15. Other relationship: What is the view of your family and friends? Do they know about the relationship, are they in support of it.
16. Trust test: can you open up to him/her saying nothing but the truth at every point in time.
17. Distance test: can you love him/her in his/her absence
18. Time test: Is love growing strong or waxing cold, can it survive the test of time.
19. Pluralistic test: Do you see each other as you and me or we and us
20. Character test: Can you coup with your flaws and can you live with your weaknesses
21. Foundation test: can you present him to the world as your husband or wife.
22. Goal test: Is your goal to please God or yourselves
23. Prayer and counsel test: Have you prayed about it, is your pastor or church leaders aware of your relationship.
24. Association test: Who are the people surrounding your relationship
25. Commitment test: Do you spend quality time with each other, are you there when things are not smiling.
26. Medical test: Is your genotype compatible
The true elements of love are: Trust, acceptance, compassion, respect, service, forgiveness, selflessness, excitement, righteousness, peace, patient submission, commitment, sacrifice, giving, positive thinking, forbearance, truth, tolerance, faithfulness, faith, hope and joy.

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