People I need your help. Here's my story, I abstained from having sex with my husband for more than one year. And yes, I was semi celibate .... I mean, I do fool around with some of my girlfriends but no other man has touched me in more than 5 years. Anyway, fast forward to 4 months ago, I started having sex again with my husband about 3 to 4 months ago. And a couple of week after we started having sex, I started noticing some terrible rashes on my thigh region.

So I quit having sex with him again and those rashes cleared in less than 3 weeks, even though I was still using the same ointment that did work at all when we were still sleeping together. Now, I have decided that I would never have sex with him again unless he take an STD test but I don't know how to break this news to him without destroying our relationship forever.

Please advise ....

Take std test

Papa Emeka papa Emeka papa Emeka how many times did I call you go and take std test

Hard one though but you may just tell him that both of you gotta do the test that you wanna surprise him in the bedroom with something special.... .... I don't even know if I make sense

Hmmm. If he's educated, he shd understand. But u shd tell him both of you shd go for check up based on what you noticed when u had sex with him last. If he values his health and still want to keeping having sex at all, he'll agree. The idea of saying both of u shd go is so that it won't look like you're concerned about urself and accusing him of sexual unfaithfulness..sounds more like you're with him over the matter..you get!

SexynSerious:
People I need your help. Here's my story, I abstained from having sex with my husband for more than one year. And yes, I was semi celibate .... I mean, I do fool around with some of my girlfriends but no other man has touched me in more than 5 years. Anyway, fast forward to 4 months ago, I started having sex again with my husband about 3 to 4 months ago. And a couple of week after we started having sex, I started noticing some terrible rashes on my thigh region.

So I quit having sex with him again and those rashes cleared in less than 3 weeks, even though I was still using the same ointment that did work at all when we were still sleeping together. Now, I have decided that I would never have sex with him again unless he take an STD test but I don't know how to break this news to him without destroying our relationship forever.

Please advise ....

Rashes are the first sign of HIV

SexynSerious:
People I need your help. Here's my story, I abstained from having sex with my husband for more than one year. And yes, I was semi celibate .... I mean, I do fool around with some of my girlfriends but no other man has touched me in more than 5 years. Anyway, fast forward to 4 months ago, I started having sex again with my husband about 3 to 4 months ago. And a couple of week after we started having sex, I started noticing some terrible rashes on my thigh region.

So I quit having sex with him again and those rashes cleared in less than 3 weeks, even though I was still using the same ointment that did work at all when we were still sleeping together. Now, I have decided that I would never have sex with him again unless he take an STD test but I don't know how to break this news to him without destroying our relationship forever.

Please advise ....

rashes you say, its like you even need the test more

You stopped having sex for over a year with your husband, and you didn’t deem it fit to run a test before you start getting intimate again. You thought he was waiting for you all this while?? Better tell him straight up that you both should have a test. No two ways about it

LOL. You're looking for trouble. You don't know my husband, that's why you'd make that suggestion.

chiommy123:
Papa Emeka papa Emeka papa Emeka how many times did I call you go and take std test

Good idea, but I am a little nervous. The man has a volcanic temper.

BarrElChapo:
Hard one though but you may just tell him that both of you gotta do the test that you wanna surprise him in the bedroom with something special.... .... I don't even know if I make sense

OK. But I would need to tell him about my observations though or else he would turn around and blame me.

Oluromantic:
Hmmm. If he's educated, he shd understand. But u shd tell him both of you shd go for check up based on what you noticed when u had sex with him last. If he values his health and still want to keeping having sex at all, he'll agree. The idea of saying both of u shd go is so that it won't look like you're concerned about urself and accusing him of sexual unfaithfulness..sounds .ore like you're with him over the matter..you get!

The rashes are all gone

shege45:
rashes you say, its like you even need the test more

Op is a guy

Well, I waited for one year didn't I? So why shouldn't he? Why are men so promiscuous?

adorablepepple:
You stopped having sex for over a year with your husband, and you didn’t deem it fit to run a test before you start getting intimate again. You thought he was waiting for you all this while?? Better tell him straight up that you both should have a test. No two ways about it

Yuh husband abi yuh boyfriend, just tell d Motherphucka to go for checkup while u do d same....