Double-en:

I am someone who has been pressured by my fiancé for months to insert a relationship status reading "Engaged" on my facebook profile. Its not like i am denying him or refusing to acknowledge him by not putting it there but i feel that since its an agreement between the two of us with the knowledge of both our families then it doesn't really matter whether I display a status change to the world.
Besides i know more than a few friends who have been engaged on facebook and had to endure the heart break in public when the engagement was called off.

Your post is interesting, but a bit contradictory. You say you're being pressured?, but you're also agreeing to the fact that based on the surrounding factors of your relationship, changing your facebook status is normal.

Do you lack the confidence that your relationship won't last, or/and isn't build on a solid rock?.

german007:

Your post is interesting, but a bit contradictory. You say you're being pressured?, but you're also agreeing to the fact that based on the surrounding factors of your relationship, changing your facebook status is normal.

Do you lack the confidence that your relationship won't last, or/and isn't build on a solid rock?.

 

samtoye:

Does it cost you anything to change your status on facebook to engaged? cos lets be real; the guys do check for status before they toast, so to keep the devil at bay and for peace sake do it.

Double-en:

I am someone who  has been pressured by my fiancé for months to insert a relationship status reading "Engaged" on my facebook profile. Its not like i am denying him or refusing to acknowledge him by not putting it there but i feel that since its an agreement between the two of us with the knowledge of both our families then it doesn't really matter whether I display a status change to the world. 
Besides i know more than a few friends who have been engaged on facebook and had to endure the heart break in public when the engagement was called off.

Omolola1:

Hmmn!

[size=13pt]Well, i take People's Facebook Relationship Status seriously
If i see that you are engaged and the person's name is there, i have second thoughts[/size]
Personally, its not a must for me to put up my relationship status

In your case, if you are really engaged to this guy, and he wants you to put it there, what;s stopping you

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That is Garbage , utter nonsense!!

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That is Garbage , utter nonsense!!

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That is Garbage , utter nonsense!!

Omolola1:

Why do you think so?
Its the truth,
Let's face it, you add someone as your fiance i.e. engaged to (person;s name), the other person can either accept or decline it!
For the other person to accept it, it means it is really true except it is planned

Utter Rubbish, Anyone can put in a relationship,engaged,or single in a  FB profile
Ive got tons of friendz that are in a relationship and their FB profile's read single,so sweetheart your Obvious Little Opinion is all wrong, pardon urself

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Utter Rubbish, Anyone can put in a relationship,engaged,or single in a FB profile
Ive got tons of friendz that are in a relationship and their FB profile's read single,so sweetheart your Obvious Little Opinion is all wrong, pardon urself

I beg to differ!

That is totally wrong! Yes, you can be in a relationship and your profile says Single, Me for instance, i dont update my relationship status because i just dont feel like it, but i tell whoever cares to know my relationship Status

We are talking about "ENGAGED", once you put your relationship status as Engaged (the two parties are involved), that is what people would think. Much less when it is there for too long

Omolola1:

I beg to differ!

That is totally wrong! Yes, you can be in a relationship and your profile says Single, Me for instance, i dont update my relationship status because i just dont feel like it, but i tell whoever cares to know my relationship Status

We are talking about "ENGAGED", once you put your relationship status as Engaged (the two parties are involved), that is what people would think. Much less when it is there for too long

Another utter rubbish, what you are spilling is PURE JUNK, You dont wanna update your profile but u tell anyone who asks you about it,why making things more difficult for yourself, I still mantain one should announce his status on FB unless he/she has sometin else in mind~

Omolola1:

I beg to differ!

That is totally wrong! Yes, you can be in a relationship and your profile says Single, Me for instance, i dont update my relationship status because i just dont feel like it, but i tell whoever cares to know my relationship Status

We are talking about "ENGAGED", once you put your relationship status as Engaged (the two parties are involved), that is what people would think. Much less when it is there for too long  

Echidime:

You do not want to post it on facebook, because you still have other men you still want to Terrorise their pocket with the slogan,I am single  womennnnnnnnnnnnnn na waooooooooooooooo

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Another utter rubbish, what you are spilling is PURE JUNK, You dont wanna update your profile but u tell anyone who asks you about it,why making things more difficult for yourself, I still mantain one should announce his status on FB unless he/she has sometin else in mind~

knight77:

i totally agree with you, ENGAGEMENT is already a serious commitment.

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^^
why arent u answering your fone,

abeg nah Joke i dey ooh,

It was pure

Obo Boco:
i have a boyfriend and we both know that facebook is a big joke so when i see alot of girls writing silly comments on his page or guys writing comments on my page we both laugh over it cos we know they are wasting their time.
but if it will make your future hubby happy, then do it for him.

Omolola1:

Which is pure humour?
your status or what you said
BTW, i didnt know my phone was ringing coz i forgot to change it from Silence mode