all of u trying to make sense here is nothing but fools. the op is mad and u all are his friendz

olisehcom:
You're concerned about what will happen when she dies?..

Relax bro, you'll die before her... No need to fret

Dear Sir,
You just made my day.
I don't even know when I started laughing.
Even though what you said makes sense

Nyerhovwo101:

So basically he should not get married to her for fear she may cheat in the future....lol....it's quite unfortunate the op did not even state the part of urhobo which d lady comes from. Some of this things u guys talk about has been eroded....op pls go n make ur own finding outside Nairaland.signoff

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She's from Oghara

chenzen:
all of u trying to make sense here is nothing but fools. the op is mad and u all are his friendz

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Please, if you have nothing good to say go look for some other things to add value to your self.
You lack manners

SKYZZZ:

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She's from Oghara

where are you from

chenzen:
urhobo wayo.


l hope u don't run away from ur house when u marry her, that's if she doesnt kill u in cold blood

I wish I can meet you in real life and give you a hot slap for this nonsense talk.. Urhobo ladies once married they don’t sleep around like most tribes..

bro go there and make ur finding ur self without her knowing met people outside her family members and ask well, u can even see the formal Governor of the state James ibori u can ask him, he is there that's his village

my candid and sincere advice for u bro, don't ever draw conclusions from nairaland convince ur self from the right source and channel


the urhobo nation is very big and wide with different different cultures tradition u don't use one to generalize

just like you place the igbo land

u know places like owerre ,imbese etc they don't have any tradition that is keeping their wives to be faithful they cheat comfortably and nothing will happen, one can not use to IMO to generalize the entire igbo land ,

places like nsukka in enugu their wives can't even think of it

so do the needful

May God bless u, ur wife and ur unborn children

TonyeBarcanista:
But why will a man and his kids die for the sins of his wife and their mother respectively?

Anyway, I think you should confirm all these fears with the girl in question before going to the next level.

Such don't hold water again, those days before you marry an Urhobo lady you are expected to perform some certain rituals, like killing a goat (Using the blood to wash the couple's feet or spilling it at the entrance of the man's home) and some other stuffs, the essence of that is because, Marriage to the Urhobo is sacred and we frown at ladies infidelity. But 98% present day Trad wedding no longer follow these customs, citing some excuses like "Christianity" etc. So OP has no worries.

And yes, If Our daughter dies in your state, you are expected to bring her back home, and explain to us how or what killed her.

SKYZZZ go ahead with the marriage, you have no worries, Ladies from Delta state are hardworking, be you Urhobo, Anioma, Itsekiri, Isoko or Ijaw.

SKYZZZ:
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Please, if you have nothing good to say go look for some other things to add value to your self.
You lack manners

u lack sense

SouthSouth1914:


I wish I can meet you in real life and give you a hot slap for this nonsense talk.. Urhobo ladies once married they don’t sleep around like most tribes..

lol. urhobo ladies fvcks like there s no tomorrow. they are nothing but dogs

Niageriaunite:
bro go there and make ur finding ur self without her knowing met people outside her family members and ask well, u can even see the formal Governor of the state James ibori u can ask him, he is there that's his village

my candid and sincere advice for u bro, don't ever draw conclusions from nairaland convince ur self from the right source and channel


the urhobo nation is very big and wide with different different cultures tradition u don't use one to generalize

just like you place the igbo land

u know places like owerre ,imbese etc they don't have any tradition that is keeping their wives to be faithful they cheat comfortably and nothing will happen, one can not use to IMO to generalize the entire igbo land ,

places like nsukka in enugu their wives can't even think of it

so do the needful

May God bless u, ur wife and ur unborn children

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Thanks

Efewestern:


Such don't hold water again, those days before you marry an Urhobo lady you are expected to perform some certain rituals, like killing a goat (Using the blood to wash the couple's feet or spilling it at the entrance of the man's home) and some other stuffs, the essence that is because, Marriage to the Urhobo is sacred and we frown at ladies infidelity. But 98% present day Trad wedding no longer follow these customs, citing some excuses like "Christianity" etc. So OP has no worries.

And yes, If Our daughter dies in your state, you are expected to bring her back home, and explain to us how or what killed her.

SKYZZZ go ahead with the marriage, you have no worries, Ladies from Delta state are hardworking, be you Urhobo, Anioma, Itsekiri, Isoko or Ijaw.

Efe, thanks for the explanation though my own interest was on the consequence of the woman's infidelity on the children and the husband.

Anyway, Urhobo women are beautiful, hardworking and loyal.

Are you married? If yes, did you follow the tradition of goat blood spilling? If unmarried, will you follow it?

TonyeBarcanista:

Efe, thanks for the explanation though my own interest was on the consequence of the woman's infidelity on the children and the husband.

Anyway, Urhobo women are beautiful, hardworking and loyal.

Are you married? If yes, did you follow the tradition of goat blood spilling? If unmarried, will you follow it?

I'm not yet married, I've always been a traditional man, sure I will want that, but I know my woman's family won't let me, they are Christians by the way.

olisehcom:
You're concerned about what will happen when she dies?..

Relax bro, you'll die before her... No need to fret

You are too intelligent. Most men die before their wives. That is the normal thing.

If a man's wife dies before him, he will suffer very well, especially if the man is 50 years plus.

You too get sense my sister.

Efewestern:


I'm not yet married, I've always been a traditional man, sure I will want that, but I know my woman's family won't let me, they are Christians by the way.

Why are you not married? Have you a GF or Fiancée?

chenzen:
lol. urhobo ladies fvcks like there s no tomorrow. they are nothing but dogs

The dogs I know are dogs from the west!! They jump and hump on anything..

You are just a pained dysfunctional birdbrain who had a terrible childhood.., if your mum sleeps around doesn’t mean everyone does..

SKYZZZ:

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She's from Oghara

oghara....abeg go do ur marriage if u truly won marry. Some of the things that would result to such consequences would not be performed as stated by some others

TonyeBarcanista:
Why are you not married? Have you a GF or Fiancée?

Lol.. BRAH!

When it comes to Ladies/Relationships, I'm not that lucky, that's all I have to say, what about you?, married?

it is vividly clear the op is skeptical, it clearly shows that your love for her needs to be questioned, if you truly love her, all these flaws would be overlooked.

BornagainThief:
But I bet you it's ,more Bette than widows force to drink the water used in washing the body of their late husband. Such barbaric culture you Igbo's practices,you don't know if it's true or not,but you are typing crap here, hypocrite.

Nollywood don wash ur brain abi?
Continue... Las las u go dey alright

SKYZZZ:

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She's from Oghara

My Guy! Be very careful, do your findings before you go into marriage despite the love in the air. Besides, are you from South-South?

I personally take traditions seriously. I would make my findings if I were you instead of just listening to what people are saying. If after making my findings and everything doesn’t sit well with my spirit I would let her go.

If it should be the husband alone that will die, e for better unlike nsukka tradition...hahahaha

rokoto1986:
THERE IS NO TRADITIONAL LAW IN URHOBOTHAT SAYS U MUST BUILD A HUX WEN SHE DIES, ONLY DAT SHE WILL BE BURIED IN HER PLACE WEN SHE DIES, because WE DNT SELL OUR WOMEN, DATS Y D RITE IS NT AS EXPENSIVE AS D IGBO'S, AND OUR WOMEN ARE HARDWORKING AND SUPPORTIVE. MY GUY IF U LUV UR WOMAN, DNT WASTE ANYTIME. URHOBO WOMEN ARE THE BEST SET OF WOMEN TO MARRY FRM. FOR THE ISSUE OF SLEEPING AROUND, OUR WOMEN RESPECT THEIR MARRIAGE VOWS, THEY DNT DO DAT

I had an Urhobo girlfriend back in the days. She was the best relationship I have ever had. I still regret why I didn't marry her. If I could turn back time, I would marry her even if all the OP said was true.

My brother OP, marry her is she is a good girl and not these pretending girls we have nowadays.

Efewestern:


Lol.. BRAH!

When it comes to Ladies/Relationships, I'm not that lucky, that's all I have to say, what about you?, married?

Oh, I've got a fiancée though.

SouthSouth1914:


The dogs I know are dogs from the west!! They jump and hump on anything..

You are just a pained dysfunctional birdbrain who had a terrible childhood.., if your mum sleeps around doesn’t mean everyone does..

perhaps ur mum is an urhobo woman and she accidentally fvcked ur grandfather and u were the result of that intercourse. u re worse than a bástard.

chenzen:
perhaps ur mum is an urhobo woman and she accidentally fvcked ur grandfather and u were the result of that intercourse. u re worse than a bástard.

This is exactly what happened to you!

OkpaNsukkaisBae:



Nollywood don wash ur brain abi?
Continue... Las las u go dey alright

What do you mean?

Jasonscoolari

Nyerhovwo101:

I wonder y u should be contemplating on cheating in the first place
First am an urhobo

Secondly u don't need to build a house for ur wife when she dies. She would be taken to the father's compound should u and ur children could not afford one. I really do not understand why u should be scared of this self or are u saying ur children would not be financially capable enough out of love build a house for their mum in the nearest future?

Thirdly, urhobo women they are one of the best u can think of getting married to,very supportive and hard working. Very cheap place to marry from With 120k u must have fulfilled everything on the traditional list if not even less (my friend spent 550k for both traditional and white wedding and I know those who have married for less)

As per cheating, do u suppose she will? My brother if u love her this are not issues at all....

wow.. what a nice advice, you can do better by addressing your own situation.

Divay22:
Jasonscoo.lari

How are you Princess?