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Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Divay22(f): 5:09pm On May 11, 2019
JasonScoolari:
How are you Princess?
Finally o cheesy cheesy cheesy grin
I'm doing good and you?
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by JasonScoolari: 5:09pm On May 11, 2019
Mariangeles:
@Jasonscoola.ri, your input is direly needed here
Lol, make Op follow e heart. smiley
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by JasonScoolari: 5:10pm On May 11, 2019
Divay22:

Finally o cheesy cheesy cheesy grin
I'm doing good and you?
Very well, seems you miss me here. cool
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Divay22(f): 5:12pm On May 11, 2019
JasonScoolari:
Very well, seems you miss me here. cool
Hmmmm
I did tongue So good you're back.
Hope you bought something for me cheesy
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by JasonScoolari: 5:16pm On May 11, 2019
Divay22:

Hmmmm
I did tongue So good you're back.
Hope you bought something for me cheesy
Yeah, atleast I am better than your lifeless tight-fisted president who will travel to London for 2wks and will return without bread.
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Divay22(f): 5:26pm On May 11, 2019
JasonScoolari:
Yeah, atleast I am better than your lifeless tight-fisted president who will travel to London for 2wks and will return without bread.
You too get wahala.

Another travel loading for you grin grin
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by JasonScoolari: 5:30pm On May 11, 2019
Divay22:

You too get wahala.

Another travel loading for you grin grin
I will prefer a one-way ticket this time and I don't mynd taking you with me.
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by JasonScoolari: 5:46pm On May 11, 2019
Efewestern:


Such don't hold water again, those days before you marry an Urhobo lady you are expected to perform some certain rituals, like killing a goat (Using the blood to wash the couple's feet or spilling it at the entrance of the man's home) and some other stuffs, the essence of that is because, Marriage to the Urhobo is sacred and we frown at ladies infidelity. But 98% present day Trad wedding no longer follow these customs, citing some excuses like "Christianity" etc. So OP has no worries.

And yes, If Our daughter dies in your state, you are expected to bring her back home, and explain to us how or what killed her.

SKYZZZ go ahead with the marriage, you have no worries, Ladies from Delta state are hardworking, be you Urhobo, Anioma, Itsekiri, Isoko or Ijaw.
Mariangeles, Efewestern is my own blood and he has just explained everything.

My political enemies write a petition against me and had me suspended....
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Divay22(f): 5:47pm On May 11, 2019
JasonScoolari:
I will prefer a one-way ticket this time and I don't mynd taking you with me.
I know that's your plan.
You know what sad I'm going tongue
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by JasonScoolari: 5:48pm On May 11, 2019
Divay22:

I know that's your plan.
You know what sad I'm going tongue
Lol, she's scared. wink
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Mariangeles(f): 5:48pm On May 11, 2019
JasonScoolari:
Mariangeles, Efewestern is my own blood and he has just explained everything.

My political enemies write a petition against me and had me suspended....
ok smiley
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Divay22(f): 5:49pm On May 11, 2019
JasonScoolari:
Lol, she's scared. wink
grin grin grin grin
In your dreams
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by JasonScoolari: 5:57pm On May 11, 2019
Mariangeles:
ok smiley
Hope you'll like to marry a fearless man from my beautiful state?
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by JasonScoolari: 5:58pm On May 11, 2019
Divay22:

grin grin grin grin
In your dreams
You better MYND yourself. smiley
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Broadmind: 6:02pm On May 11, 2019
Your girl is in the best position to give you details if she really want to settle down with you.
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Efewestern: 9:39pm On May 11, 2019
JasonScoolari:
Mariangeles, Efewestern is my own blood and he has just explained everything.

My political enemies write a petition against me and had me suspended....

Me self come they wonder where u run go since, welcome back Bro.

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Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by JasonScoolari: 9:45pm On May 11, 2019
Efewestern:


Me self come they wonder where u run go since, welcome back Bro.
Oniovò, Vwè Kobirò jare. I go invoke David Ejoor spirit go torment the mod. cool
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Efewestern: 9:49pm On May 11, 2019
JasonScoolari:
Oniovò, Vwè Kobirò jare. I go invoke David Ejoor spirit go torment the mod. cool

Probably some people pained by your posts on here, lol. keep tormenting them, I've got your back
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by JasonScoolari: 10:02pm On May 11, 2019
Efewestern:


Probably some people pained by your posts on here, lol. keep tormenting them, I've got your back
Lol, and I will so make that barbecue guy suffer in this forum. grin

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Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Divay22(f): 9:53am On May 12, 2019
Efewestern:


Probably some people pained by your posts on here, lol. keep tormenting them, I've got your back
Yeah right!
Encourage him angry
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Mace0lane: 10:41am On May 12, 2019
You are raised by a family of liars.
Every member of your family that is a party to the lie of you having to build a house for your wife at whatever stage in life must die an agonizing death for telling shameless n glaring lies.

Everyone commenting on the first page already disclosed buildingnof house for the wife is completely false but you are still whining about what you lying father told. I already sensed you must be from a family of liars who get their joy by denigrating others, such a shameless family you have.

The other clown shouting nonsense culture if we dig up your Igbo culture there will be more than a million nauseating shii to talk about from the foolish ones in your tribe making the wife of the deceased drink water used in cleaning to the shameless Aso culture you still practice in this 21st century.

SKYZZZ:
Good day every one!

Straight to the matter.

I'm an Igbo guy currently dating an Urhobo girl whom I intend to marry. But the issue of custorm and tradition is becoming a barrier to my plans.


It is widely known that if an Urhobo woman cheats on her husband, her children including her husband may start falling sick and may die in the process if she doesn't confess.

Urhobo ladies are not buried in their husband's place, they're taken to their home town for burial, this I don't have issues with.

Is it also true that you must build a house for her people before she is buried?

Please, I need advice and information from Urhobo people and people already married to Urhobo ladies.

My girlfriend is a good girl, but my family keeps pointing at these traditions as a way of telling me to watch before I leap.

Advice please....
QueenSekxy:
Nonsense tradition.
SKYZZZ:

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Thanks for your input.

I don't know if the custom of building house for inlaws varies from place to place among the Urhobo people.

Honestly, this stuff happened to a church member, my dad also asked someone about it and the person confirmed it that it also happened to their family member who married an Urhobo lady.

I'm a little confused right now
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Efewestern: 2:03pm On May 12, 2019
Divay22:
Yeah right! Encourage him angry
grin, I'll always support a bro
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Divay22(f): 2:23pm On May 12, 2019
Efewestern:


grin, I'll always support a bro
Lemme call the mod that does his traveling magic for him to include you na abi cheesy wink grin
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Efewestern: 4:07pm On May 12, 2019
Divay22:

Lemme call the mod that does his traveling magic for him to include you na abi cheesy wink grin

It's like the mod isn't scared of some faces, I go change am follow them 2 sec. grin

Happy Sunday!

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