peelovee:

We will count 2 years by next month.
He proposed and I accepted!

The issue here is that he always collect a huge sum of cash from me(to solve family problem, settle issues, etc) all in the name of borrowing but will never pay back .

I never ask him, but expected he will pay as promised. Recently he said I should borrow him 20,000 that he must surely pay back once he recieved his salary. I refused, but later after he lamented I did borrowed him. When it was month end I ask him , he said first week, when it was first week I asked again!
he was shouting and telling me that since i have accepted his proposal that we are one and that i am suppose to take kia of him and his family to buy the familys mind so as they loved me.
I quietly left him and went to my place after 3 days he called that i should make sure i come to the house, I went reaching he said he missed me after he might have finished eating the food i prepared with his eyes gaze on my face (he wanted to make luv) to sex, which i refused.

J[b]ust this week, he called me and was lamenting that he need 30,000 to settle and important issue, which he is not ready to share with me, his telling me he will tell me after he might have settled it.
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I told him I don't have any money with me not to talk of borrowing .
He said I should borrow from my friends, that he doesnt want to know how i get the money, his concerned is to solve the problem at hand.

Ever since this week i have been asking myself this questions, Is this guy really in luv with me to the extend of propossing and ready to marry me?
or 

NLs Please  I ned your kind advice

Ebonyeyes:

We are talking about a situation of man-digging proportions. Yet these broke down NL clowns who dont have 10,000 naira to their names come here bleating about how wimmen are the woes of the world because they spent 2,000 naira on one.

LOVE.4BUG:

@ Ebonyeyes wetin come be your own na abi you no happy say pple the encourage the chic to move on abi na you be the guy in question?

jennykadry:

No he doesn't love you. He has proposed and hasn't married you yet. Honestly the proposal was just a trick to set you into believing that he is going to be your husband one day. A man who borrows alot from you obviously cannot afford a wedding not to talk of a family. STop wasting your time and move on

dobodobo:

Have you heard of dating scam,if you are hearing MAGA everywhere,Just accept they were referring to you,MAGA is someone who you date and scam for cash,the guy have been scamming you for Cash N free Kitty. you will regret ever knowing him someday, even I that bleeped other girls, I still spend more on my girlfriend and make her feel like a queen and I have never collected anything in return, even a day when she bought a gold chain and wrist watch for me,I rejected it and I told her I am a man and I need to prove myself as a strong guy and will try to take care of her responsibility even if she going to hurt me in future or not but I will still be responsible as long as I am with her, if I have to go give a club girl 2000 naira,then I will be given my girl 5000 to 10,000 without her asking me, so give yourself brain and don't be mumuful

SA Goddess:

So your "almost husband" thought you would be foolish for his non-existant love forever, what a rude awekening he got!

SA Goddess:

He should have known his naive girl would wise up soon enough!

Hey ses, you good? Long time!