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Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by fubiluv: 4:23pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
That Guy does not love you. And will not marry you at the end. He is just deceiving you for as long as he could,and eating your money. Run for your dear life!!he is a thief,a lier and a serious Gold digger.You deserve better. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by TewMuch: 4:32pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
peelovee: Are you Nigerian? This is suprising to see a Nigerian girl fall hard for this. OP, you are the biggest maga. When a guy is demanding money like that, there is usually a female leech on his neck. SO you are probably paying the money to another sharp girl that is squeezing his neck for money. . Go and find a man more on your level (has a job or legit source of income), with a stable and comfortable family. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by peelovee(f): 4:35pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
NLs thx for advise |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by JstTinking: 5:03pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
Please girl , just dissappear from his life!!!! Some Guys use marriage proposal to make girls shut their eyes to so many wrong things they do. Dont see the big deal if my bf wants to lend some money from me, but when he does not pay back?? and also shouts on you when you ask for it back?? Haba!!! No respect dear and a big sign of cunning which you dont need. Do u need to buy over his relatives? alright o!, if u need to, then when u get married to him, you wud be their doormat and greatest servant. we hv seen cases where the opposite and its bliss. Swtheart, dont rush into marriage!!! Even if u leave the marriage, there would always be a scar. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by Omolola1(f): 5:06pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
And scars don't heal on time~ |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by Nobody: 5:14pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
We are talking about a situation of man-digging proportions. Yet these broke down NL clowns who dont have 10,000 naira to their names come here bleating about how wimmen are the woes of the world because they spent 2,000 naira on one. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by degubi(m): 5:43pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
Leave the young man now before you are shattered completely. The fearful part of this issue is that he might be using the money you are giving him as support to organize his wedding to another lady that you are unaware of. One day you will wake up to see him walking down the aisle with another lady in tow and you will be cast aside. A lady i know committed sucide just after the slowpoke who promised marriage took off with all the funds she had given him (she even had to steal secretly from her office to meet the guys needs). Even if he promised you undying love and fidelity he should still be able to take care of his needs, besides by demanding so much from you he has not shown himself to be able to provide for you and the children you might have with him. Such a man does not cut the picture of a responsibile partner. THE MAN IN QUESTION DOES NOT LOVE YOU AND THAT IS THE HARD TRUTH. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by LOVE4BUG(f): 5:50pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes: @ Ebonyeyes wetin come be your own na abi you no happy say pple the encourage the chic to move on abi na you be the guy in question? |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by Nobody: 5:58pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
LOVE.4BUG: Miss love-bug, my post is in support of the people accusing the man of being a man-digger. I just added the second comment for the NL |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by InkedNerd(f): 6:06pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
@OP: My dear, I am highly disappointed that after this man has treated you like this you are wonderin if he loves you. HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU and he probably NEVER DID. He is using you for money and for s.ex. What kind of man [or even woman] would tell their partner to go borrow money from friends just for their sake? Does he not have friends of his own to borrow money from? Please my dear, I HIGHLY suggest that thing that calls himself a man a find someone who will appreciate you and not your pocket book. Ebonyeyes: Preach girl!!! Preach!!! Let 'em know!!! I know some of you guys on NL will probably say that women do the same thing to men, well that doeasn't make it ok. Whether a man or a woman is doing is irrelevant. Its still wrong no matter who does it. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by Nobody: 6:35pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
@poster thats what happened when "desperate to marry" women get played. it only takes these few words("would you marry me" to have them sing and dance to whatever tune they like. here is the best part for you to know: the day he clearly see that you cant help him financially any longer, will be the day he'll dump your a$$. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by Loveaflame(m): 9:35pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
My dear are that desperate to hang on to a guy at all cost? That really shows is either you don't know your worth or you still lack great self esteem. For goodness sake shine your eyes and read the hand-writings on the wall. If you truly value your heart condition please let him go and pray for a better guy who will accept you for who you are and not for what you have. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by uglyBetty1(f): 10:22pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
I 1 Like |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by uglyBetty1(f): 10:27pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
For me, i HATE guys that ask Ladies for money, so my dear, the best thing to do, don't give him when he asks and see his reaction, because to me, i don't think he loves you, i think he loves your money more. If possible, Quit before you will marry him and become the money making factory and he will relax and eat your money. God forbid bad thing. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by selena(f): 10:36pm On Sep 23, 2010 |
I beg you in the name of God,pls leave this guy for good.Nothing good would come out of the relationship.do not settle for less.He is the man,the one that i supposed to cater for your needs.Leave him pls.You will find someone special and better.That is my prayer to you.Pls,leave him.He is no good. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by Girl846(f): 1:35am On Sep 24, 2010 |
Its a shame, its like some women get their minds clouded as soon as "marriage" is mentioned and they disregard suspicious signs. But you are smarter than that. Follow your instinct - he is using you! The only man you should always render financial and sexual favors to is your husband! You are not married to this man so you don't owe him anything! He sounds so inconsiderate. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by mamagee3(f): 1:39am On Sep 24, 2010 |
jennykadry:Oh God! This cracked me up really bad. . .good advice by the way! |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by saintneo(m): 4:34am On Sep 24, 2010 |
[size=38pt]RUNAWAY![/size] that's my simple advice |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by peelovee(f): 8:50am On Sep 24, 2010 |
I really apreciate all advise. Thxs NLs |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by mkpuluma(f): 11:30am On Sep 24, 2010 |
nikkykaf has said it all. d guy doesnt love you, just intrested in your money dear sister run as fast as ur legs can carry you. God will surely give you a man after your heart. cheers! |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by nuga10: 11:58am On Sep 24, 2010 |
dobodobo:totally agree wit u bt your type na rare breed |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by peelovee(f): 2:43pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Thx NLs 4 d advise |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by lamis(f): 6:08pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Big thief ,dats nt luv |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by Beync(f): 11:08pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
@poster, niky said it all. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by Obimek: 5:03pm On Sep 25, 2010 |
@ poster NL members have said it all. U need to act right away. U are supposed to be telling us now what happened after quitting the relationship! We are waiting for the story and not the appreciation. |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by peelovee(f): 11:19am On Sep 27, 2010 |
luvly quiting text TO MY EX BOBO [/b]s My luv, It may mavelled u dat I have to say goodbye 2 dis relationship when we needed ourself most. I have no much reason, but the truth remains dat your government no longer suits me. I never regret of knowing u but u might say u regret of knowing me, all the same from 23/9/10 all feelings are put 2 an end. bye bye. peelovee. He called immediately to confirmed if I actually sent him the text, I told him yes MR. I sent you that text and i ment everyword i said. He quickly came to my place he called on phone ' [b] HNY I AM AT your GATE, I ask him what your u doing there? TO SEE YOU, I told him i was not around but i was in my room having a good browse on NL, HE SAID HNY I WILL WAIT BUT IS RAINING, your waiting has no meaning, HE waited for many hours and finally left. He thought I joking, the next day i recieved saveral called from unknown person calling on his behalf. I gave them FINAL WARNING OF THEIR LIVES. His mother called and said she want to confirmed if what she is hearing is true, I told her ma it is nothing but the real truth she said my daughter why? I told her bye bye ma and swith off my MTN line to my GLO. When I put my MTN Line, my phone rang I picked to say hello I heard HNY I AM ON MY BENDED KNEELS PLS TEMPER ME MERCY WITH JUSTICE, I gave him the final warning of his life he never expected from me, he ended the call. HE said he never believed in his life I will be so heart harden. To him it is like a DREAM |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by SAGoddess: 11:57am On Sep 27, 2010 |
So your "almost husband" thought you would be foolish for his non-existant love forever, what a rude awekening he got! |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by sesman(m): 12:43pm On Sep 27, 2010 |
SA Goddess: rude awakening indeed |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by SAGoddess: 12:46pm On Sep 27, 2010 |
He should have known his naive girl would wise up soon enough! Hey ses, you good? Long time! |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by sesman(m): 12:49pm On Sep 27, 2010 |
SA Goddess: exactly, am good goddess thanks for asking, how are ya? |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by SAGoddess: 1:01pm On Sep 27, 2010 |
I am super man, can't complain about much really! Keep well, don't be a stranger! |
Re: Do He Really Luv Me Or! Plz Advise by okeymadu(m): 1:01pm On Sep 27, 2010 |
@OP. That's good but he will still come back again - to beg. He will buy you gifts he has never bought before . DO NOT BE FOOLED. Never return to that relationship! |
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