Is it right to tell a lady that you are dating when you hit it big contract wise?

Or do you hide the news?


When the millions come in, do you say it or do you show it or hide it?


Is it ok to give her blow by blow accounts of the progress of your deals?

Or keep giving her money on normally as if nothing has changed?

Backstory:

You date her, she likes you, you are not yet there financially, but you hustle real hard, you are in business not employment.

You can survive but you can't be extravagant.



Argue for and against with experiences.

I'll prefer to tell. I have my reasons which I won't want to disclose

If u tell ur babe
U HV tell ur village pipu

Women wey dem no get control over their tongue... I fit manage tell my wife sha.

No need to her, let your care towards her do the talking.

It depends on the type of babe you have. It's when you tell some you have millions that they would remember they have problems that worth's hundreds of thousands

FEGEITOK:
Is it right to tell a lady that you are dating when you hit it big contract wise?

Or do you hide the news?


When the millions come in, do you say it or do you show it or hide it?


Is it ok to give her blow by blow accounts of the progress of your deals?

Or keep giving her money on normally as if nothing has changed?

Backstory:

You date her, she likes you, you are not yet there financially, but you hustle real hard, you are in business not employment.

You can survive but you can't be extravagant.



Argue for and against with experiences.

Don't tell. Her but treat her more specially... Invest more with that money... When it's time, make her ur wife and then u can start telling her everything.... But for now, just treat specially than before and don't use that to cheat on her coz u Don arrive.

Prepare for life after marriage... Very important

Timekeeper:



Don't tell. Her but treat her more specially... Invest more with that money... When it's time, make her ur wife and then u can start telling her everything.... But for now, just treat specially than before and don't use that to cheat on her coz u Don arrive.

Prepare for life after marriage... Very important

Nice thoughts.

An elderly woman advised, don't tell.

A lady friend said if you have money, it will announce itself, even if the guy is silent.

holuwasheyiWGP:
It depends on the type of babe you have. It's when you tell some you have millions that they would remember they have problems that worth's hundreds of thousands

Been here.... that's why I went ghost mode once....but saying it can reveal a lot about her... don't you think?

Davash222:
No need to her, let your care towards her do the talking.

Modesty? Or discretion?

Sundrus:
Women wey dem no get control over their tongue... I fit manage tell my wife sha.

Discretion I guess?

OkpaAkuEriEri:
If u tell ur babe
U HV tell ur village pipu

Discretion?

Don't tell her, you will be creating more problems to yourself if you do.

dingbang:
I'll prefer to tell. I have my reasons which I won't want to disclose

A part of me wants to tell

Another part doesn't want to

FEGEITOK:
Is it right to tell a lady that you are dating when you hit it big contract wise?

Or do you hide the news?


When the millions come in, do you say it or do you show it or hide it?


Is it ok to give her blow by blow accounts of the progress of your deals?

Or keep giving her money on normally as if nothing has changed?

Backstory:

You date her, she likes you, you are not yet there financially, but you hustle real hard, you are in business not employment.

You can survive but you can't be extravagant.



Argue for and against with experiences.

If you tell, her demand will cripple you. She ll remember she's not bought that phone, clothes etc.

Women are naturally materialistic, more money means more spending to them

u don't tell by words,
u tell by actions

Do you think rich men tell their wives the very source of their wealth? They just know the business line not every details. Why?
1. Ladies actually doesn't care how you make your money nor the nitty gritty of what you do, just bring the money home! If they starts asking questions it means something is fishy or you ain't bringing enough.
2. Ladies needs are insatiable. They are just like leaches, always want more!. They are all extravagant, but only toned down to adjust to your purse.
3. Ladies don't believe guys when money is involved. They believe u only reveal fractions of your actual worth, that is why they don't believe u when you say u are broke.

In summary, remember the rule of thumb; work hard, be positive and keep your mouth shut.

If your money never reach Gates own, keep shot before she demands for private jet.

.

Seems you want to be relegated to the background

FEGEITOK:


Discretion I guess?

yeah

My dear... you berra keep quiet. If the case was reversed, she wouldnt tell u. As love dey catch me reach, I told her before i started all my businesses, problems in my business, my office stories, my resignation and new job. I told her virtually everything about my life... Only for me to learn some weeks back that this babe has been keeping her stuff very private. I felt betrayed, used, foolish and dumb. Never again will that happen to me. Dont tell anybody about your finances esp your babe or any girl in your life. Dont even tell her about your plans.

Did you read about that dude who got a job in Malaysia and he told his gf, the gf hid his travel documents so he couldnt go. I didnt learn. Experience has taught me.

Dont tell... Keep your mouth shut..

If shes your wife, tell her a fraction of the truth. Women are unbelievable.

Like telling who? Is she us wife?..u r funny....how sure are u that u will later wife her.. Let's be realistic... Keep ur damn mouth shut! .....this is ur testing period... Test her to know the level of love she has for u
Telling her abt ur achievement can only increase demand and her expectations
Save ur money for the future ....until u wife her be spending wit calculator in ur head... Don't allow love cloud ur sense of reasoning.... Am also a gal...morning

Phenomenal16:
Like telling who? Is she us wife?..u r funny....how sure are u that u will later wife her.. Let's be realistic... Keep ur damn mouth shut! .....this is ur testing period... Test her to know the level of love she has for u
Telling her abt ur achievement can only increase demand and her expectations
Save ur money for the future ....until u wife her be spending wit calculator in ur head... Don't allow love cloud ur sense of reasoning.... Am also a gal...morning

Oh dear... Coming from a girl....that was quite strong....but you made sense....thanks again

Phenomenal16:
Like telling who? Is she us wife?..u r funny....how sure are u that u will later wife her.. Let's be realistic... Keep ur damn mouth shut! .....this is ur testing period... Test her to know the level of love she has for u
Telling her abt ur achievement can only increase demand and her expectations
Save ur money for the future ....until u wife her be spending wit calculator in ur head... Don't allow love cloud ur sense of reasoning.... Am also a gal...morning

damn right

FEGEITOK:


Been here.... that's why I went ghost mode once....but saying it can reveal a lot about her... don't you think?

Just study her carefully

ranmoor:
Do you think rich men tell their wives the very source of their wealth? They just know the business line not every details. Why?
1. Ladies actually doesn't care how you make your money nor the nitty gritty of what you do, just bring the money home! If they starts asking questions it means something is fishy or you ain't bringing enough.
2. Ladies needs are insatiable. They are just like leaches, always want more!. They are all extravagant, but only toned down to adjust to your purse.
3. Ladies don't believe guys when money is involved. They believe u only reveal fractions of your actual worth, that is why they don't believe u when you say u are broke.

In summary, remember the rule of thumb; work hard, be positive and keep your mouth shut.

In summary

Bring the money

Don't say how you made it.

She can only demand from you to the extent she believes your purse can handle, so a lot depends on what you share with her information wise.

Offpoint1:
If your money never reach Gates own, keep shot before she demands for private jet.

Discretion then!

nicepoker101:
Seems you want to be relegated to the background

Explain... I'm lost

femi4:
If you tell, her demand will cripple you. She ll remember she's not bought that phone, clothes etc.

Women are naturally materialistic, more money means more spending to them

Noted with thanks

boiz2men:
My dear... you berra keep quiet. If the case was reversed, she wouldnt tell u. As love dey catch me reach, I told her before i started all my businesses, problems in my business, my office stories, my resignation and new job. I told her virtually everything about my life... Only for me to learn some weeks back that this babe has been keeping her stuff very private. I felt betrayed, used, foolish and dumb. Never again will that happen to me. Dont tell anybody about your finances esp your babe or any girl in your life. Dont even tell her about your plans.

Did you read about that dude who got a job in Malaysia and he told his gf, the gf hid his travel documents so he couldnt go. I didnt learn. Experience has taught me.

Dont tell... Keep your mouth shut..

If shes your wife, tell her a fraction of the truth. Women are unbelievable.

One of the reasons for asking is addressed here.

Is that level of openness reciprocated?

If not, stop the openness from your own end

FEGEITOK:


Explain... I'm lost

Don't tell her