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Love Or Lust At First Sight by Abike2k6(f): 4:41pm On May 07, 2007

Ok people, which do you believe in? I choose lust, or just simply affection because I think love is a thing that develops, it's not instant.

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by marlet01(m): 8:38pm On May 07, 2007

I think u are wrong somewhere, maybe u may believe in Lust at first sight but i strongly believe in attraction at first sight.

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by Free(f): 9:16pm On May 07, 2007

yea theres diff lust at 1st sight

not love

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by cuteass1(f): 2:25am On May 08, 2007

Yea, i agree with you marlet01

Attraction is the right word!! wink

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by iice(f): 5:02pm On May 09, 2007

Attraction, then lust, then love and delusions grin

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by kiki(f): 5:06pm On May 09, 2007

Lust lust lust lust lust lust

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by marlet01(m): 6:21pm On May 09, 2007

You should know people see differently, You may see Lust but i don't believe in lust at first sight.

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by Abike2k6(f): 10:15pm On May 09, 2007

@ Marlet, haven't you ever seen someone and felt lustful?? You must be a saint if you say no! Lust is also a form of attraction

lol @ iice, ha ha. Delusions indeed

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by kike001(f): 1:00pm On May 10, 2007

lust

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by IBDat(m): 4:02pm On May 10, 2007

Honestly 4 me it can be attraction (damn she's fine - pretty, smart, dress sense, carisma, mannerism, lively etc) and lust (huba huba - titties n booty)
Don't blf in love at 1st sight or delusions.

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by dupebaby(m): 4:19pm On May 10, 2007

there is not such thing as love at first sight, it always the beauty that they see in someone and they think they in love, but deep down they not, it always Lust at first sight,

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by chiogo(f): 8:50pm On May 10, 2007

definitely lust at first sight.

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by cheekybabe: 9:20pm On May 10, 2007

I agree, Love develops after you know the person. At first sight there is some form of attraction (beauty, brain, mannerism, specific body part, etc, )

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by ihcihc(f): 2:05am On May 11, 2007

im an old romantic at heart and still believe in love at first sight!, pls do not burst my bubbles, I love being in lala land.

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by iice(f): 9:16am On May 11, 2007

ihcihc:

I love being in lala land.

enjoy!

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by Nobody: 9:34am On May 11, 2007

ihcihc:

im an old romantic at heart and still believe in love at first sight!,

yeah i also believe with love at first sight,
cos any body that refuse to take risk in live might not record any successes in live.

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by bebe2007(m): 9:48am On May 11, 2007

For me its not love but Lust tongue

at first sight. For those who say ATTRACTION, i think it comes under lust. What did the question say:LOVE OR LUST. Choose one. We could say attraction when we try to be refined but saying outward lust seems crude. Whats attraction anyway: To arouse interest/Pleasure. So you see, it can come under LUST depending on how you see it.

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by cuteass1(f): 9:15pm On May 11, 2007

bebe2007:

For me its not love but Lust at first sight. For those who say ATTRACTION, i think it comes under lust. What did the question say:LOVE OR LUST. Choose one. We could say attraction when we try to be refined but saying outward lust seems crude. Whats attraction anyway: To arouse interest/Pleasure. So you see, it can come under LUST depending on how you see it.

Thanks for straightening it out dear wink

How could we be so illiterate?? gosh!!

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by IBDat(m): 9:25pm On May 11, 2007

bebe2007:

For me its not love but Lust at first sight. For those who say ATTRACTION, i think it comes under lust. What did the question say:LOVE OR LUST. Choose one. We could say attraction when we try to be refined but saying outward lust seems crude. Whats attraction anyway: To arouse interest/Pleasure. So you see, it can come under LUST depending on how you see it.

That is the million dollar question - not all interest in the opposite sex are based on Lust and Love!
What if u're into someone because u like their personality, humour, attitude etc - Wut u lusting after those as well?

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by Nobody: 11:22am On May 12, 2007

well to cut this argument off,

every body is intitle to his own oppinon,

so it depend on how you view, it also depend on your own angle of view.

cos defrrent people in this world view thing at defferent angle

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by cuteass1(f): 12:55pm On May 12, 2007

nurexg:

well to cut this argument off,

every body is intitle to his own oppinon,

so it depend on how you view, it also depend on your own angle of view.

because defrrent people in this world view thing at defferent angle

Thanks jare . . to that i say there could be lust at first sight, and there could also be attraction at first sight. I refuse to believe it all goes under "lust", to me, lust is always "sexual", and NO its not each time i see someone it has anything "sexual" attached, to those i attribute "ATTRACTION"!!

Everybody is entitled to their own definition as long as you aren't hurting anybody with it wink

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by Nobody: 1:05pm On May 12, 2007

@ cut-ass thanks 4 reminding does that says attraction is lust

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by shadoghale(m): 5:54pm On May 12, 2007

For me it's lust at first sight, how can you love some one you do not even know, since I believe LOVE is: Listening to the other person, empathizing , communicating, understanding,etc Love is an action word!!!!You do love

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by Nobody: 10:24am On May 15, 2007

shadoghale:

Love is an action word!!!!You do love

E.G

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by sammyjl(f): 4:20pm On May 16, 2007

None, perharps like will be the more appropriate word.

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by Abike2k6(f): 10:36pm On Jun 10, 2007

Thanks for the response people

Re: Love Or Lust At First Sight by desodgi(m): 12:09pm On Jun 11, 2007

So what have u learnt so far?

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