lankka:
Guys i hv a misunderstanding with my g.f
We hv bn seeing since December last yr, she z cool, beautiful and educated nd works in a supermkt wit 35k as salary wit other benefits. Wen she comes around it's always fun cuz sh can cook well and also very lively to b with. I on the other hand is a biznes guy, stay alone in my hauz wit my lil sis wen sh z on holidays.
Due to my previous relationship i hv concluded nt to giv money to any g.f . My ex exploited d luv i hv fr her and my honesty abt my financial capability nd demands at d slightest opportunity. She kept on demanding nd demanding until i got tired nd called off d relationship, dat was wen i resolved nt to go d path of always giving again.
Ds particular gal came into my life nd was jus an opposite of my ex.
Though i live comfortably in my hauz bt i managed to convince hr dat my biznes z crumbling nd i hv little or no cash in my acct. She believed me nd stayed, and always encourage me nt to giv up. D only tangible money i hv given hr is 20k fr her to celebrate Easter cuz i traveled. Apart frm dat i only giv 5k fr her to cook wen sh z around bt in terms of giving money fr hr upkeep i haven't spent a dime and she doesn't complain either. She always say she can manage hr salary nd even sent me 5k wen sh received her April salary. Wen i asked hr y she did, she said i should jus manage it wit d little i make frm my biz. There is a day i dropped hr off in her hauz and after having a chilled juice she gave me 15k, she said hr bro Based abroad sent 200k to hr wit d instruction of giving 150k to hr mumsy then she wit 50k, i refused but she insisted.
D problem started last week wen she came around fr d weekend nd was watching a make-up movie on YouTube wit my fone. My bank sent me a refund of a failed transaction i had on the ATM and she opened d msg and saw my acct balance which is in millions and i don't even know.
She acted so cool nd we even made love dat night just that she told me i wasn't honest with the relationship. I asked and begged she tell me my loophole so i can make amends bt she was mute. She started acting cold nd left on Saturday morning instead of d normal Sunday evening, i asked her reason she said nothing. Even offered to drop hr off but she objected. If i call she wont pick nd i just discovered she blocked me on all her social media handles and blocked my lines. Mehn guys am so sad bcuz she z a gud nd nice gal, even got plans of seeing her mum by December bt she broke up.
Am nt a stingy type but i just don't wanna repeat d parasitic relationship i had wit my ex, datz y i faked my financial capability..
Lest i fgt she begged me 20k las 2weeks bt i lied that i dont hv. Ordinary 20k? Guys i bleeped up big time.
Plz advice me cuz i can't even go to shop nd my customers ar already calling. Should i beg hr to come bk or jus leave it that we're nt meant to b.
Am nt good at begging a gal to com bk but i kno fr sure dat it's all my fault ds time around cuz she never gave me a reason to doubt my luv fr her. If i beg hr to com bk mayb things won't b the way it used to or she may try to get bk at me.
Am emotionally broken down i swear.
Pls wat should i do and i will go with opinion of the majority here.
Am 28 nd she's 25..

waywardpikin:


All I can say is that if you go back to this relationship, get ready for all the billing that you have been running from since because she will so chop you ehn. She will chop you without mercy. I mean it ooo.

And what do you mean by ordinary 20k? 20k is not ordinary, young man. And from your story you even did a lot for her even though you told her you were broke. Though I like the fact that she also tried to reciprocate.

My verdict - Don't call her, don't beg her. You have a very valid reason why you acted the way you did, and whenever you guys get to talk, tell her what you went through in the hands of your ex and how you made a promise to yourself never to make the same mistake again. Say it as a matter of fact, not in a manner that seems you're begging. If she wan stay make she stay, if she wan go make she do, but don't beg or else...

SHE GO CHOP YOU O... REVENGE CHOPPING TINS

She has every reason to be angry, BUT you also have every right to act the way you did. The streets out there is military. In the end, it is what it is.

lankka:
Guys i hv a misunderstanding with my g.f
We hv bn seeing since December last yr, she z cool, beautiful and educated nd works in a supermkt wit 35k as salary wit other benefits. Wen she comes around it's always fun cuz sh can cook well and also very lively to b with. I on the other hand is a biznes guy, stay alone in my hauz wit my lil sis wen sh z on holidays.
Due to my previous relationship i hv concluded nt to giv money to any g.f . My ex exploited d luv i hv fr her and my honesty abt my financial capability nd demands at d slightest opportunity. She kept on demanding nd demanding until i got tired nd called off d relationship, dat was wen i resolved nt to go d path of always giving again.
Ds particular gal came into my life nd was jus an opposite of my ex.
Though i live comfortably in my hauz bt i managed to convince hr dat my biznes z crumbling nd i hv little or no cash in my acct. She believed me nd stayed, and always encourage me nt to giv up. D only tangible money i hv given hr is 20k fr her to celebrate Easter cuz i traveled. Apart frm dat i only giv 5k fr her to cook wen sh z around bt in terms of giving money fr hr upkeep i haven't spent a dime and she doesn't complain either. She always say she can manage hr salary nd even sent me 5k wen sh received her April salary. Wen i asked hr y she did, she said i should jus manage it wit d little i make frm my biz. There is a day i dropped hr off in her hauz and after having a chilled juice she gave me 15k, she said hr bro Based abroad sent 200k to hr wit d instruction of giving 150k to hr mumsy then she wit 50k, i refused but she insisted.
D problem started last week wen she came around fr d weekend nd was watching a make-up movie on YouTube wit my fone. My bank sent me a refund of a failed transaction i had on the ATM and she opened d msg and saw my acct balance which is in millions and i don't even know.
She acted so cool nd we even made love dat night just that she told me i wasn't honest with the relationship. I asked and begged she tell me my loophole so i can make amends bt she was mute. She started acting cold nd left on Saturday morning instead of d normal Sunday evening, i asked her reason she said nothing. Even offered to drop hr off but she objected. If i call she wont pick nd i just discovered she blocked me on all her social media handles and blocked my lines. Mehn guys am so sad bcuz she z a gud nd nice gal, even got plans of seeing her mum by December bt she broke up.
Am nt a stingy type but i just don't wanna repeat d parasitic relationship i had wit my ex, datz y i faked my financial capability..
Lest i fgt she begged me 20k las 2weeks bt i lied that i dont hv. Ordinary 20k? Guys i bleeped up big time.
Plz advice me cuz i can't even go to shop nd my customers ar already calling. Should i beg hr to come bk or jus leave it that we're nt meant to b.
Am nt good at begging a gal to com bk but i kno fr sure dat it's all my fault ds time around cuz she never gave me a reason to doubt my luv fr her. If i beg hr to com bk mayb things won't b the way it used to or she may try to get bk at me.
Am emotionally broken down i swear.
Pls wat should i do and i will go with opinion of the majority here.
Am 28 nd she's 25..

FiringSquad:
she is tired, that's all she's trying to say, if you're wise you'll let go.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Properly tired of his scheming lying ways. Silly men think all ladies are swayed by money.

stupidity:
pardon me, lying in what ways? That he doesn’t have money to really test the girls patience, loyalty and honesty? Isn’t this the same way ladies lie to some men about being celibate/virgin so as to test a guys love for them. If the guy stays. He’s for real, if he doesn’t stay, he was looking for fun. At the end of it all some guys still end up catching the said lady collecting steady dlck elsewhere.


We guys have a way of testing ladies patience and loyalty likewise ladies too. So don’t just start calling the OP a liar when you really didn’t know what he went through.

Edited: I’m not defending the OP because he’s male. I’d do same if the tables where turned

QueenSekxy:
Another open minded guy who knows her worth will appreciate her effort.

For 6 complete months, you were stingy to a lovely girl.
If I were to be her, 1week I'm out.

Amakavula:
Go and make money

KingSatan:



I AM SATAN BUT MAY GOD PUNISH YOU AND YOUR LIKES.

YOUR PUBLIC ROMANCE WITH STUPIDITY IS NAUSEATING.

IS A RELATIONSHIP A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAMME?

LOCAL LEECH

AwkaetitiBabe:
Probably y tired of his scheming lying ways. Silly men think all ladies are swayed by money.

stupidity:
lol. Why you deh use God curse her? Are you now powerless ni?

KingSatan:


I AM NOT POWERLESS, BUT WASTING PRECIOUS TIME ON A SLOWPOKE IS AGAINST MY PRINCIPLES.

I WONDER WHERE THIS GENERATION OF WOMEN ARE HEADED!

THE MAN IN QUESTION GAVE HIS GIRLFRIEND 20,000 NAIRA FOR EASTER CELEBRATIONS.

HE GIVES HER MONEY FOR COOKING ET AL. THE ONLY THING HE NEVER DID WAS GIVING HER MONEY FOR UPKEEP (HER ACCEPTANCE FEES IN THE NIGERIAN CONTEXT) AND SHE WAS OK WITH IT AND NEVER COMPLAINED (UNTIL NOW) BECAUSE SHE HAS A JOB.

THINK OF IT FRIEND, THE TOTAL MONEY SHE HAS ALSO GIVEN THE GUY IS 20,000 NAIRA TOO. 5,000 NAIRA FROM HER SALARY AND 15,000 NAIRA FROM THE MONEY HER BROTHER SENT.

SO WHY IS THIS LEECH ITCHING HER PVSSY?

KingSatan:



A MORALLY BANKRUPT IDIAT WILL NEVER READ A STORY BEFORE COMMENTING.

stupidity:
pardon me, lying in what ways? That he doesn’t have money to really test the girls patience, loyalty and honesty? Isn’t this the same way ladies lie to some men about being celibate/virgin so as to test a guys love for them. If the guy stays. He’s for real, if he doesn’t stay, he was looking for fun. At the end of it all some guys still end up catching the said lady collecting steady dlck elsewhere.


We guys have a way of testing ladies patience and loyalty likewise ladies too. So don’t just start calling the OP a liar when you really didn’t know what he went through.

Edited: I’m not defending the OP because he’s male. I’d do same if the tables where turned