Jamesolooks:
Hello.
I need serious help /advice. I think I am destroying myself because of an obsession with a girl that's with another man and it's obvious she didn't /doesn't love me(that's why she broke up with me).

I might sound so alarming but it's an emergency oo be I 'finish my life'

We dated during NYSC and after NYSC she broke up with me. I begged her to the extent that she blocked me on WhatsApp and even sms and phone calls. I call her mum. And informed her mum. Her spoke to her after 8 months of the' breakup' she unblocked me. And we started chatting again until she discovered I was teaching in a secondary school. She will then be giving polar answers like yes, Fine no etc. In short one word answers. I stopped calling or texting her for about 2 months until she called me asking me how I have been. I new there was something fishy. Then I started calling her again and she became worse. She will say she's busy that I should call back or she yawns as if she's asleep or about to fall asleep already. Then it dawns on me that I am now her EX. I became so sad it affected me the school I teach and even at home I started reacting aggressively to people around me. I became frustrated at school. That I had to tender my resignation. Later.



I became jobless and broke to negative point with a lot of bad debt.


I so much love this girl that the feeling of her with another man is Made me 'insane' I put out WhatsApp status for only her to see.

The truth is I know girl is not in love with me. But my mind keeps making me obsessed with her.
I am desperate to let her go but I don't know how please help.



Please pardon my disjointed sentence and tenses

Jamesolooks:
I so much love this girl that the feeling of her with another man is Made me act abnormal ' I put out WhatsApp status for only her to see. The truth is I know this girl is not in love with me. But my mind keeps making me obsessed with her.
I am desperate to let her go but I don't know how please help. Then it dawns on me that I am now her EX. I became so sad it affected me the school I teach and even at home I started reacting aggressively to people around me. I became frustrated at school. That I had to tender my resignation. Later. I became jobless and broke to negative point with a lot of bad debt.

madridguy:
The truth is I know girl is not in love with me.

So why the headache again bros?

Jamesolooks:
Hello.
I need serious help /advice. I think I am destroying myself because of an obsession with a girl that's with another man and it's obvious she didn't /doesn't love me(that's why she broke up with me).

I might sound so alarming but it's an emergency oo be I 'finish my life'

We dated during NYSC and after NYSC she broke up with me. I begged her to the extent that she blocked me on WhatsApp and even sms and phone calls. I call her mum. And informed her mum. Her spoke to her after 8 months of the' breakup' she unblocked me. And we started chatting again until she discovered I was teaching in a secondary school. She will then be giving polar answers like yes, Fine no etc. In short one word answers. I stopped calling or texting her for about 2 months until she called me asking me how I have been. I new there was something fishy. Then I started calling her again and she became worse. She will say she's busy that I should call back or she yawns as if she's asleep or about to fall asleep already. Then it dawns on me that I am now her EX. I became so sad it affected me the school I teach and even at home I started reacting aggressively to people around me. I became frustrated at school. That I had to tender my resignation. Later.



I became jobless and broke to negative point with a lot of bad debt.


I so much love this girl that the feeling of her with another man is Made me act abnormal ' I put out WhatsApp status for only her to see.

The truth is I know this girl is not in love with me. But my mind keeps making me obsessed with her.
I am desperate to let her go but I don't know how please help.



Please pardon my disjointed sentence and tenses
I sent it in a rush

Jamesolooks:
Hello.
I need serious help /advice. I think I am destroying myself because of an obsession with a girl that's with another man and it's obvious she didn't /doesn't love me(that's why she broke up with me).

I might sound so alarming but it's an emergency oo be I 'finish my life'

We dated during NYSC and after NYSC she broke up with me. I begged her to the extent that she blocked me on WhatsApp and even sms and phone calls. I call her mum. And informed her mum. Her spoke to her after 8 months of the' breakup' she unblocked me. And we started chatting again until she discovered I was teaching in a secondary school. She will then be giving polar answers like yes, Fine no etc. In short one word answers. I stopped calling or texting her for about 2 months until she called me asking me how I have been. I new there was something fishy. Then I started calling her again and she became worse. She will say she's busy that I should call back or she yawns as if she's asleep or about to fall asleep already. Then it dawns on me that I am now her EX. I became so sad it affected me the school I teach and even at home I started reacting aggressively to people around me. I became frustrated at school. That I had to tender my resignation. Later.



I became jobless and broke to negative point with a lot of bad debt.


I so much love this girl that the feeling of her with another man is Made me act abnormal ' I put out WhatsApp status for only her to see.

The truth is I know this girl is not in love with me. But my mind keeps making me obsessed with her.
I am desperate to let her go but I don't know how please help.



Please pardon my disjointed sentence and tenses
I sent it in a rush

Deepfeel:

Is she the reason you were born for? Is she the reason your parents trained you all the way from primary school to university just for you to meet her in NYSC and act like your life depends on her? Don't you have a career a dream a vision a goal you have set for yourself in live to archive, guy I hate this seriously no vex me with woman obsession you sound so pitiful for a man

Freehuman:


Now hold your ears and repeat this song after me :

Money is the key
Money is the key
Money is the master key
Ned Nwoko started with money and ended with money.
Money is the master key.

Brethren, go and sin no more.

lilwetdick:
Join MGTOW and alphamen gang on nairaland until you see another girl you like.

greatbrian:
Well... As stupid as it may sound i can feel ur pain. I i once asjed a lady out or 6 years plus infact until last year. Mine was not even obssession mine was true love. But with every heartbreak i learnt one big thing.

If you truly love a lady and she keeps are rejecting you, you aibt the one who lost. YOU LOST A LADY WHO didn't Love or care about you and she lost a guy who loved her so much and wanted ger happines and joy alone. So man up man the world z a beautiful place with lots of eve

Jamesolooks:
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MariaLavina:
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iLegendd:
How are you today?