jennykadry:

Please, i wasnt born to suffer. Thanks but no thanks

Why do I smell a gold-digger?

jennykadry:

And who is saying I am not going to acquire my own wealth or depend on my hubby for everything? You are threading off the point you raised. If a man proposes to a girl he is expected to provide a home for his family even if she earns more than him, it doesn't make his wife less a woman but brings about security in the marriage. The man is the pillar and should work as such even if he earns 20 naira per hour. It does not stop or prevent the woman from contributing in the house hold expenses.

You are a student right? how about u marrying a male student with "your acquired wealth" , pay for your house rent alone and pay for his fees as well. since you have got the wealth marry a man with it and not the other way round

chic2pimp:

This is Domestic Abuse!!!.
Sadly, we only hear about the cases where the Men are the perpetrator. I can gurantee you had a woman opened this thread and said the exact same thing the poster wrote, this thread woulda certainly gone past 3 pages.

Ujujoan:

That's because it's more rampant!

scud:

My guy, I am also in your shoe. If you are tired indeed, try to avoid problem but I will suggest the following:

1. Remove your ring- I just did that

2. If you are asked why-just tell her you can't remember that you are married because you don't have a wife

3. If she says what about her- tell her she's just the mother of your child(ren)

But you must just be ready for her to separate (not divorce now) from you. [size=20pt]Life is too good to be lived most especially if you are faithful husband than to be killed in a marriage by a problematic wife.[/size]

Please don't hit her, I almost hit my own this morning before I remembered that she can faint.

Gbam!!!! I hope some people are reading and learning.

harakiri:

@Poster

I feel very sorry for your situation.It is utterly pathetic.I wouldn't trade places with you for anything! ! !

@Topic

This is why i can NEVER consider that over glorified bondage called marriage until i am at least filthy rich and have lived my life to the fullest. Marriage should be about producing heirs to inherit WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE ON GROUND and not bring kids to the world and hope that "the god that brought them will take care of them". That's the way it was done back in the day. In today's world, we are brainwashed to believe that a working man and working woman are the ideal couple.WOMEN AND CHILDREN ARE MEANT TO BE CATERED FOR! ! ! Forget all the new age BS.All na nonsense.It doesn't matter how "enlightened" or well mannered the woman is.If your paper runs low (especially for a stretchy period of time), she will bring out the colors you don't wanna see.This is not a case of "not all women are not like that".Forget that crap.ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT AND THEY ARE JUST THAT. I know that there are a lot of woman wrappers on this thread that will counter this (as if that will get them laid with NL chicks). Real guys wey don see see see know whatz up!

Nuff said!

chic2pimp:

No one disputing that however the difference between Male and Female victims is not as big as people like to make out.
For Instance we all know that 1 in 4 Women are victims of Domestic abuse however little is said or known about the 1 in 6 male victims of domestic abuse.

kadman:

Wise words, but how old are you ? Just curious 

harakiri:

5 years older than you.

harakiri:

@Poster

I feel very sorry for your situation.It is utterly pathetic.I wouldn't trade places with you for anything! ! !

@Topic

This is why i can NEVER consider that over glorified bondage called marriage until i am at least filthy rich and have lived my life to the fullest. Marriage should be about producing heirs to inherit WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE ON GROUND and not bring kids to the world and hope that "the god that brought them will take care of them". That's the way it was done back in the day. In today's world, we are brainwashed to believe that a working man and working woman are the ideal couple.WOMEN AND CHILDREN ARE MEANT TO BE CATERED FOR! ! ! Forget all the new age BS.All na nonsense.It doesn't matter how "enlightened" or well mannered the woman is.If your paper runs low (especially for a stretchy period of time), she will bring out the colors you don't wanna see.This is not a case of "not all women are not like that".Forget that crap.ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT AND THEY ARE JUST THAT. I know that there are a lot of woman wrappers on this thread that will counter this (as if that will get them laid with NL chicks). Real guys wey don see see see know whatz up!

Nuff said!

All this venom for nothing.
Just because you don't want to get married does not make it BS and it does not make women fall into the unrealistic sweeping generalisation you have placed them under. I don't want kids, does it mean all kids are brats?
I respect your opinion but chill, dude.