Marriage is one of the oldest institutions on earth. It’s as old as man himself. But people marry for different reasons. In this article, I will be sharing the 16 reasons Nigerian men get married according to “Ada Bekee”, a popular influencer on Facebook.

Even though it sounds funny, I quite agree with her on this. And ladies, after reading this post, you would be able to tell why your hubby actually married you. Are you ready? Let’s do this…


16 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Married According To Ada Bekee

#1. The Ones That Married Because They Are Financially And Mentally Ready

The first category on the list are those who married because they are financially and mentally ready. Sometimes, these Nigerian men may not love the bride. But they want beautiful, tall, and intelligent children. After all, compatibility is everything.


#2. The Ones That Married Because They Want To Use The Wedding Ceremony As A Fund Raising Opportunity

These guys married because they believe it could be a fundraising business venture. In fact, they are hoping that Chief Obi would buy them a car and Emy Billionaire would give them money to build a house.



#3. Those That Married To Appear Responsible In The Society


These ones marry because of the prestige that comes with being a married man.



#4.The Ones That Married Because The Bride Is Pregnant For Them

These ones married because the bride is pregnant for them. It’s either because they want to do what they think is right, or because they are afraid of the threats they’ve received from her family.

#5. The Ones That Are Interested In The Bride’s Fame Or Fortune

It’s either the bride has personal fame and/or fortune or her family is powerful and influential. They don’t mind being houseboys for the bride and her family.



#6. Those That Think They Feel They Are Doing The Bride And Her Family A Favour

Some of these ones have a very annoying attitude. Every small thing “I’ll call off this wedding!”



#7. Those That Really Love The Bride and Are Under Pressure Not to Let Her Go

If they don’t have ‘shishi’, they don’t mind borrowing from anybody and everybody. They will be owing photographer, decorator, DJ, and caterer. If people don’t spray dem money, ‘wahala’ go dey.



#8.Those That Married Out Of Appreciation

The bride has been there for them through thick and thin and through lack and poverty. They want to show their gratitude by marrying her.



#9. Those That Married Because Someone Agreed To Marry Them With Their Shortcomings

After being jilted many times, they are thankful that las las, someone agreed to manage them.



#10. The ones that are just marrying for contract purposes

It could be that they need a green card and she has citizenship or they are pursuing a big contract and her father is in government.



#11. The ones that are marrying the bride out of fear

They’ve dated her for many years and they are afraid of what she is capable of doing if they try to dump her. As a matter of fact, they are trapped already and there’s nowhere to run to.



#12. The ones that married because they love their bride

They believe in happily ever after. And truly want to spend the rest of their lives with the woman they love and continue to make her as happy as they possibly can.



#13. The ones that marry because their family (Including extended) contributed money to facilitate their wedding

In most cases, the family takes matters into their own hands after getting tired of waiting for the uncle to marry.



#14. The ones that married because they’ve found very young or very timid girls

They want to snatch her before her ‘eyes will tear’. If they suspect that she’s a virgin, they die there! They want to be her first and hopefully, her last.



#15. The One That Married Because Of Other Reasons


These ones married because they want a sex machine, baby factory, personal chef, house cleaner, baby sitter, and laundrywoman all in one person. Their lifelong dream is to be lord, ruler, master, commander and controller of somebody’s daughter.



#16. The Ones That Are Marrying For Marriage Sake

For them, marriage is just a necessary evil and being married makes no difference. Their side chicks/dicks are not complaining. They get to eat their cake and have it.



These are the reasons Nigerian men get married according to Ada Bekee! What do you think? Drop your comment below.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/16-reasons-why-nigerian-men-get-married-according-to-ada-bekee/

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Marriage the biggest scam on Earth.

Marriage for Kongi-sake

What is LIFE*?
To understand life better, you have to go to 3 locations :

*1. Hospital*
*2. Prison*
*3. Cemetery*

At the Hospital, you will understand that nothing is more beautiful than HEALTH.

In the Prison, you'll see that FREEDOM is the most precious thing.

At the Cemetery, you will realize that life is worth nothing. The ground that we walk today will be our roof tomorrow.

*Sad Truth* : We all come with *Nothing* and we will go with *Nothing* ... Let us, therefore, remain humble and be thankful & grateful to God at all times for everything.

Good afternoon and have a blessed day.

number 3 is pure stupidity. the society says a married man is responsible even if he keeps side chicks . no wonder we are backward

denkyw:

Thunder will fire any idioot who quotes this long post

THAT THUNDER SHOULD FIRE YOU FIRST

over to the married men in the house.......I no fit relate

Hmmm so no one marry because of free sex

Number 17 : Those who married due to feeling pressured since all his friends are also married.
If only he cared to ask those his friends how they are enjoying the marriage, so he will be careful not to rush in and start regretting.

WHEN IT SEEMS Everything is Working against you

Many atimes in Life, We tend to Be Fearful and worried about Challenges going on in our Lives. You begin to Hear people say things as There is no GOD, Am tired of life and so on.

It may be that you are Are Expecting one Huge Breakthrough. Infact you were so sure that it has arrived , only for you to be disappointed.

It maybe that your friends and colleagues around you have hit it big with little or no effort and despite all your efforts you yield in little or Nothing

It May be that you are Child of GOD, you have been Saved but due to Happenings around your life,you no longer have faith and trust in GOD.

You don't need to Worry or begin to doubt GOD ALMIGHTY..
GOD ALMIGHTY Makes no mistake. HE IS PERFECT. HE IS REALIABLE, HE IS POWERFUL, HE IS DEPENDABLE..

The Solution.
1.Romans 8:28
" All things work together for Good to those that Love GOD"

All we need do is to Ensure that our Relationship with GOD IS INTACT. Even if the Earth is Falling, Never reduce your Trust in GOD. HE is Faithful to all who Trust HIM.

In other when your World seems to be Falling apart, what should be your Main concern Should be to Ensure that your Relationship with GOD Is intact.

2.There is an appointed time for Everyone who Has GOD ALMIGHTY as His/Her Trust.
See Genesis 18:9-14, Gen21:1-6
There is a Set Time for Our Favor, Blessings, Children,etc

But what happens is that Many of us tend to want to arrive before our Set time.

Anything done to Alter your Appointed Time will End in Bigger Problems..

In conclusion,
Stop Worrying yourself about this or that or Whatever. THE ALMIGHTY GOD knows You, HE knows your needs.

All we should bother ourselves with is Our Relationship with GOD..
Trust HIM With Everything..

At the Appointed Time , No Being, Demon or kingdom can Stop it.

Repent From all Sins, Accept JESUS CHRIST, Trust HIM with all of your Heart..

Your Set Time Has Come!!

After reading this am wondering why ffk married precious

I married cos i needed a descendant!

What a thread

Ok ooo

Ok

This list is not complete without adding us that got married to avoid sin and fornication . If you are with me , kindly indicate

failed thread!

Marriage is overrated.

Lol, you forgot the ones their daddy and pastors in the lord yoked together.

Which category do I fall into naw?

LillyVal:
What is LIFE*?
To understand life better, you have to go to 3 locations :

*1. Hospital*
*2. Prison*
*3. Cemetery*

At the Hospital, you will understand that nothing is more beautiful than HEALTH.

In the Prison, you'll see that FREEDOM is the most precious thing.

At the Cemetery, you will realize that life is worth nothing. The ground that we walk today will be our roof tomorrow.

*Sad Truth* : We all come with *Nothing* and we will go with *Nothing* ... Let us, therefore, remain humble and be thankful & grateful to God at all times for everything.

Good afternoon and have a blessed day.

Can you turn around please.....frontal is beautiful, let me see the back. PS, am not looking for rental. . You look good.

2 years with a kid now, but I can't remember why I got married. All I know is I am very happy with d family I have.