Every single woman should date multiple men. This doesn’t men sleep with, spend the night with, or even kiss multiple men.

Dating means dating. You allow each man you deem worthy to take you out in order to impress you enough for another date. Simple.

You meet ubunja this week and yet met ilegendd last week. You don’t choose one or the other, you let them both take you out and see who is the most impressive.

When men compete—YOU WIN. No excuse about how you don’t have the time or energy to juggle that many guys. If you can have ten tabs open on your phone and switch through four social media apps like it’s nothing, you can set up a date for Saturday and a date for Sunday.

It’s not that hard. What you’re doing is trying to play nice. You want to seem like a loyal woman. LMAO! You’re loyal to an actual boyfriend not a guy who’s taking you out to film-house for popcorn and a movie.

By dating multiple men, you level the playing field and keep yourself from being desperate. A woman with no options is more likely to settle than a woman with a roster.

It's not much so secret that the more jealous you can make a man, the better. I’m not talking about flirting with guys in front of him or telling him he’s the third date of the week.

Be smart and strategic. If he asks if you’re dating other people, tell him you’ve been testing the waters like any single woman should then flip it back on him.

If he wants to know more details about other men, be aggressive and stern by telling him to focus on the two of you because he currently has your attention. Basicas never do this because they are scared to death about turning a man off.

Spartans do it all the time because they understand that a man who knows he’s not your only option will work harder. Inside every grown man is a little boy that still has to be first. Use this knowledge!

Remain vocal, never become a “Yes Woman” who wants to just lay up under a man.

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https://www.nairaland.com/5384765/series-untold-secrets-season-1/1#81784680

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chenzen:


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You never really loved Ubunja did you?

chenzen:
Unbunja is the devil himself... l see u love hell a lot

chenzen:
Ubunja is the devils favourite demon. only if u choose to use ur time wisely perhaps u wouldn't be dwindling in this shambolic dimension of mediocrity.


very soon u ll be 40
pls don't be a fool.

What is the meaning of this? Everyday more nonsense

De agents I can see u from, when u start depreciating hope we pastor go rest

WTF!!!!! Like seriously OP must you be posting trash all they time.....

Chenzen is obsessed with ubunja

healthserve:
Chenzen is obsessed with ubunja

he's not the only one. Couple of male losers in this space are suffering from Ubunja Derangement Syndrome.

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May they get well soon.

ubunja:
he's not the only one. Couple of male losers in this space are suffering from Ubunja Derangement Syndrome.

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May they get well soon.

Lmao

Hahahahaha what should we call chenzen's threads these days, since it's solely for women

#thegreenpill

Always start your threads with the above

Your post is spot on by the way.

ubunja:
he's not the only one. Couple of male losers in this space are suffering from Ubunja Derangement Syndrome.

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May they get well soon.

lol

vastolord4:
What is the meaning of this? Everyday more nonsense

#thegreenpill

healthserve:
Chenzen is obsessed with ubunja

huh?

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There are things our fore fathers in olden days do then, I don't think some have an idea to it.

Life is good!

I FEEL SORRY FOR THE LADIES WHO LISTEN TO YOUR CRAP

Junkie1:
I FEEL SORRY FOR THE LADIES WHO LISTEN TO YOUR CRAP

why do u hate truths

adewake12:

Do not!! Your power and my innocence would do great things.

lmfao dude

ubunja:
he's not the only one. Couple of male losers in this space are suffering from Ubunja Derangement Syndrome.

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May they get well soon.

he is a woman hiding behind a male monicker

Nice one.

kurupt1:
he is a woman hiding behind a male monicker

u guys should be balancing this equation... stop the bias sentimental approach cos u ain't ladies... u hate this so much cos its plain truth... enough is enough. whether I am a guy or not I cannot shy away from truths.

THIS IS JUST SEASON 1, EXPECT IT TO GET UP TO SEASON 8 with 5000 episodes. more truths to unwrap!!!

Would it not be fairer if you just said everyone male & female should date multiple people the way you explained it?
That way, no one feels hurt by your topic

kurupt1:
he is a woman hiding behind a male monicker

oh crap.

But are you sure?

missjo:
Would it not be fairer if you just said everyone male & female should date multiple people the way you explained it?
That way, no one feels hurt by your topic

The Focus here are the LADIES. The guys can turn red or use words to vent their frustrations so I can quit but I wont till I m done. Thank God no one can strangle me through the internet neither can anyone beg me to stop.

ubunja:
oh crap.

But are you sure?

If I m, I would be dating all the guys in Nairaland by now... let me see how they ll rush to impress me with their much talked about millions. I wouldn't spare ubunja and ilegendd... I ll make sure their account balance runs into $0.01 balance.

Date multiple men but that does'nt mean sleeping with them


unfortunately, thats not the case with The Averrage Nigerian Girl.

they Bleep almost all the guys they date. Most especially when the guys flashes money before them.

OP plz do something good with ur time . Dis KONJI is now frustrating u, telling u to create many senseless threads , also find a girlfriend U NEED TO GET LAID QUICK B4 U COMMIT SUICIDE. I just feel ur severe pains bro

ubunja:
he's not the only one. Couple of male losers in this space are suffering from Ubunja Derangement Syndrome.

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May they get well soon.

get well soon or get laid soon ?

chenzen:
If I m, I would be dating all the guys in Nairaland by now... let me see how they ll rush to impress me with their much talked about millions. I wouldn't spare ubunja and ilegendd... I ll make sure their account balance runs into $0.01 balance.

yeah after they had made it sure your kpekus millage has ran 300,000 000
000 metres

skywalker240:
yeah after they had made it sure your kpekus millage has ran 300,000 000 000 metres

nah, lady s smart!!!

Amarallllll:

get well soon or get laid soon ?

laid by who?

Women don't give pussy to pussies.

chenzen:
nah, lady s smart!!!

not the averrage empty-brained Nigerian slay queen, which falls in the majority.