After all has been said and done, men take pride in telling a woman, "you won't marry like this"- if you support feminism or women's right.
Truth be told that is a last resort by men to bend you to do their bidding against your common sense.
This is a cheap form of bullying, tactics kids employ on each other and not for adults. If you are old enough to date as a man, and you still use this tactics to silence your fellow woman you should be ashamed. Bullying is a crime under United Nations, in fact “Being protected from bullying is a fundamental human right,” said Marta Santos Pais , Special Representative of the Secretary-General on Violence against Children UN. That been said sensible guys will toll accordingly.

Times change and we must change with the times, women's movement, feminism etc will not seize but grow from strength to strength daily, weekly, monthly and yearly. As hard a pill as this is for men to swallow, they must certainly still swallow it. Many men here will eventually marry feminists in one form or the other with time. You can't stop the TIMES, you can only DENY it.

The power dynamics in relationships have long swayed to the females side than to mens side. Some ladies may not yet realize this but it's true.
Men make it look as if it's easy to get into a new relationship or even find a bride these days unlike women. Men spends weeks, months even years wooing their crush to agree to their love proposal. Time is even more valuable than money because once spent cannot be recovered unlike money. Men not only spend time in this pursuit they also spend loads of money(they tag this as investment in hopes it will pay off later on)

Now ladies imagine the dissapointment he must feel when you still turn him down despite all these. It's very painful to fathom.

You must also realize that men see ladies as trophies to be won and displayed to the admiration of others, that is their fellow guys.
Of cause we are more than trophies, we are human beings but just to buttress my point a man who finds a woman he desires that agrees to marry him feels blessed cause many men tried but failed to win you (their treasured trophy).

The point is men are as vulnerable in relationships as women but they never like to highlight that point (but majority of romance post on nairaland will confirm my view) , truth be told even more vulnerable because they do most of the hard work in relationships, women are mostly the beneficiaries of relationship.

Lastly relationship status of either male or female should never be a yard stick to judge or discriminate against anyone. Marriage just like any personal pursuit (higher education etc) in life is a personal matter and everyone should be entitled to their choice.

Cc
Funmmyastic
Blackivy29
Guest007
Fountainofyouth
Seun

Lols....I don die...Who be this? Hahaha.
My people, I just weak o.

NiRfreak:
Lols....I don die...Who be this? Hahaha.

My people, I just weak o.

Don't die yet dear, not on my trend o

Sandra8:

Don't die yet dear, not on my trend o

I honestly dont know where to start with you..that why I was just laughing. But then, women and their hamster rationalizations though.. always funny.

NiRfreak:


I honestly dont know where to start with you..that why I was just laughing.
But then, women and their hamster rationalizations though.. always funny.

That's why we are women, hate us or like us you can't do without us.

Sandra8:


That's why we are women, hate us or like us you can't do without us.

Of course women have their role to tend our preeq and and make it squirt...but there's still boundary for them too

NiRfreak:


Of course women have their role to tend our preeq and and make it squirt...but there's still boundary for them too

Naughty, naughty. You still have loads to learn. What is sweet also kills don't kill yourself OK dear

Sandra8:


Naughty, naughty. You still have loads to learn. What is sweet also kills don't kill yourself OK dear

lol, I have load to learn.. lol. So na you go teach me about life abi.
I can't kill myself, I understand moderacy in life

NiRfreak:


lol, I have load to learn.. lol. So na you go teach me about life abi.
I can't kill myself, I understand moderacy in life

Love doctor, so you understand .so better start applying it

Sandra8:

Love doctor, so you understand .so better start applying it

of course there's time to fvck abundantly, and there's time to rest, and time to go celibate for personal reason.

NiRfreak:


of course there's time to fvck abundantly, and there's time to rest, and time to go celibate for personal reason.

I'm good with that just be faithful

Sandra8:
I'm good with that just be faithful

By Gods grace, even god knows that one is negotiable.

NiRfreak:


By Gods grace, even god knows that one is negotiable.

Allow God then to finish His work in you

Sandra8:


Allow God then to finish His work in you

Lols...which work? Is it the same God that created my mentors who are Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, David, Solomon?
I want to be like those men in all areas sha.

NiRfreak:


Lols...which work? Is it the same God that created my mentors who are Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, David, Solomon?
I want to be like those men in all areas sha.

Love doctor, check your account balance and compare it with theirs. Lie to me that they even resemble

Sandra8:

Love doctor, check your account balance and compare it with theirs. Lie to me that they even resemble

Wahala dey o..which one be account balance with the matters of God? una too like money. lol.

Meanwhile, in many respect, I'm like them sha

NiRfreak:


Wahala dey o..which one be account balance with the matters of God? una too like money. lol.

Meanwhile, in many respect, I'm like them sha

Lie lie . Well I expected you to say that. Oya double your hustle alaye

Sandra8:

Lie lie . Well I expected you to say that. Oya double your hustle alaye

Smh. I hope At least I will be allowed to have as many women as those men did have abi??

NiRfreak:


Smh. I hope At least I will be allowed to have as many women as those men did have abi??

It's like you like headache, you will have enough and plenty kids too father Abraham, father of nations

Sandra8:


It's like you like headache, you will have enough and plenty kids too father Abraham, father of nations

Na da one I no want sha....thank God for condom and contraceptive sha

NiRfreak:


Na da one I no want sha....thank God for condom and contraceptive sha

So you want many wives without many child?... Kolework, the women need fruit of the womb

Sandra8:

So you want many wives without many child?... Kolework, the women need fruit of the womb

Lol. Na there wahala go dey. Maybe its just concubines I want sha, like Solomon, Moses and Abraham

NiRfreak:


Lol. Na there wahala go dey. Maybe its just concubines I want sha, like Solomon, Moses and Abraham

You must marry them,unless kolewerk

Sandra8:

You must marry them,unless kolewerk

lols, you no times have changed, cos wives of nowadays will just kill the husband..unlike those men's wives that dint kill them

NiRfreak:


lols, you no times have changed, cos wives of nowadays will just kill the husband..unlike those men's wives that dint kill them

So you finally agree times have change. Exactly what I was telling your love doctor head in the very beginning.

Sandra8:


So you finally agree times have change. Exactly what I was telling your love doctor head in the very beginning.

but we can still find a means to at least get the dose of pvssy those men got na? ...Does modernity plan to sexually shortchange us? lol

The origin of this lies in the society and their beliefs towards women, fortunately, some women are not intimidated by negative comments thrown by the male folk. The earlier women learn to rise up against the negative concepts the society throws at them, the better for us.

Hahahahaha..... Girl, be careful how you reply some irrelevant comments, except you don't mind, the guy above me is a funny dude, he's just trolling.

NiRfreak:


but we can still find a means to at least get the dose of pvssy those men got na? ...Does modernity plan to sexually shortchange us? lol

Let's not live in the past. Forward ever backward....

LilMissFavvy:
Hahahahaha..... Girl, be careful how you reply some irrelevant comments, except you don't mind, the guy above me is a funny dude, he's just trolling.

Hello girlfriend .thanks for the advice but I think I can manage

LilMissFavvy:
The origin of this lies in the society and their beliefs towards women, fortunately, some women are not intimidated by negative comments thrown by the male folk. The earlier women learn to rise up against the negative concepts the society throws at them, the better for us.

Truest word spoken dear the hating don't bother me anymore and it shouldn't bother any of us either cause we are unstoppable

Sandra8:
After all has been said and done, men take pride in telling a woman, "you won't marry like this"- if you support feminism or women's right.
Truth be told that is a last resort by men to bend you to do their bidding against your common sense.
This is a cheap form of bullying, tactics kids employ on each other and not for adults. If you are old enough to date as a man, and you still use this tactics to silence your fellow woman you should be ashamed. Bullying is a crime under United Nations, in fact “Being protected from bullying is a fundamental human right,” said Marta Santos Pais , Special Representative of the Secretary-General on Violence against Children UN. That been said sensible guys will toll accordingly.

Times change and we must change with the times, women's movement, feminism etc will not seize but grow from strength to strength daily, weekly, monthly and yearly. As hard a pill as this is for men to shallow, they must certainly still shallow it. Many men here will eventually marry feminists in one form or the other with time. You can't stop the TIMES, you can only DENY it.

The power dynamics in relationships have long swayed to the females side than to mens side. Some ladies may not yet realize this but it's true.
Men make it look as if it's easy to get into a new relationship or even find a bride these days unlike women. Men spends weeks, months even years wooing their crush to agree to their love proposal. Time is even more valuable than money because once spent cannot be recovered unlike money. Men not only spend time in this pursuit they also spend loads of money(they tag this as investment in hopes it will pay off later on)

Now ladies imagine the dissapointment he must feel when you still turn him down despite all these. It's very painful to fathom.

You must also realize that men see ladies as trophies to be won and displayed to the admiration of others, that is their fellow guys.
Of cause we are more than trophies, we are human beings but just to buttress my point a man who finds a woman he desires that agrees to marry him feels blessed cause many men tried but failed to win you (their treasured trophy).

The point is men are as vulnerable in relationships as women but they never like to highlight that point (but majority of romance post on nairaland will confirm my view) , truth be told even more vulnerable because they do most of the hard work in relationships, women are mostly the beneficiaries of relationship.

Lastly relationship status of either male or female should never be a yard stick to judge or discriminate against anyone. Marriage just like any personal pursuit (higher education etc) in life is a personal matter and everyone should be entitled to their choice.

Cc
Funmmyastic
Blackivy29
Guest007
Fountainofyouth

uv only explained further and indirectly passively encouraged Men to stop such bully against d female gender, was thinking u ll actively boost their unmarried status confidence..


but all dsame, u try sha,.

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