spikedcylinder:

Sometimes, I think it is overrated. Selfish even. Especially if one is in a special type of relationship that entails not seeing one's partner for a long time. I begin to wonder, is it really fair to ask the person or yourself for that matter to be celibate for that long? I know people that haven't seen their husbands in 1, 2 years and they have been celibate the entire period.
That one na punishment.

Lol    Spikey!

See as you dey talk like say the thing na food!   

Remember the origin of sex was to procreate, we are just abusing it now as it is! If a woman decides to settle for such a marriage, she should be able to live with the consequences.

Me, I dont see why I would live in a different country from my husband. I mean what is so important? Aside from sex, men and women have other needs that should be satosfied by their partners. It's just not right!

LOl

Actually I understand . . . I mean who wouldn't . . . with a man like yours!

Ujujoan:

Lol    Spikey!

See as you dey talk like say the thing na food!   

Remember the origin of sex was to procreate, we are just abusing it now as it is! If a woman decides to settle for such a marriage, she should be able to live with the consequences.

Me, I dont see why I would live in a different country from my husband. I mean what is so important? Aside from sex, men and women have other needs that should be satosfied by their partners. It's just not right!

Please keep religion away abeg. Monkeys and what not have sex just like humans do as a form of past time. If you claim seexxxx was only designed for procreation, how come giving a blowjjjjobb feels just as good? After all, the mouth was made for swallowing and talking but not eating the magic stick or juciy hole?

You also forget that some people are just naturally Hot (Like myself) and sexxx ain't exactly a big deal.

OMO IBO:

Women and sex sef.
You'd think someone's holding a knife to their throats

Dude is honest and upfront  . . . . .he gets bashed.
Dude tells porkies, he still gets bashed.

Na wa ooo.

Spikedcylinder, wasere jare.

Abi o, one cannot win. Smh.

spikedcylinder:

I understand entirely what you are saying. As far as I am concerned, this is the true definition of calling a spade a spade.
In reality, both parties might love each other deeply but still cheat on each other like a buncha morafokers. It's only realistic to say that 'babes, whilst I love you, you can satisfy your carnal urges till we are on the same page geographically'.
I must admit that it'll take two extremely mature individuals to understand this kind of mentality and it might sting to hear it being said to you but in actual sense it is a totally selfless thing to say.
I don't know if you get my drift?

Gbam. I get your drift well well.

ElRazur:

@Ujujoan

Where is it a taboo to talk about the obvious, will you prefer I keep mute if you and I are involved in similar situation and pretend there is not much? Come on, if honesty is the best policy as my people talk, why can it not be applicable here.

Right.

Do you mind explaining why a "suggestion" is perceived as "asking to go and do it"?

Also, can you explain this "woman thing" to me?

Hehe, if only it was that easy to explain!! For some women it a preception thing. I guess if we suggest something we where thinking about it in depth before saying it cos some women are very deep thinkers and over think things. Speaking from experience, hehe!!! I have some woman friends that cant be faithful and see sex as purely physical and no big deal but for a lot of the others and myself it is much deeper than that.

Many people throughout history have tried to figure out women and explain us but my friend, we are very complicated creatures, hehe!!! I will come back and try to explain better. If any other ladies can help me out explaining that would be great, lol!! Sometimes we just dont make sense to you cos we are wired differenty. To long and complicated for a thread, lol!! I feel for guys that are trying to work us out, i cant give away too many secrets,

@poster, u want us to air our views ryt? Den pls allow us to do just dat nd not try to coerce us in2 agreeing wit u

@topic,
even if he said it good heartedly, i ll still cry foul. If he cares 4 me,he shouldnt think dat,much more say it. Ha

gree-die:

@poster, u want us to air our views ryt? Den pls allow us to do just dat nd not try to coerce us in2 agreeing wit u

@topic,
even if he said it good heartedly, i ll still cry foul. If he cares 4 me,he shouldnt think dat,much more say it. Ha

No vex o. Not sure I am forcing my view on anyone jare.

LOOOOOLLlLLLL
*just passing*. . .lwkmd!!!!

the guy's prolly been with someone else and wants the girl to do the same to relieve his own guilt

I see nothing wrong in what u said sha,
But watch your tongue next time,

Come and receive your punishment,